A woman with a good wife and mother gives the impression that she is gentle, smooth, good at housekeeping and full of love. The fate of this kind of women is mainly the positive star, the momentum of the yen is not very strong, and fierce things such as owls and knives are few or not dominant. Metaphorical significance of four positive stars;
Cai Zheng: Diligent and thrifty, good at handling; Zhengyin: easy-going, don't like to argue; Officials: self-restraint, self-discipline and morality; Gourmet: caring, careful and tolerant.
Ancient example: It's not May Day yet.
Although the four pillars do not see the official stars, the god of food makes a fortune, which is consistent and exquisite. "Dignified personality, understand the sense of honor. Although he was born in a farmhouse, he was very poor in textile zoff. " Thanks to Guihai's luck, her husband Kejia Lian Deng became a provincial and ministerial official. "Although my husband is expensive, I have never been proud of being a lady. I manage cloth at home and have four beautiful children. " It can be said that you are not surprised. A rich husband is suitable for children, and the better the life, the better-this kind of life should only exist in ancient times. When can we hear it now?
Marrying a good wife and mother should be the dream of most men. But as Mr. Cai Lan said, it is better for a wife to look like a lady in the hall and a prostitute in bed, so this is too harsh to blame.
Second, marriage and personality.
"Clouds want clothes, flowers want capacity." The best thing God has given the world is a beautiful woman. It's a pity that we are always despised by these jealous men. But there are also such women who are extraordinary in temperament, brilliant in talent, brilliant in pen and ink, or fragrant in lotus tongue. They regard men in the world as useless and don't want to despise others. This fate is mostly based on hurting official positions.
Generally speaking, it is not appropriate to hurt the lives of officials. If you mix, the Lord despises the world, disobeys the rules and has mixed feelings. However, as mentioned above, women's life is pure, life is not complicated, and they are more grateful than women, and their feelings are as strong as gold. Kunzao:
Chen Jia Ding Mao Jia Yin Bing Yin
This is a freelance writer with beautiful writing style and income in yif. So far, she hasn't left Iraqis alone with her sister-in-law.
There is a saying: envy mandarin ducks but not immortals. This kind of female life is not absolutely exclusive to the official stars, or because the realm is too high, it always gives people the feeling of "watching from a distance but not close to the play", and it is inevitable to sleep alone on the temples of the hair.
Third, the marriage crisis in the seventh year of marriage
According to the research of marriage experts, the seventh year of marriage is the first dangerous period of marriage.
According to the viewpoint of Yi-ology, the time information of any thing and event is closely related to its development trend. Suppose a couple got married in Jiazi. In the seventh year of their marriage, that is, in Wu Geng, they had a big fight with Jiazi. If there is any bad information about marriage, they may be sad about this "hurdle".
If we don't analyze it from numerology and date selection, the words of marriage experts can't reasonably explain the above phenomenon: Why are the fifth, sixth, eighth and ninth years of marriage not dangerous?
Fourth, marriage and love.
Modern society is civilized and prosperous, monogamy is practiced, and men are not allowed to take concubines. However, the so-called mistress phenomenon has become a major landscape today. Although these philandering men can be true, it is a pity that young women who love vanity and love ease bet their youth on tomorrow and are willing to be concubines.
Investigating the life of "concubines" will always be nothing more than a mixture of official killing, overlapping robbery, seeing an injured official and seeing a seal. Here's an example:
Women's lives are ugly, but it's not afternoon yet.
This creation was made by midday fire, but it was fused by untrained stars. If you are printed as parents and old people, and are printed as in-laws and maids, you may fall in love with an old man. In addition, many years of injury to officials, every big luck, people have no chastity, so they become the boss's preserve, a 50-year-old man, willing to dedicate his youth to him. This is exactly what we should do: "When an official is injured, take a concubine first, then a wife". This kind of life, as a third party, may take the position of "official empress" and become a full member in the future.
Five, peach blossom luck
The first author who compared people to flowers was a genius. Peach blossom is a metaphor for people. The first sentence in The Book of Songs is: Peach blossom is in bloom. Will be overused in the future. Cui Hu's poem "I don't know where people are going, but peach blossoms still smile at the east wind" gives people endless reverie. Probably because the color of peach blossom has a blush like a girl's shyness and the stamens are delicate and charming, it was later used as a synonym for men and women.
Peach blossom has two meanings in numerology. One refers to the peach blossom in Xianchi, and the people who live with this peach blossom star are elegant, intelligent, affectionate and of many opposite sexes. One refers to more than three-sixths of fate, or when the Universiade meets heaven and earth, and the red phoenix is beaming, it is often easy to get the favor of beautiful women and get the care of others. The so-called red phoenix is also true.
Life meets peach blossoms, such as Zhang Wuji, where people love each other and lean on beauty, but it is fascinating. But if you don't stick to morality and indulge in the sea, it will do more harm to your body, mind, career and family, and the loss will outweigh the gain. Based on 3,000 weak seas, grab a gourd ladle and drink.
Moreover, a man's life peach blossom is to rob money for peach blossom; Women kill peach blossoms every seven times for peach blossoms. Such things, light is expensive, but heavy is harmful, which is enough for promiscuous people.
Sixth, late marriage is a good way to resolve bad marriage information.
Lily's boyfriend is a college friend two years older than Lily, an intellectual family, and joined an IT company after graduation-everything seems to be appropriate. So as soon as Lily graduated, both parents raised money to prepare for the marriage. Lily and her boyfriend have a good relationship, but they have no feelings about getting married. When they tried their best to delay the wedding, they found themselves pregnant, so they "married the children" and entered the marriage hall.
The abortion after marriage exhausted Lily physically and mentally. Rich material comforts cannot dilute the depression of monotonous marriage life. After her husband was promoted, she began to work overtime endlessly, and Lily's idea of running away from home expanded irresistibly. Finally, after leaving a note one day, I traveled alone in Xinjiang, wandering in an unknown town, visiting the market, drinking, dancing, being chased by a little boy ... After traveling home, facing anxious parents and angry husband, Lily suddenly found that she could leave without formal reasons. ...
Considering the concept of numerology, lily should belong to the eight-character character of "robbing the hit and hurting the food". Such people are unrestrained, free, yearning for romance and mystery, and don't like being bound by family. If they fall into the fence of marriage prematurely, their chances of marriage hitting the rocks are quite high.
With regard to the information about marriage disaster, the most common advice for fate is "getting married later". Although it is a simple sentence, it contains profound numerology and ethical philosophy. On the one hand, "late marriage" itself is a sign of "unfavorable marriage", which can promise and offset the bad marriage information in the eight characters to a great extent; On the other hand, "late marriage" can also make people more mature physically and emotionally. After a relatively long period of single life, they will have a stronger attachment to their lover's arms, thus cherishing love more and treating the storms in marriage rationally. Therefore, delaying marriage is an effective way to avoid marriage hitting the rocks and leading to second marriage.