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Emotional apathy is unacceptable.
The harm of indifference to people is often unexpected. People suffering from emotional apathy are characterized by lack of corresponding emotional response to external stimuli, indifference to relatives and friends, loss of interest in surrounding things, dull facial expressions, lack of internal experience, and even indifference to everything outside.
How to eliminate this emotional indifference? In fact, behind the indifference is the lack of love. Changing indifference is not doing earth-shattering things, but starting from the little things around you. For example, we will greet our parents more every day, give our colleagues a smile, help our wife wash a bowl and watch the bright sunshine today. We won't lose anything for this, but get the enrichment and happiness brought by love and enthusiasm.
Warren Buffett, who was born in the United States, used to be an extremely indifferent person. He pursues money excessively and thinks that giving love is far less useful than earning 1 cent. He has a great sense of investment since he was a child. He likes stocks and numbers better than anyone in his family. Later, when he achieved great commercial success, he felt lonely and empty, because he lacked care for society, friends and family before, so that few people took his achievements seriously.
Warren Buffett finally realized the endless pain caused by his indifference in his later years, and finally he decided to dedicate 99% of his property to the society to make up for his indifference in the past. Since then, he has become radiant and enjoys the pleasure of caring for people around him every day.
Indifference is the weakness of human nature, and it is also the most easily overlooked, because you don't know that indifference has such a great influence. Indifference makes people live alone and makes you look like a zombie in the eyes of others. If you are determined to get rid of indifference and want to be a caring person, then you should break the veil of indifference and adjust your mentality now. When reading the following suggestions, please calm down and remember that it is very important for you.
1. communicate more: communication can not only make people overcome indifference, but also make people overcome all emotional obstacles. I hope you can use more, this side is the most effective.
2. Get in touch with nature: When the feeling of loneliness and indifference strikes, you might as well ride a bike around the suburbs and breathe fresh air, which can eliminate the depression and melancholy in your heart.
3. Appreciate art: Both music literature and art contain charm that people have to refuse. If you fall in love with these inanimate things, won't you be full of love for all living elves?
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Letting go of family education is easy to make people impulsive.
What will happen if a person's behavior is unconstrained from an early age and allowed to develop naturally? We know that plants can grow according to the laws of nature in proper air, under the cultivation of sunlight and fertilizer, but if they grow straight and meet the standards, they need to start from small trees, constantly repair them and completely cut off those redundant and useless tree rights to ensure the vigorous growth of trunk. In fact, the education of children is the same as the care of saplings, and we should pay attention to it from an early age. At every growth stage, we should observe them carefully, understand them and guide them in time. Only in this way can children grow up healthily without being affected by various unfavorable factors in the environment. It is completely wrong to think that children are like small trees, and the trees are naturally tall and straight, so children will grow up naturally.
Let's analyze the causes of laissez-faire family education:
1. Parents are busy with work and have no time to make money to take care of their children's education.
2. Let it go under the banner of democratic development and individuality.
3. Let children grow up freely with the idea that trees are directly from nature.
4. The family structure is incomplete, and the environment for children to grow up is congenitally insufficient, lacking care and connivance.
If parents can't discipline their children, let nature take its course.
These five laissez-faire practices are actually harmful to children. The laissez-faire family education makes people lose the motivation and direction of progress, and it is easy to form a free, arrogant and emotional character, and it is easy to slip into a wrong path.
Gao Song (a pseudonym) grew up with the indulgence of his parents. When he was in college, Gao Song once took his girlfriend shopping by motorcycle. Unexpectedly, I bumped into a car on the way, and the driver immediately got off and asked him for a theory. Unexpectedly, he let the car driver bear a heavy responsibility without saying anything, but died after being rescued. It is incomprehensible that Gao Song's girlfriend watched her boyfriend hurt others alive, while her occupation was still a teacher!
Of course, you have to pay for the murder. Later, Gao Song and his girlfriend failed to escape the punishment of the law, and his parents were also prosecuted by the court for harboring crimes, and the family was jailed.
This is the result of laissez-faire family education. Letting go brings sadness and helplessness. It was originally a trivial matter, because it was too emotional and too stubborn, and it became an irreparable tragedy.
Bacon once said, "Impulse is like a mine, which will collapse at the touch." In life, it is always easy for people to get angry because of a little thing, which makes their relationship with them very bad. If you don't pay attention to cultivate your calm and rational temperament and the necessary calmness in communication, once you touch the fuse, you will go on the rampage, lose control of your emotions, blow up all your beautiful life, and finally fall into deep pain.
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Impulse costs a lot, and it's not just my family, relatives and friends who are sad and miserable. Impulse can't solve anything. Even though sometimes it seems that you have won, you are not beautiful or handsome. Therefore, everyone in life should seize the reins of reason, don't let the impulse run freely, and don't let it flood, otherwise you and your closest relatives will suffer.
Don't let your impulses hurt the people you love.
Around our lives, there are often fights, drunkenness, quarrels between husband and wife and crimes. These are all due to our own impulsiveness, rashness and recklessness, which only seek temporary quick results, resulting in many regrets in family life, between friends and between superiors and subordinates in the unit, causing many irreparable losses, some of which are lifelong regrets.
It is worth noting that people's impulses can easily hurt the closest people around them. In a family, if a person often has friction with relatives around him, it will inevitably affect the harmony of the whole family. Everyone hopes to have a harmonious environment and get the respect and understanding of their loved ones. If you are impulsive and always have a hard time with your relatives around you, then your relatives will naturally be afraid of you and have to stay away from you. In the long run, you will not only
This warns us that when things happen, don't be impulsive, don't be emotional, be calm, pay attention to remind and restrain my feelings with a rational me, and don't let my impulses hurt the people I love.
In ancient times, there was a man named Aidiba. Every time there is an argument with someone, he rushes home, runs around his house and land three times, and then sits on the edge of the field to catch his breath. Later, his house became bigger and bigger, and there were more and more land, but when he was angry, he ran around the house and the land three times. Aidiba said: "When I was young, I quarreled with people and got angry. I just wandered around the house and the land." I have no time or right to be angry with others. Later, when the house got bigger and there was more land, I thought, why should I care about people when my house is so big and there is so much land? Thinking about this, all my anger disappeared.
Aidiba's personal experience tells people that controlling their impulses and making good use of their impulses and passions in life and work are beneficial to their relatives, friends, units and society.
In life, when you are subjected to some strong stimulus, strong emotional impulse and serious psychological imbalance, you can protect yourself and restrain your impulses as long as you make appropriate adjustments consciously, quickly and decisively.
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Arbitrary family education can easily make people rebellious.
Arbitrary parents regard their children as their own private property, demanding their children to obey themselves absolutely, being strict with their children and demanding high standards of behavior, which is very wrong. Children with docile personality often succumb to the authority of their parents, but at the same time, they also cause great psychological harm to their children, making them timid, cowardly and inferior, while some children with strong personality will form strong dissatisfaction with their parents in their hearts.
Judging from the results, the hatred and hostility towards relatives caused by rebellious psychology is actually punishing yourself, not punishing yourself with your own mistakes. This result is a kind of harm to relatives, either by their own mistakes or by their own mistakes. Obviously, rebellious behavior is a kind of harm to relatives and themselves.
A mother came to the psychological counseling room and told the doctor that she was very angry with her son Xiaofeng. His son was a senior one in a vocational secondary school and was ordered to drop out of school a few days ago for playing security.
She and her husband are doing business outside, and they don't have enough money, but they feel that they don't have enough knowledge, so they pin their hopes on their son Xiaofeng. They have been strict with Xiaofeng since childhood. Since Xiaofeng's primary school, they have to stay in their rooms except for meals, and they are not allowed to watch TV, even on Sundays. From elementary school to the second day of junior high school, Xiaofeng's grades have been among the best, and his parents are very happy and think that his educational methods are very clever. However, in the second semester of Grade Two, the situation has changed a lot. In the second semester of the second grade, Xiaofeng was addicted to surfing the Internet, playing truant, fighting and staying out all night, and his rebellious behavior was obviously manifested. Xiaofeng's grades began to plummet, and he finally failed to get into high school, so his family casually let him go to a vocational secondary school. Unexpectedly, Xiaofeng got into some trouble again. He and some buddies were smoking and drinking at school, and the security guard came.
Rebellious people usually have obvious anti-control antagonism to those around them. Even if you ask him to do so, he insists on doing so. This situation is the easiest to annoy their relatives. The more annoyed they are with others, the more reprimanded they are, the more disgusted they are, which directly affects the normal relationship with their relatives, thus pushing the rebellious psychology to the extreme, leading to unhealthy personality and behavior, and casting a shadow over their own hearts.
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If we don't guide the rebellious psychology and behavior correctly in time, it will lead the parties to have unhealthy psychology and behavior such as doubt, paranoia, indifference and unsociable, which will make them shake things, lose their ideals, decline their will, be passive in work, study and live a depressed life. In severe cases, it will even turn into criminal psychology and morbid psychology, causing endless harm to yourself and others.
Get rid of the rebellious psychology in your heart.
In order not to hurt ourselves and the people closest to us, we should try our best to restrain ourselves and get rid of the negative and rebellious psychology in our hearts when we are emotional.
In general, when people hear opinions contrary to their own views, their instinctive reaction is to resist. Driven by this kind of emotion, it is difficult to clearly analyze the other party's point of view, nor will you listen to anything from the other party and let yourself go your own way.
This kind of person gives people around him the impression that he is not good at controlling his emotions, stubborn, not good at listening to other people's opinions, conceited, and may be smart and talented, but it will make people feel afraid of him.
In family life, it is not difficult to prevent rebellious psychology. As long as we adopt different ways to adapt to each other's psychological state at that time according to different situations, we should always remind ourselves to try to restrain ourselves when something happens. You should know that our personality and talents are not expressed by interacting with others. At the same time, in order to improve our psychological adaptability, we should take part in more various activities and associate with people with different personalities. First, developing interest will make you.
In work or family life, a person with extensive knowledge can realize the absurdity of rebellious psychology and know how to adopt a more scientific and tolerant way of thinking. Therefore, improving cultural quality is also a good way to reduce rebellious psychology. People who are controlled by rebellious psychology will become narrow-minded, short-sighted and stupid, and rebellious psychology can't make people think and judge routinely, so that their thoughts just slide blindly on the opposite track.
Speak your love boldly.
If you were given a chance to express yourself, what kind of commitment would you like to make?
If you were given a chance to express yourself, what kind of declaration of love would you like to say?
If you were given a chance to express yourself, what kind of love and affection would you like to express?
Dare to express your inner feelings.
If you like someone, you must say it. Don't bury it in your heart and make yourself miserable. Like it is not a bad thing. Although it takes some courage to say it, how can the other party know your mind if you don't say it?
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