Moreover, there are more and more trendy parents now. When dressing their babies, they carefully match their hair styles and clothes to ensure that they can become the most beautiful babies in the whole street as soon as they go out.
Children are carefully dressed by their parents, and their hair styles and clothes are the most fashionable, so that they have accepted the concept of "beauty" since childhood, and children will be affected when they grow up.
Although it is said that "everyone loves beauty", it is a bit abrupt if the beauty of children is different from their age, which is not good for children.
Linlin Jr. is an out-and-out "king of children". Among friends of the same age, Linlin Jr. has a strong attraction, and children like to play with Linlin Jr.
Because Linlin Jr. is not only colorful, but also beautiful and well dressed. Just like a little princess, she always likes to play house with children.
Over time, looking at the envious eyes of the children around him, Linlin Jr. began to swell, always asking his mother to buy himself new skirts and toys, which greatly satisfied Linlin Jr.' s vanity.
Even Xiao Linlin asked her mother for cosmetics. When she was five or six years old, she wanted to make up. His mother agreed, and he righteously said to his father: Other people's children are well dressed, so why is our family so shabby? How inferior should he be when he grows up?
Nowadays, parents pay more and more attention to their children's dress. They feel that they didn't have so many beautiful clothes when they were young. It's a pity for this. They think that children wear beautiful clothes, cultivate their aesthetics from childhood, and wear them when they grow up. This fashion will not be laughed at.
However, Li Meijin, a famous professor of juvenile criminal psychology at the Public Security University, said: "Parents should not dress their children too well, and their children should dress mainly in cleanliness and comfort. If they are too delicate, they will put the cart before the horse. "
Therefore, children's clothes should not be beautiful, but should be clean and simple. So, if children dress too beautifully, will it affect them?
1, with a heart of comparison and vanity.
When children are young, if parents dress up their children's appearance too much, they will be vain. They will be happy to see that other children are not good-looking, and they will be embarrassed to see that other children are better-looking than themselves.
2. Children develop the wrong consumption concept.
It is good to like something, and there is nothing wrong with paying attention to your appearance. However, if you pay too much attention to your appearance, you will develop the habit of being extravagant and spending ahead of time.
If children pay attention to appearance from an early age, they will become more and more serious when they grow up, and even buy something beyond their ability, which is not good.
3, affect academic performance
When children are young, they should still focus on learning, and academic performance is the most important. If children only pay attention to dressing up and ignore learning, or have no time to study for dressing up, it will not pay off.
Parents should tell their children that it is good to love beauty, but don't think so much at school. The main task of going to school is to study, and don't affect your academic performance because you love beauty.
In fact, there is nothing wrong with parents dressing up their children, but it is not good to dress up too much. Children's clothes are not necessarily beautiful, but they'd better be clean and age-appropriate.
In short, we should dress our children according to our own abilities, and don't forget what their main "task" is because we pay too much attention to dressing up.
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