They can do everything in life or do it by themselves, but it won't have any effect. Why is it effective for you to stay with me, or for the consultant I have instructed to bring clients with you?
I want to expose this trace to people who care about us now. In the process of playing, at the right time, according to the situation, the elements to resolve psychological barriers are injected, sometimes an atmosphere, sometimes a sentence, and sometimes an action. The helper himself does not realize it, and the subconscious accepts and perceives it, and benign psychological changes appear. Because it is unconsciously internalized into the subconscious, the benign changes from the heart often merge with the helpers as soon as they appear, which makes the visitors themselves very strange. The experience they have never experienced, the feeling of infinite longing appears, and they are eager but unprepared. In the natural life scene, it comes like this. Life is so beautiful, life is so interesting! Then, the psychological counselor clearly stressed that it is necessary to help the interviewee understand his own problems after practicing Taoism, so that he can really learn to resolve his own psychological obstacles, enhance his psychological endurance, and expand his mind and feelings.
The whole consultation process, whether it is a help-seeker or a psychological counselor, enjoys it as long as they participate in it. There is no hardship, no tension, no tranquility, no excitement, no indifference, no luxury, and endless enjoyment in the aftertaste.
Everything in this world can't be perfect, and someone will always spoil it. Naturally, in therapy consultation, it is often family members who spoil everyone's fun. They are tired of this bland consultation content and worried about this kind of consultation method. Family members constantly send messages of distrust to psychological counselors, complain about the bad performance of the clients, and put pressure on psychological counselors. Most of them will interfere with the consultation process, and their distrust and anxiety will directly affect customers. It is sometimes more time-consuming and laborious for psychological counselors to explain to them again and again, to resolve their incomprehension and worry about the effectiveness of counseling methods, to lengthen the counseling time, and to explain and consult their families.
Because of the naturalness of natural enjoyment therapy, family members do not understand it, and many colleagues do not understand it. Many psychiatrists have repeatedly warned their families that psychological counseling is useless. Many consultations are found in the state of being ill and rushing to the hospital. Seeing that it has shown good results, the family members left with helpers. The distrust and lack of support of family members interrupted psychological adjustment.
Of course, some people will say that the cost of consultants is too high to bear. However, the money they spend on hospitals and low-cost psychological counselors, as well as their time in psychological pain, have greater economic value. In fact, there is a backward view of consumption and life here: zero meat is painless, and there is no consciousness of cherishing the extremely limited time of life.
Thousands of dollars scattered and came back. As long as you are physically and mentally healthy, you can earn again without money. Life is a lifetime. After death, no amount of money can buy a second of life. Decades have passed in a hurry, and living is painful, and enjoying nature is also life. Without a healthy body and mind, no amount of wealth can enjoy life. Without a healthy body and mind, the wealth outside will pass you by. What is real wealth? Live healthily, live healthily for a long time, and enjoy life naturally.
As a lover of psychological knowledge, if you only learn a little and participate in it, you will enter a state of natural enjoyment. As a psychological counselor, if you learn the attitude of enjoying treatment naturally, your client will be much more accepted when you consult. Some cases of psychological obstacles that you dare not do in the psychological training course have amazing results inadvertently.
Natural enjoyment therapy is unremarkable, but its effect is amazing, just like the master described in martial arts novels, and it does everything it can, and for the invading opponents, the tricks can be broken and the kung fu is unparalleled. Such a good therapy, tempted, tempted, then go into nature with Meiling to enjoy the therapy and enjoy life!
As far as the current social situation is concerned, there is no difference in psychotherapy or counseling provided by various institutions. Psychological counseling itself includes therapy, and the premise of therapy also includes counseling, because their purpose is only one, to find problems by communicating with individuals who are troubled by psychological problems, and then to guide individuals to get rid of psychological problems with reasonable methods.
Psychological counseling and psychotherapy are often mentioned, and the relationship between them is the focus of discussion. There is a view that the two are not exactly the same, because literally speaking, consultation means asking and understanding. However, the literal meaning of treatment usually lies in the use of methods, techniques or drugs to cure diseases and help patients recover. Because the word consultation is widely used, our understanding of this word usually stays at the level of consulting knowledge, experience and information. However, psychological counseling is different from other counseling. Consultants not only need the knowledge and information of consultants, but also need solutions to their own problems. It's like going to the hospital after we get sick. We don't just need to know what's wrong with us and what's the pathology. We need doctors to provide us with solutions to the pain, or they can directly solve the pain for us, so simple consultation is meaningless here. Just like our current psychological counseling, our ultimate goal is to relieve the pain of psychological counselors and exercise such a responsibility, rather than simply imparting knowledge and experience. So at the goal level, psychological counseling and psychotherapy can be said to be the same.
Speaking of this, some people will put forward a view that the biggest difference between psychotherapy and psychological counseling lies in the seriousness of psychological problems. Most people have mild psychological problems. What they need is psychological counseling. When they have serious psychological disorders, what they need is psychotherapy. In fact, once psychological problems appear, although the reaction degree is different, they are very troublesome for individuals and all need treatment. For a simple example, there is a folk proverb in China called "Toothache is not a disease, it hurts like hell". Toothache itself is not a serious disease, and it can't even be called "disease". But who can say that he doesn't need a doctor to treat him? Since there is no difference in physical distress, why should psychological distress be divided into psychological counseling and psychotherapy according to the severity?
Now there is a narrow view that the difference between psychological counseling and psychotherapy lies in means. Psychological counseling is to solve the distress of the distressed through communication and conversation, while psychotherapy is to achieve the purpose of treatment through drug means. In fact, looking at the history of psychotherapy, we can find that the initial psychotherapy is non-drug therapy, hypnosis and psychoanalysis are two best examples, and drug therapy is only one of the clinical treatments in a strict sense. Therefore, generally speaking, drug therapy is not a way of psychotherapy. In the communication process of psychological counseling, the counselor's reasonable guidance to the visitors is also a kind of treatment.
When it comes to treatment methods, there is no clear dividing line between psychological counseling and psychotherapy. Some commonly used therapies, such as behavioral therapy, intensive therapy and exposure therapy, are used in the field of psychological counseling and psychotherapy. Moreover, in terms of technical means, some experienced, high-level and high-quality psychological counseling experts can even help the seekers better than ordinary psychotherapists. Because they can not only provide guidance and psychological support in a way closer to the help-seekers, so that the help-seekers are more willing to communicate with them, but also put forward more targeted problem solutions to help the help-seekers get rid of their troubles. Moreover, the relationship between counselors and clients, and the relationship between therapists and patients are equally important and equally valued. Maintaining a good relationship between help-seekers and helpers can effectively promote the psychological growth of help-seekers and help them better complete their psychological construction.
To sum up, psychological counseling and psychotherapy are essentially the same. Whether as a help-seeker or a service-oriented group providing psychological assistance, we should put aside their literal stereotypes. What help seekers need to do is to choose the method that suits them best and know their institutions and donors best. Psychological counselors and therapists should also focus on the health and happiness of the clients, take the ultimate service effect as their own responsibility, and strive to open up a world for the service industry within the scope of psychology, so that everyone can correctly realize the value and significance of our existence, help more people get out of the mental haze, and let more people enjoy the happiness and beauty of life.