If you don't know how to deal with it and use the wrong way to save your feelings, it will easily lead you to deviate from the appropriate retention route, which will lead to the lover getting farther and farther away from you and completely split your's feelings!
The following is the student's private prosecution:
My husband Zhu Xiao and I went to college together. In the case of study and training, I am better than him in pursuing perfection, but he probably thinks that I am not good enough and refuses me. Later, at work, we met again, because I learned to dress up well, but he pursued perfection.
In the whole process of getting along, I paid a lot for him, and I took care of him. After dating for a year, we got married. We used to work together. After we got married, I became a teacher, so he started a small company and became a boss. Everyone has similar family backgrounds.
I thought everyone would be really happy after marriage, but less than two years after marriage, I obviously felt that he had moved on. Especially after I gave birth to a child, he was lukewarm about one thing, and everyone often quarreled. He often works late before coming home. I often complain that he loves work too much and doesn't love me and my children, so he loses his temper.
Later, I often found him answering the phone with his back to me, and I gradually got tired of being in love. And more than once, I found a bill for an oversized luxury bag in his clothes and trousers bag. I have no doubt that he betrayed me, so the marriage counselor said that I doubt whether he betrayed me. He denied that I was noisy. He didn't tell me until I quietly installed a GPS locator in his car and found direct evidence of his cheating.
What's more frightening is that he has been trying to make me feel guilty. Unexpectedly, now he has explicitly filed for divorce. Unbelief was his real idea, but he never came home. Now I'm very scared. This woman can help my husband at work. Even if my husband doesn't want a divorce, she will force him to divorce.
He doesn't want to answer my mobile phone number now, or even return my messages. There's nothing I can do about him. I even thought about getting a divorce, but look at my child who is less than one year old. It's really unbearable!
I feel like a zombie at home, crying silently all day. Good girlfriends really can't stand it. How to persuade me still doesn't work. Then she strongly recommended me for love counseling, and my marriage came back to life!
The investment analyst told Xiaoxiao that her relationship with Zhu Xiao was extremely stagnant for several reasons:
1, _ consciously run in the marital home.
In the love stage, everyone was really happy, but after marriage, you didn't realize each other's changes. Your figure is out of shape, your temper has dropped, and you are more sensitive at home. Where I work, I keep in touch with new people, have new choices and change the new natural environment. Although they live together, their hearts are getting farther and farther apart.
2. You didn't improve yourself.
Zhu Xiao has been out for a long time, and met a better-looking and warmer person than you. After giving birth, I will never dress up again. The third party wears branches and leaves to accompany your husband every day, and there are so many dangers. Are you aware of it?
You are too possessive and don't give them privacy.
From the fact that you have been installing a _GPS locator in his car, you can manipulate everything in Zhu Xiao's daily life, such as never letting him see his mobile phone and how to handle his work. You always make Zhu Xiao feel ambivalent. What boys dislike most is the feeling of being supervised. Even if he cheats and is supervised by you, he won't miss home.