How to save effective emotions after breaking up? Many times, after breaking up, both men and women often make some extreme behaviors because they can't get out of this relationship. These practices will not be redeemed, but will make the other person hate you more. Now I'll teach you how to restore effective emotions after breaking up!
How to recover effective feelings after breaking up 1 Step 1: Eliminate old grievances.
After breaking up, I can't help but think of sweet moments, happy moments and beautiful memories; I can't help calling, texting, and sending WeChat to say "I'm sorry, I was wrong"; I can't help being sad, lonely and crying!
This is not only useless, but will be even more disgusted because of your constant explanation and entanglement. Everything you say makes him think you are so annoying!
At this time, it is necessary to deal with the contradictions and grievances that still exist between you. Otherwise, it is impossible for the other party to accept you, and all subsequent recovery methods cannot be implemented.
What, you're asking me how to get rid of my old enmity? that
Depending on your specific situation, the most important thing is to improve yourself, learn to draw, learn to dance, read books, and of course, you can consult your teacher.
Step 2: Re-establish contact
Why is it called reconnection? It's very simple, that is, after breaking up, he is no longer your boyfriend. You must accept the fact of breaking up and contact with a new identity and a new way of communication.
Because many people want to go back to the past with each other quickly, they keep contacting each other, harassing each other, apologizing, explaining, praying, caring, texting, making phone calls, and doing almost everything they think can move each other to forgive themselves, but they don't realize that these will only accelerate each other's departure until they pull themselves out.
A watched pot never boils. You must wait for the other person to see your promotion, repent and eliminate the resistance to you before you can accept you.
Step 3: Ease the atmosphere
No matter how sweet and affectionate you were before, please face it now, you have broken up! Therefore, after re-establishing contact, how to quickly ease the embarrassing atmosphere and establish a comfortable atmosphere for chatting and getting along is particularly important. How to ease the atmosphere? Come on, get to the point
At this time, you can talk about some topics that have nothing to do with yourself, which can effectively resolve this embarrassing dilemma. Recent weather, hot information on the internet or TV programs (etc. This kind of concern we all pay attention to will not touch each other's sensitive psychology, but will also make them have the same talk. This can effectively promote two people to chat quickly and let the other person adapt to the state of one-on-one dating with you as soon as possible.
Step 4: ignite passion
When your atmosphere is relaxed, there will be some good interaction between the two sides. At this time, you need to take the initiative to ignite your passion, create something to stimulate each other's desires and needs, and let each other rekindle their love for you.
So our steps are to tell you how to lead your relationship to an ambiguous level, stimulate each other's desire to come back to you, and finally ignite the fire of love and sublimate feelings.
For example, at this time, your topic needs to be transferred to the other person more, such as talking more about yourself, showing your changes to the other person, letting the other person see that you have the value he needs, and combining some ambiguous words and body language, such as: "I wore red clothes today", to re-stimulate the other person's desire to come back to you.
Step 5: sublimate old feelings
At this point, you just need to present your past and wonderful experiences to each other in different ways, so that they can see them (such as going to places you have experienced together, or commemorative gifts, etc.). ), at the same time, give some promises of change and prospects for the future, then it will be natural for the other person to come back to you.
Emotional experts remind: redemption is not only to save each other, but also to save your ability to get happiness. The above is the main content of this paper. If you have emotional problems that need counseling, you can consult an emotional expert.
How to save effective emotions after breaking up II. How to send a friend back after breaking up?
1, the dynamics of the circle of friends can generate secondary attraction.
2. After breaking up, many people use their circle of friends to vent their inner feelings because they are too sad. Of course, it is also to attract the attention of the other party. The statement above the circle of friends must not be too extreme, which will make the other party dislike you and block you more irretrievably.
3, so you have to change your image. This change is aimed at some problems that the other person doesn't like you when you are in love, such as he doesn't like you smoking and playing games when you are in love. And make changes for these, show them in the circle of friends with a new image, and let the other party be attracted to you again when brushing the circle of friends.
4. Don't send words, such as enjoying your present life, to make the other person feel that it is reasonable and good to break up with you, which will fulfill you and stop bothering you. At this time, the chances of recovery are much smaller.
5. Don't make too many friends after breaking up. Brushing the sense of existence will make the other party disgusted, especially after breaking up. The above is an introduction about how to send a circle of friends to save after breaking up. I hope it will help everyone.
Second, the most effective way to save feelings
1, after breaking up, let yourself live a new life, face your true heart, don't deceive yourself, and solve the problem of breaking up with the most sincere attitude.
2, even if you don't give up, don't forcibly save each other. This is meaningless, it will only make two hearts drift away. Instead of this, it is better to think more about why it has reached the point of breaking up.
3. Many people will worry after breaking up. If they don't take the initiative to save her, will they really lose her and fall in love with others again? There is no need to care so much. Since he has his freedom after breaking up, you are no longer boyfriend and girlfriend, and you are not qualified to interfere in other people's lives. This kind of behavior will also make the other person feel annoying. Since we want to save it, we must have confidence in ourselves.