In Ode to Joy, Guan Guan and Fan represent two emotional extremes. One wants sweet love very much, and the other wants a suitable marriage very much.
It happens that many men are willing to marry her, but not many men are willing to fall in love with her, and they have dated many times. Although most of those men are not interested in her, they are still willing to keep in touch with her.
Because those men's parents are satisfied with Guan Guan, and Guan Guan is the ideal marriage partner in most men's minds.
On the other hand, Fan, although many men are willing to fall in love with her, even though she is 30 years old, there will still be men coming forward to chat up and associate with her, but no good man has been willing to marry her.
Fan didn't have a good boyfriend when she was young, but later people discouraged her from seeing her life story. Even Wang Baichuan, who had been pursuing her, was not very willing to marry her.
So in fact, Fan and Guan Guan are two extremes. Guan Guan envied Fan He's sweet love, and Fan envied that there were so many promising young people in Guan Guan who were willing to marry her.
They even spoke each other's deepest thoughts at the same time.
Although everyone knows that the other party is telling the truth, they are also very helpless.
Guan Guan has a good family and a good tutor. Besides, her mother stipulates that you are not allowed to fall in love until you graduate from college. So after graduation, Guan Guan has always been a single mother and fetus, without any love experience.
The reason for this is that customs clearance looks ordinary. In the original book, Guan Guan felt very inferior to his mediocre appearance, so he always wanted to talk about a sweet love.
At the same time, for 30-year-old Fan, she is still so beautiful and she is envious. Guan Guan's appearance is hard to attract the attention of boys at school, and it is the kind of good girl's personality, so even if she went to college, she had no emotional experience.
Later, she saw that everyone in Ode to Joy had a lover. Andy has Bao Yifan, Fan You, Qu Xiaoyu has Dr. Zhao, and yes, she is the loneliest one. At that time, Guan Guan was actually a little lost, so she wondered if she was not feminine enough, so men didn't want to fall in love with her.
So at that time, she wanted to sign up for a dance class, learn to dance and increase her charm as a woman, so she told Andy her thoughts.
Andy is very supportive of her, saying that he also wants to go to dance classes with her and exercise himself, so that Guan Guan can see several dance training institutions first. After confirmation, Andy will sign a contract with her. Later, Qu Xiaoyu also heard about it and joined the dance team. Of course, they trust Guan Guan and leave everything to Guan Guan to choose.
Guan Guan is such a reassuring girl. Whether friends or relatives, men or women, she will find this girl very reassuring.
At that time, Qu Xiaoyu felt that Guan Guan was a person and wanted to introduce Guan Guan to someone. The other party is his former classmate, and his family is also in business. However, he suffered a lot when he was a child. The boy is very capable and has no bad habits. He likes small animals, so Qu Xiaoyu wants to introduce boys to Guan Guan.
So they met by chance in the dance institution that was set in Guanguan. As a result, the boy never noticed Guan Guan, but noticed Andy, who was smarter and more beautiful.
He thought Andy was the person Qu Xiaoyu wanted to introduce to him, but later he learned that it was the girl next to him, and he had no impression. In fact, Guan Guan also noticed that the boy didn't notice himself when we first met. The boy later learned that Andy was not a climber, and returned to Guanguan, expressing his willingness to associate.
But Guan Guan understood that this boy, like most boys, took a fancy to his suitability for marriage, and then there was no follow-up between them.
It can be seen from this incident that Guan is actually very ordinary and introverted, so it is often difficult to be noticed by people in the crowd, so there has been no chance to talk about a sweet love.
Although Guan Guan has never talked about a sweet love, there are many suitors around Guan Guan.
In addition, Guan Guan's family is good, her parents are working, and her mother has prepared several blind dates for her. Those boys have a good family and are more motivated.
But Guan Guan doesn't like it, including Li, who is two years older than her in her company, who is also pursuing her, and Brother Lin, who was regarded as a god at school, is also pursuing her.
Moreover, these suitors around Guan are not like those around Fan, but just for fun. Most of these suitors around Guan Guan have good conditions and are eager to get married when they contact Guan Guan.
In fact, Guan Guan also knows that Li Helin's brother thinks that she is a good girl with a good family background and is suitable for being a wife, rather than pursuing her because she likes her. Moreover, eldest brother Lin pursued her, not only because she was suitable for being a wife after all, but also because she took a fancy to Guan Guan's family background, hoping to help her later work and was very snobbish.
When Guan Guan and Li went out to play together, Li slept soundly on the train, but Guan Guan was always worried that things would be stolen at night. She also packed all her clothes and shoes and everything. Later, Li woke up and could wear warm clothes. At that moment, there was an impulse to kiss the girl Li.
Because the action of closing the customs looks very inconspicuous, but it can be seen that she is a very caring child. In the eyes of men, this is a gentle and virtuous performance.
This gentleness and virtue may be nothing to me, but I have to say that most men still want to marry a gentle and virtuous girl who can arrange everything, because such a girl is good at life.
Moreover, she comes from a famous family, has no worries like Fan, has a unit, a pension and is very powerful, so she doesn't need to worry. And her family atmosphere is also very good, and her parents love her very much. She has been very disciplined since she was a child. Children like Guan Guan are girls that most parents like and women that many men are willing to marry.
Most men may fall in love with Fan Meisheng, but in the end they will be more inclined to marry a girl like Guan Juer, which is very realistic.
Therefore, Guan Guan rejected the pursuit of men who just thought she was more suitable for being a wife and life. What she wants is not a man who likes her and is more suitable for life, but a purposeful love after weighing the pros and cons.
Guan Guan has no emotional experience, so she is full of beautiful yearning and imagination for love.
Guan Guan looks ordinary and looks like a good girl. She finds it easy to get along with. In fact, she is very principled. The children from her family are very educated and have a set of rules in dealing with people.
In fact, although Guan Guan is easy to talk about and handled properly in many aspects, she is persistent in love.
It turned out that after she was with Xie Bin, she sent Andy such a message:
From this short message, we can see how happy she was when she met love, and how happy she was at that moment.
But she didn't know that Xie Bin was not suitable for her, and Xie Bin hid his life story from her. Xie Bin didn't really confess to her because he didn't have the courage to tell her about his miserable childhood.
Xie Bin was born in a very poor rural area in northwest China. In order to make a living, his mother went to work in the city, and finally got pregnant with the son of the host family, separated the host family and became the hostess of that house.
His mother divorced his father with a large sum of money, and later spent a large sum of money to take him away from his grandparents, while his father, a hopeless man, couldn't stand the village's pointing fingers and went out to work and never fell down.
And he himself suffered a lot of bullying in the family of his mother and stepfather. Adults naturally don't bully him, but children bully him and he doesn't have the strength to fight back. So Xie Bin's childhood was very dark and full of shadows.
He has been living in the shadow of his childhood, so he tried to be admitted to the public security university and became a policeman, hoping that one day no one would bully him.
Even if he later became a people's hero, he still couldn't face up to the shadow left in his heart by his childhood. He was able to like Guan Yu' er because he felt that Guan Yu' er had a gentleness that healed the scars of his childhood.
But if two people really want to be together, they must finally declare their family, which Xie Bin can't say and her parents can't accept. Moreover, girls who grew up in a greenhouse like Guanguan can't stand the past, so it's not suitable for them.
After losing Xie Bin, Guan Guan was very sad and disappointed, because at first she thought she really met a suitable person and just liked herself, but she guessed the right reason and didn't guess the right ending.
Xie Bin really likes her, but both of them can't bear Xie Bin's past in the later life, so they can only break up in the end.
I think Guan Guan is really a girl. In Ode to Joy, Andy and Qu Xiaoyu may not like Fan He very much, but they are very friendly to Guan Guan and like girls like Guan Guan very much. Almost everyone likes to close the customs.
But she was full of longing and hope for love, and later Guan Guan even had the idea of not getting married until she met love.
There is such a passage in the original work:
I think this place is a little distressed, because she is really a very good girl, just looking for a boy who simply likes her to spend her life safely.
In Ode to Joy, Andy is the first and most determined person who will never get married in this life, but I didn't expect anything in the end. In the end, Andy became the first woman in five beauty schools to get married and marry love.
When she was abroad, Andy lived a puritan life. Knowing that she has a family history, she refused to fall in love. However, after returning to China, she was surrounded by many suitors. At first, she fell in love with Weiwei, and finally broke up with Weiwei because of genetic problems.
But then she fell in love with Bao Yifan, who was crazy about her, and unexpectedly had a child. Even at this time, Andy doesn't intend to get married, because she has the ability and confidence to support her children alone, and even support her brother for life.
But then Andy changed. Under the influence of Bao Yifan, Andy is becoming more and more like a normal woman. She didn't refuse marriage. She is slowly looking forward to the arrival of this little life in her belly. In the end, Andy was the first woman to get married in Ode to Joy, and she was happily married to love. I'm not surprised by Andy's ending.
What surprises me most is that everyone wants to marry a good girl who goes home, and they still have the idea of not loving or marrying. Later, she left herself on her own initiative.
And love is a luxury in the world. I think there is nothing wrong with Guan's idea, but I suddenly feel a little sad about the ending of such a good girl.
Fan finally filed a lawsuit with his brother, and she persisted. Her brother finally dropped the lawsuit, she won, and she finally solved the big burden of being born in a family.
At this time, Fan also ushered in the spring of life. She has a successful lawyer pursuing her, and she is pursuing marriage. This lawyer is Andy's lawyer. He introduced Fan to help her with the lawsuit. I didn't expect the lawyer to secretly love Fan for a long time, and finally Fan got what he wanted.
Because Fan won't entangle too much love, she finally married a lawyer, which is considered benevolence.
Customs clearance is different. Although many men want to marry her, but love is hard to find, she is willing to stay, and Fan used to stay passively. Even if Fan was passive, she never gave up marrying herself.
But customs clearance is different. She left voluntarily. A person's heart is firm, and many external forces cannot be shaken. Besides, a girl as determined as Guan Guan will wait until her hero sets foot on the colorful clouds before marrying her.
In fact, there are many girls like Guan Guan in reality, especially now, because they have a good family, their own skills and no pressure in life, so they will not compromise emotionally and will wait for the right person.
In fact, in reality, most girls will not wait forever. There are many reasons, maybe it's the age to get married, maybe it's secular pressure, maybe it's the final compromise, and finally I find a man who loves me and has better conditions to get married. Although there is no vigorous love in life, there is also stable happiness.
I admire a girl like Guan Guan, but it takes a lot of courage to make such a decision. There are no rules in love. Finally, I hope that Guan Guan will finally wait for the man who loves her and suits her, and they will live a happy and stable life.
I also hope that all good girls like Guan Guan in this world can meet lovers and grow old together.