A Liang said that although the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law quarreled badly, he never blamed anyone because he deserved it. If he had listened to his wife and asked her to take care of the new month, he would not have asked his mother to take care of his wife who had just given birth. Maybe there won't be so many contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
A Liang said that his mother-in-law's biggest problem was that her mother preferred sons to daughters, so she especially disliked wives who only gave birth to daughters, so her mother asked her daughter-in-law to sit the next month, get pregnant quickly and have another one.
A Liang said that his wife's work is very busy, and she can't take any more leave. So my wife refused his mother's request, so my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law argued all day, and even my mother often threatened my wife with divorce, saying that if she didn't have a son, Liang would divorce her. It is also for these reasons that A Liang has a headache, because no matter how hard he tries to persuade him, it is useless.
A Liang's mother may have been angry with her daughter-in-law. She said to A Liang that day, "Son, divorce her and let your daughter-in-law leave home cleanly. She won't want a house. Do you think she can still be crazy?" When A Liang heard these words from his mother, he was shocked and knew the seriousness of the matter.
A Liang immediately said to his mother, "Mom, don't do this. She bought all the houses and cars at home, which was her property before marriage. I had nothing to do with that. If you really want a divorce, I want to leave home cleanly. " I was embarrassed to lie to you. I said I bought everything at home. At that time, my wife respected me very much, so she didn't expose me. She earns much more money than I do. "
A Liang said to his mother, "If I don't have a car or a house after the divorce, where can I get a wife?"? Will you buy it for me? If you really let me divorce, I will hate you for life, because now my marriage is very happy, please move back and live, don't hurt me for life. "
After listening to A Liang's words, my mother was speechless and didn't know what to say. Because she was not used to life, she moved back to her hometown that day.
A Liang said that in fact, he was very grateful to his wife in this life, because although she was much better than him, she never abandoned him and gave him enough dignity and face. Even when her mother-in-law quarreled with her daughter-in-law, she didn't expose anything, so A Liang felt that he was ashamed of his wife, so he quit his job and took care of the children at home. His wife asked him, are you not afraid of people laughing?
A Liang smiled and replied to his wife: "I am afraid of being laughed at, but you have your own dreams, and your career is better than mine, so I can only do this, because only in this way can the family live a better life and be good for us and our children. Besides, no one can envy you for marrying such a good daughter-in-law. " After hearing what A Liang said, his wife burst into tears.
Of course, there are also some laughing beams who are too stupid and worthless to deal with the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, not men's.
Bian Xiao has something to say:
In my opinion, I think A Liang handles the family affairs very well, because he is not partial or evasive, but takes on the responsibility of being a man alone and then takes on all this.
It is by no means unproductive for a man to give up his job and devote himself wholeheartedly to his family, nor is it unmanly, because no one says that family affairs are women's affairs, marriage is two people's affairs, and family is naturally two people's affairs, so choosing A Liang to take care of the family is not only unproductive, but also the performance of the person in charge, because he is a good husband and a good father, and he has also done his duty.
I often say that the most critical point of most mother-in-law problems is not the mother-in-law, but the man himself. Because of the man's inaction, the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will become more and more serious, so A Liang who solved the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was right.
Because if we want to solve the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, then the most crucial thing must be the distance between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Because even the best relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will break out under the same roof, keeping a distance and respecting each other is one of the ways to solve the problem of mother-in-law.
In addition, for the sake of children, A Liang had to send his mother out of the house, because his mother preferred sons to daughters, which would probably hurt his immature daughter, so it was also a pleasure to let her leave the house. Of course, A Liang can't completely ignore his mother because of his family. If he has time, he still needs to go home often, because when he is old, what he needs most is the company of his children.
After the A Liang incident, I hope all men can support their wives, stand up bravely when the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law breaks out, and bear all the pressure alone, because only in this way can a real man make his marriage and family better, and blindly escape and be eccentric will only make the family more unhappy.