"Beijingers" said at the beginning of new york: If you love someone, send him to new york, because it is heaven; If you hate someone, send him to new york, because it's hell.
It is conceivable that when a person steps into the United States, he begins a life like purgatory-all the colorful and ups and downs of life are experienced in it.
It's hard for men to survive in it, and it's even harder for women to survive.
And Ah Chun, a woman, not only survived, but also lived as brilliantly as a jewel.
The first meeting between Ah Chun and Wang Qiming ended in conflict. Wang Qiming is proud to be an artist, but Ah Chun understands that survival is the focus of Wang Qiming at present.
While lamenting Wang Qiming's talent, she warned him seriously and contemptuously: If you want to be qualified to live in the United States, don't pretend to be an artist when you have no money.
She is heartless, unwilling to invite her compatriots to drink a glass of water, looking down on his feelings and affectation, measuring the hard work of workers with harsh and cheap salaries and not giving them a chance to breathe. Because she knows that anywhere in the United States is exploitation, and this place is better than anywhere else.
However, she is full of kindness and enthusiasm. When the restaurant is too busy, she will do it herself. She can bear the hard work and fatigue.
The kitchen needs onions. When Wang Qiming cut onions, bitter tears ran down his nose. What about spring? A grabbed the kitchen knife, without saying anything directly or cut, deadpan, dumbfounded Wang Qiming.
Isn't she afraid of spicy food? Afraid, too. Why not be quiet and show your color? Because she knew it was the price of survival.
What kind of woman is the happiest? Women who enjoy happiness and pain are the happiest. And Ah Chun is such a woman.
If you want to live, you have to suffer. When you don't have enough to eat, you can only put all this behind you, hold up the living space with one hand and seize your own living opportunity.
Later, because Wang Qiming could not survive, he planned to return to China with Guo Yan. Ah Chun met Wang Qiming, and the two of them had a wonderful conversation:
This is the experience she summed up with years of experience, which contains her tears, her bitterness, her smile and her warmth, but more of it is the hardship and difficulty of life.
But she doesn't care. She lived a happy life in such an environment, lived a living self, lived a living pursuit and lived a living dignity.
I admire such a woman, stronger and gentler than a man.
Ah Chun always shows people with the most beautiful image, mature, elegant and full of charm.
Every skirt shows her figure properly, every eyeliner depicts her irresistible charm, and every lipstick shows her unique style.
Looking at Ah Chun, you can't help feeling that women in their thirties are really beautiful.
Wang Qiming's daughter Ning Ning hurt Ah Chun's self-esteem many times with words and actions, because she hates Ah Chun. However, in a bar, A Chun said such a passage to Ningning, winning a game for herself completely, which made Ningning speechless and even more admired by the audience.
She said:
Self-confidence, pride, and the traces left by years on her body are not only irreversible wrinkles on her face, but also mature mind, steady temperament, indelible pride and self-confidence.
In the play, A Chun's first appearance was an argument with a man she slept with, because that man used the hotel's finances privately.
Ah Chun clearly distinguished between wealth and affection, and the boundary between Chu and Han was insurmountable. Love without legal protection is as light as a feather-she is cruel to herself and others. However, such cruelty contains equality and respect.
Wang Qiming borrowed money from her. Even if one second was sex, the next she insisted that he write an iou and agree on interest and repayment period, which were not affected.
She won't give herself to her until Wang Qiming pays the money. It was not until he paid off his debts that they really put their love into their daily affairs.
Even during this period, Wang Qiming made a lot of money, which flowed into his pocket like running water, and Ah Chun was unmoved. She tried her best to help the man she loved, but she still had to wait for him to pay off the debt.
This is the survival law of society. If a woman doesn't know this, it will be very painful. Especially a woman like Ah Chun, who lives independently in a cruel society, is as smart as her and knows how to protect herself.
However, in real life, most women make a mistake: when she is with a man, it seems that everything becomes the same as the other person, not only physically, but also economically and in life.
In fact, if you want to be an independent woman, the most important thing is to have a say in your own affairs under any circumstances. This is a woman's confidence and support, and must not be discarded.
Wang Qiming invested in real estate, immersed in the imagination that he would earn millions in the future, but Ah Chun pointed out: "You need to read more newspapers and economic newspapers." In the face of Wang Qiming's disdain, she gently explained: "I know that your business has been very smooth, but the extremes meet."
With a keen economic mind, I know the man in front of me. On the one hand, I am happy for his success, but in the face of the objective economic situation, I am vaguely worried about him.
Some people may ask: Since we know that there is something wrong with the economic situation, why didn't Ah Chun stop Wang Qiming in time? Because A Chun is a smart person, she knows Wang Qiming's ambition, and although the economic situation is not good, who can say that Wang Qiming is the last person in the economic chain?
As women, it is the greatest respect for each other not to impose their ideas on each other.
When Wang Qiming failed to invest in real estate and nearly went bankrupt, Ah Chun struggled for the right to visit her children, but she still tried her best to help Wang Qiming out of the predicament and chose to support him in his most miserable time.
Chun's child Jamie has osteomyelitis in his leg. Ah Chun pulled him to his side and treated him with traditional Chinese medicine, which also achieved initial results. But the child's father, Carter, took Ah Chun to court.
The court ruled that Ah Chun abused the child and deprived him of the right to visit.
If you were an ordinary woman, what would you do? Crying to a man? Complain loudly about unfairness and your own grievances? Silently accept the court's handling?
But spring didn't.
Faced with the child's father's accusation, she was in high spirits, wearing high heels and a confident smile, and took her lawyer to negotiate with Carter. Although the court finally ruled against her, she still made me admire her.
In the face of the court's decision, Wang Qiming asked her, "Will you bear it?" Ah Chun said very calmly but confidently, "No, I'm going to the interstate court to sue them."
I was completely conquered by that confident attitude and the attitude of taking back my due rights!
In the United States, it is difficult for the economically weak party to win the case, but Ah Chun finally won the lawsuit three years later, obtained the right to visit his son, and personally cured Jamie's osteomyelitis with Chinese medicine.
In her most difficult time, Wang Qiming was on the verge of bankruptcy, but she didn't bother Wang Qiming for her career, but advised him to help him through the economic crisis.
Being a woman is not easy, but when you have confidence, the right to choose, justice and self-esteem, you will find that the world is not cruel to women.
Women can live cooler than men.
Thank you for coming. I am Yuehua, a girl who never stops growing, and a girl who is eager to grow up with you.
For me, your praise and attention are more important than return. I hope we can move forward together, for life and for the future.