Buddhists, facing the occurrence and progress of everything in life, keep a carefree mood, don't have too many desires, and live and handle things according to their own rhythm and preferences.
I believe in Buddhism and am indifferent to everything. ? This is a sentence that I have heard from too many people in recent years. When I first listened to it, I felt that this person's heart was really calm, like a calm lake, which made people feel relaxed and happy.
However, gradually, I have heard this sentence many times. After a long time, I found that there are too many disguises in this sentence.
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Buddhism is a high-level calm, not love without asking. Hey? And never take it? Buddhism? I want to escape from my miserable life, not find an excuse to make myself decadent.
Looking at all sentient beings, few people are willing to let themselves live a mediocre life, but they are willing to use it? PseudoBuddhism? Many people want to cover up their cowardice.
Chunying, when she just graduated, had a boiling passion and wanted to make a difference in the workplace. Why doesn't she have any ideas and always turns herself into one in practical actions? Thinker? Just like people who decide to go to bed early and get up early every day.
Because chunying has never been reused in the workplace, she has been a logistics clerk for three years, and her salary has been stuck at 3500 yuan. When it comes to her initial ideal and future life, Chun Ying is always a pair? Buddhism? That gesture is an expression of feelings and fate, which makes people feel that it is good for a girl to be so calm.
However, a person can fool others, but not his own heart. Chunying said to herself. Everyone around you is so excellent. If you have enough ability to become brilliant, who wants to be so detached from the world? If you are good enough, how can you not get a close lover? ?
What Chunying said to herself is right, but it is not others who can stop her from moving forward, but herself.
The biggest mistake people often make is to numb their perception with some perfect reasons and cover up their cowardly heart with the calmest appearance.
People who never wake up and pretend to sleep can't fool others or themselves.
True Buddhists are not stagnant because of their uncontested heart, but can go all out and treat all the results, successes and failures with equanimity. I was lucky to get it, but I lost my life? Attitude to face all the gains and losses.
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Liu Xuefei, a girl from a medical family, majored in nursing in university. Everyone knows that the salary of nursing graduates is not high, but Xue Fei loves his major and work, and his family culture enriches his spare time.
In his spare time, Xue Fei studied flower arrangement technology and home decoration soft-fitting technology. Only two years after graduation, she had her own flower arranging studio and home soft-fitting studio, both of which were completed through personal efforts after others only regarded her as a nurse.
Xue Fei said? I never thought I could make two studios, because that's just a hobby behind my passion for my major. As for my income, it really doesn't matter. I just want to do what I like and bring joy to others. ?
This kind of person who enriches himself in his spare time, never forgets to enrich himself at all times, and has a normal heart for the interests of the result is the real Buddhism.
True Buddhists, although they don't care about the vanity of fame and fortune, must know how to plow in spring, spend in summer and harvest in autumn. The most important thing is the process of hard work, and no one can control the result.
All efforts are aimed at getting the best results and getting a better self. Even if the results are not what you want, is a calm heart right? Buddhism? Understand correctly.
Allowing yourself to be decadent not only defiles the purity of Buddhism, but also makes your life boring.
The real effort is to make yourself better, not to achieve a certain goal, but to do the best in everything? Buddhism? Life.
Buddhism? It's not that you don't care about anything, nor that you just enjoy the results and don't act. Once the result is not what I want, I will deceive myself and let myself drag down my life with Buddhist thinking.
Let go of the decadence and escape of the fake Buddha, whether it is feelings or work, take building a better self as the belief, and face success or failure calmly, so as to have a colorful life and be qualified to talk about all the status quo? Buddhism? .