For people who live a happy and harmonious life, the ownership of the house is not so important. As long as you are in your own hands, you can rest assured, but this family does not include your mother-in-law.
How to live in a house where my mother-in-law works hard to earn money? Even staring at your own other set? This kind of quick success, no matter what kind of daughter-in-law, will stay away from her.
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Lily had a house before she got married, and her parents helped pay the down payment. Because the relationship has not improved, parents are very anxious, afraid that their daughter will suffer in the future, and quickly bought a house.
This way, even if you don't get married in the future, you will have a place to go back after work at night. There is a small place in this world that belongs to her alone.
Later, Lili and Yi Qiang got together. When discussing the wedding room, Lili took out her own house, so Yi Qiang didn't have to buy it again. It's better to scrimp and save the money for buying a big house slowly, so that it won't be spent now.
Yi Qiang is worried that buying a house will spend all his savings. As a result, Lili's proposal was directly reserved for herself. After they got married, they lived in this small house and lived happily.
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But my mother-in-law has been clamoring for coming to live in the city. Lily doesn't want her mother-in-law to come over. This is her own house, how can she let others come at once?
But after Lili got pregnant, even though she didn't want her mother-in-law to come, her mother-in-law moved in in the name of care. Lily doesn't really need to be taken care of;
Therefore, my mother-in-law is carefree and happy every day, and she will help clean up when the hygiene at home can't stand it, but generally speaking, Lili won't make the home so messy.
Later, Lili gave birth to a child, and her mother-in-law often went out to dance square dance, without children, and did not mention her going back at all. Lily is naturally angry.
Lily thinks this apartment is small, and now there are four people crowded. Lili felt that it had a great impact on herself, so she discussed with Yi Qiang to buy another house.
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Somehow, the news reached her mother-in-law. One day, her mother-in-law asked Lily, "Daughter-in-law, I heard that you bought a house again. Where is it? "
Lily felt very sad when she heard her mother-in-law ask about her new house. How did her mother-in-law know about it? Now that she has asked so clearly, does she have other ideas?
So he said with special vigilance, "Why do you ask so many questions? Do you want to move in again? I tell you, if you want to live here, you can't. I won't charge you rent. As for the new house, don't think about it I finally saved up to buy it. I can't let you get involved any more. "
My mother-in-law didn't expect that her daughter-in-law refused to be so thorough, which made her lose face. "Hey, do you think I seldom go to that new house?" I was just asking to scare you. I think you are just narrow-minded and think others will rob you. "
No matter what her mother-in-law said, Lili didn't take it to heart. Now that she knows what her mother-in-law is like, don't argue with her unnecessarily. After living apart, we can have each other's space and catch our breath.
For Lili, the first house is her own private property. She let Yi Qiang live in it because she is her husband and will live together in the future. As for her mother-in-law, she felt a little out of tune, because she was embarrassed to drive out and had to live together.
Lily must be very excited and wary of her mother-in-law when she finally has the ability to be free. After all, my mother-in-law still has no idea and has crossed the line. She thinks her daughter-in-law is stingy, but she obviously did something she shouldn't have done.
In fact, daughter-in-law and mother-in-law should keep a certain distance, not be too strong, and also have their own principles and bottom line. To tell the truth, you won't compromise and give in again and again, you will be hurt secretly.