Elva and Xiaohei met through group buying for decoration. From netizens to office romances, Elva said that Xiaohe was very happy along the way, and their Olympic baby was the best New Year gift for each other.
In the winter of 2004
Elva wants to decorate the house with her ex-boyfriend, and the burden of decoration falls on her alone. She used all her free time to study decoration experience online. Later, she learned that building materials were cheap through group buying and was introduced into a group buying forum by friends. This forum was created spontaneously by Xiaohe and several friends. Because Elva doesn't know anything, she often posts in the forum for consultation, and as an administrator, Xiaohe answers her questions patiently and meticulously every time. Later, they added QQ, but only talked about decoration.
March 2005
The initial group buying forum grew bigger and bigger, and finally an independent website was established. Elva became the first netizen on the Shanghai group buying website, and also a senior netizen. She was introduced to Xiaohe by another netizen at the first on-site group buying meeting. The first time I saw Xiaohei, there was a great contrast with her impression. When chatting online, she thought Xiaohe was an experienced doyen, but in reality Xiaohe looked like a junior high school student, dressed in sportswear and a little immature. Xiaohe is very enthusiastic to accompany Elva around, buy building materials and help her solve the problems encountered in the decoration. When netizens meet, they naturally become friends.
May 2005
Elva and her ex-boyfriend were very unhappy because of the decoration, and the chat with Xiaohe on QQ gradually changed from decoration to talk. Xiaohe always comforted her to be strong and optimistic and cheered her on. Later, several pairs of netizens spontaneously organized themselves to eat karaoke songs to relax their tired mood since the renovation. Elva also wanted to relax, so he went. On that day, everyone drank a lot and talked a lot. Xiaohei didn't drink much, just sat next to Elva and silently helped her to drink less. Elva saw the unusual gentleness of the northern boy from Xiaohei and felt very safe. This is the first time they have had dinner together, and they are going to attend several subsequent online parties. According to Xiaohe, he fell in love with Elva the first time he met her.
June 5438, 2005+February
Elva and her ex-boyfriend finally broke up because of the low temperature in winter. During that time, Elva was very depressed and depressed, so she quit her job and planned to have a rest. In those days, Xiaohe often enlightened her, and they became good friends who talked about everything. Xiaohe suggested that Elva work for Groupon. Com, because she thinks she is extroverted, which is very suitable for this job that needs to communicate with people and make many friends.
March 2006
On the occasion of the first anniversary of Groupon.com, the website organized a gathering of core netizens. Everyone gathered in a bar to play the "killing game". Losers must accept the question of "truth or dare". Blackie lost a game, and everyone unanimously asked him to name the person he liked. Elva remembered that Blackie didn't say anything, just kept looking at her. At that time, her heart was touched and she felt something was wrong. After returning home at night, Xiaohe confessed to her and told her seriously: I liked her a long time ago.
April 2006 1 day
This day is a special day for Elva and Xiaohe-the first day that Elva came to work in Groupon.com, and the first day that she established feelings with Xiaohe. From this day until they get married, they are both lovers and colleagues in the company. When asked if Elva's office romance needs to go underground, she said happily, "Fortunately, we met a good boss. Our boss has different ideas. He thinks office romance is good for work. As it turns out, it is. Because we are colleagues, Xiaohe and I are together almost every day, and we keep effective communication at any time in our work and life. When we have differences at work, because we are lovers, there is no obstacle to sincere communication, so the problem will be solved soon. "
The two were inseparable from the internet from the beginning of their realization, and there were also a large number of network girlfriends who had known each other for a long time. If they quarrel, many netizens will be peacemakers. I remember they had differences on buying a house. Elva said it was the fiercest quarrel since they met. They didn't talk for two or three days. After learning about it, netizens posted in the forum to persuade them to make peace. The forum was very popular at once. Everyone cares about their relationship and looks for steps for them from various angles. So they were embarrassed to make trouble again and got back together. Elva said that the Internet is beautiful. Strangers get together for some reason and the intersection is pure. They trust each other very much and sincerely help each other.
June 5438, 2007+10 month
During the Golden Week, Elva officially handed himself over to Xiaohe, and they became the company's first justified husband and wife partner. The wedding was grand and lively, and many netizens who witnessed their happy journey in the past two years came to the scene to wish the lovers who know each other and cherish each other a happy ending.
I asked Elva what moved her, and she said sweetly: Blake once wrote a poem in the forum. She knew that he was not good at writing, so she was very moved to see this poem composed of many songs. In daily life, Xiaohe is a man of few words, but he always stands in the direction of the car when crossing the road. This concern makes Elva feel warm. Xiao He's family values are very heavy, which can be seen from many details of his usual contacts. He once told Elva that being with her didn't want to change her, as long as she was happy. Ordinary words and simple feelings gave Elva a real sense of security and happiness.
After listening to the love story between Elva and Xiaohei, I feel that fate is really everywhere in life. When you are worried about why your destiny has not yet arrived, you might as well pay attention to the people around you. Sometimes, after searching for a long time, you find the most precious thing close at hand.