What should my husband do when he is in middle age?

First of all, you should adjust your mentality. Many women will have very serious self-denial after their husbands cheat. Is it because I'm old, because I'm not attractive, or because I'm not good enough, and my husband cheated on me? ...

This series of self-denial can instantly crush women's self-confidence and make their lives no longer sunny. Believe me, a man's cheating has nothing to do with what his wife looks like. Diana is younger than Camilla, and her husband cheated on her. Yuqi Zhang is gorgeous, and her husband is still cheating, not to mention that this woman has sacrificed herself wholeheartedly for her family for decades.

Therefore, it is their fault that men cheat, not women, and they should be blamed, not themselves.

Secondly, quietly grasp the evidence of their infidelity, instead of losing their minds and making a scene. Many women are anxious as soon as they find out that their husbands are cheating. They can do nothing but cry, make noise and hang themselves. For a person who doesn't love himself, such behavior will only make him hate, not live forever. With the evidence, if he wants to divorce, as the wrong party, he will face less property and lose custody of his children. Without love, it is necessary to maximize benefits. It's time to be soft on your house, tickets and children.

If you don't divorce, you can also use this evidence to protect your marriage. Even if you are a mistress, there are a few people who are really fearless. After all, people are social animals, and public opinion can exert pressure on everyone, especially women. It is also emboldened to hold evidence that she is entangled with her husband and then play cards with her to get her out of the marriage. Therefore, it is true that women are not cruel and unstable.

Finally, after finishing the third grade, I will clean up my man in the future, but the purpose of cleaning up a man is to let him know his own means. Don't dwell on the past, it's painful. After all, since you choose to forgive, you must give the man a chance, and more importantly, you must give yourself a chance. If you turn this page, you are finished. Don't mention it easily in the long years to come, it will hurt your feelings.