A mother in Jilin helped her children with their homework until she collapsed and cried. How to control her emotions when tutoring homework?

Every time I see someone say that helping children with their homework will make them cry, I feel sad. This time, I saw on the Internet that a mother in Jilin really collapsed and cried because her child was disobedient and didn't do her homework seriously. This is a bad psychological feeling. The mother also wants her children to study hard, and the children don't seem to have made too many mistakes, but it's really hard to feel at home because of doing homework. Then, how should adults control their emotions when helping their children with their homework? Tell me my humble opinion.

First, always remind yourself not to worry too much.

Children's mental development is not complete enough, and it is difficult for them to keep pace with us, so parents should not expect too much from their children and can't see with their own eyes. Some parents always think that some topics are simple and should be? You can understand it as soon as you say it, and you can understand it as soon as you listen? Therefore, once children fail to meet their psychological expectations, they will start to worry, and when they can't help it, they will beat and scold their children, which is actually wrong. The more anxious parents are, the more they yell at their children, the more counterproductive they will be.

Second, when the mood is about to get out of control, we should first slow down.

Some parents don't know how to control their emotions when they treat their children. Once they find that their children have made mistakes on some simple questions, they will start all kinds of cynicism. Speaking of excitement, they even want to severely criticize and beat and scold. In this way, parents vent their emotions, and their mood becomes better, but their children are even worse. They will be more and more afraid of their parents' guidance in their homework, because they are worried that they will be scolded by their parents again. So remind parents that when they find that they are about to lose control of their temper, they must slow down and suppress their emotions before communicating with their children. When you calm down, you can sort out the children's problems. I believe this treatment is more acceptable to children.

Third, family education is a kind of practice, and parents need to realize that they should constantly cultivate and improve themselves.

Why do some parents always want to yell at their children when they are tutoring their homework? That's because they only see the children's mistakes and don't realize that their teaching methods may also have shortcomings. Parents should explore a more harmonious way to get along with their children in the process of teaching them, and constantly accumulate and summarize some successful experiences, so that children can get along with their children better and grow together in the future tutoring homework.