Name: Bamboo Jane Fan
Theme: carry forward the past and forge ahead.
Keywords: review, prospect, advantages, planning
With the help of noble people, let yourself pick up fireworks; Awakening, can't feel the rhythm of confusion; The way of thinking was brewing before bamboo broke ground; The road to textual research, which I had to give up, finally ended in 2020 with the encouragement of my friends. For me, it has almost nothing to do with money.
First, 2020 is a fruitful year for me.
1. My idea: In addition to drawing my own maps, I began to pay attention to other people's blueprints.
2. My advantages:
Goal, driving force, learning force and leading force are my advantages.
Learning from books, movies, or others is learning. Every time, it is never in vain.
For so many years, I have been obsessed with making up the shortcomings of liberal arts, basic knowledge and technology, and really ignored the environment and people around me. Especially those who really "despise" themselves.
But today, when I open my eyes and ears, I really find that in the adult world, everyone has their own philosophy of life, and they are all mortals who are constantly trying to live their lives at all stages.
There are friends who share the same frequency with themselves, and there are people who they don't like or even reject. This kind of rejection is actually more of a projection of their own or inner deficiencies and defects that have not yet crossed.
Therefore, accept your imperfect self and be more understanding and tolerant. With more generosity and respect, everything is reasonable. It is not easy for each other, and they all bear the different and irreplaceable life practices of individuals and others. Nobody belongs to anyone, so we can find ourselves, make use of our advantages and become what we want.
3. My status:
Realizing their present situation, they began to ask for help. Through "reading, attending classes, exercising, managing and seeking truth", they seek their lost selves, essence and ways. I hope that in 202 1, they can live more transparently, entangle more, have no internal friction, accept themselves and others and enjoy the present.
My idea and practice have a broken file, while charging, I trust you more, and at the same time, I open myself up and get a relaxed and comfortable state.
Second, the choice I am facing now:
1- Continue to major in materials or focus on organization and management?
2- Continue the power industry or enter the coking industry?
3- Continue with new power supply or traditional material transportation?
4- Do you want to leave the trusted bosses of existing private enterprises or explore unknown listed companies?
Third, self-analysis of advantages and disadvantages.
1. Personal advantages: goal, driving force, learning ability and leadership.
2. What I think: At this age, I don't want to do any more majors and stay in technology.
3. My limitations: My organizational ability is acceptable, but my management ability needs to be improved. Because of continuous learning, my technical level has actually been greatly improved, but I am obsessed with liberal arts and university education, and I always feel that my skills are not as good as others psychologically. It is unrealistic to want to learn everything, pay a high price, neglect to enjoy the present life, and want to master all majors at the same time. After all, I can't do it professionally. This is what BossY reminded me: "No one can master all the 18 majors. If I set foot on a major, it is more right or wrong, because I crossed the boundary between knowledge and major and did something I shouldn't do. Let yourself fall into the responsibility that you shouldn't bear, and at the same time let the profession feel untrusted and unrecognized, and even cause the bad consequences of simply throwing the pot, being passive or provoking conflicts.
4. My advantage: leadership, my advantage can never exist independently, and can only be established through interaction with others. I feel that I am not good at communication, but I can especially convince my brother to impress others and let others listen to me.
5. Lifting method:
(1) Improve your ability to do things (if you don't improvise, think twice before expressing and structure in advance). When facing a problem, first calculate the possible situation in your mind and give a preliminary solution. Constantly exercising this ability can help you better cope with the problems that may arise in the process of guiding others.
(2) Relationship and mentality: learn to balance. Balance time, balance relationship, balance work and life, and balance the growth of yourself and your children. Put all the responsibility on yourself and become a functional syndrome; Always blame others for the responsibility, and become an evasive person. No one can be responsible for everything around him, establish a sense of boundaries, do what he should do, and defend and guard the boundaries between himself and others. Comfortable coexistence and mutually beneficial communication can make you more inclusive and have a longer relationship, and ultimately enhance your's sense of value and happiness.
(3) Improve your meta-cognition, see the essence and laws clearly, live simply but not singly, and be transparent and not entangled.
Fourth, personal planning.
1. Based on the current situation of transition, thinking mode adjustment and leadership promotion, I continue to stay in my job.
2. Management, general level, not major
3. Energy direction: gas distribution, heat pump, hydrogen energy, garbage, flexible transformation (cylinder cutting/optical axis) and sewage treatment.
4. Career planning, consistent with the direction of energy, learn thoroughly, and then choose.
5. Fact: Age is not directly proportional to ability, and it is often desirable to pursue tangible assets, because there are countless ways in the world to harvest wealth beyond your ability. The investment and appreciation of intangible assets will attract people and things with the same frequency, and it is difficult to be rich in the end. The wealth here is not only tangible assets such as tickets, houses and cars.
6. Reject coking listed companies with high salaries. I haven't changed my job in the past two years, but I have been hunting for information, so that I am not afraid of my future way of life, and at the same time I have expanded my cognition and vision.
7. Five-year life plan: CPA examination (five years), technical upgrading, interpersonal learning, organizational and management ability improvement, and advanced study in superior universities (extended to life).
Verb (abbreviation of verb) workplace planning consultation
1. Sister Sun, a beautiful doctor teacher at Medical University.
2. Group HR+ headhunting elite awei
3.BV colleague is now Li, general manager of SINOMACH International Material Management.
4. Fu Tong, director of building materials ceramics industry.
5. Husband