Second, share the outline:
1. The essence of Freud's psychoanalytic theory;
2. Freud's psychoanalytic theory is embodied in several key points of family education;
3. Freud's psychoanalytic theory allows us to better understand ourselves and accompany our children to grow up peacefully and happily!
Third, introduce yourself:
Ruan hongying
Mental trainer (psychoanalytic direction)
EAP (Employee Assistance Program) consultant and trainer.
Member of international EAP (employee assistance program)
Member of Guangdong Happy Family Promotion Association, public welfare lecturer.
Member of the International Association for Early Education
China Career Development Mentor
Marriage and family counselor
Co-founder of Tong Xin Tongde Mommy Club
4. What are the characteristics of each stage? What kind of support and help do we need to give our children at each stage?
We gave him full satisfaction during the greedy period. In this process of satisfaction, all we can do for safety and hygiene is to do a good job of hygiene, including washing his little hands.
Climbing slowly and turning over is also a relatively leap stage. After the beginning, you slowly lie down, turn over and then stand. This is also the key stage of the movement of his main organs.
At this stage, our parents need to give their children more things to meet an environment that allows them to fully exercise. Communicate with children more. For example, changing diapers for children should not be blunt, and you can talk and make eye contact.
Children at this stage of anus begin to look for their own partners to replace their mothers.
In this process, it is necessary to create a more harmonious and happy environment for children in peacetime.
The formation and development of personality are greatly influenced by family environment, which is also of special significance to the formation of children's personality.
In this friendship, it is accepted and appreciated. Get a safer and more harmonious growth environment.
At this stage of Oedipus, childhood children begin to have a strong sense of attachment to caregivers of the opposite sex, such as boys, who may particularly like to be with their mothers at this stage. Girls, on the other hand, especially like being with their father at this stage.
At this stage, when a child is absorbing knowledge, he is like a sponge. What kind of environment and knowledge did you give him? The child is particularly curious and wants to explore the world around him.
Then we ... can give our children more opportunities to explore the world while ensuring more safety. Don't restrict children too much.
Potential youth
At this stage, children begin to have some feelings about sex.
Parents don't need to avoid this problem too much. For example, boys may be more interested in their mother's body, or girls are more interested in their father's body than the opposite sex.
At this time, our parents can tell her some body structures in a peaceful way, such as picture books.
Adolescence, a young child, he has to prove that he has grown up and fight with adults.
We may need to know more about the child's performance at this stage and give him more support, including giving him some free space.