Parents want to know about their children in kindergarten. What are the skills of "effective communication" with teachers?

When the teacher is not busy, such as after school, you can ask the teacher about the children in the park. Just like chatting, you can ask the teacher about your child's problems at school according to his performance at home. Don't say anything irrelevant. Teachers like parents who can speak frankly and communicate in time if they have questions. Parents were very upset when their children entered the kindergarten. They want to know how the children are in kindergarten. I believe that many parents want to know whether their children are doing well in kindergarten, how they get along with their children, whether they are bullied by others and so on after their children enter kindergarten. But in the process of chatting with children, because children are still young, they can't understand what parents say; Or no matter what you ask, children are reluctant to share things in the garden; Or children can't express clearly, which makes parents more anxious.

It is understandable that parents will be worried and anxious when their children leave home for social study for the first time, but you can't keep asking children questions in the garden because you want to know their situation too much, which will make them stressed. Therefore, teacher communication is the simplest, direct and effective method, and how to communicate effectively with teachers is something that every parent should learn.

When communicating with the teacher, you must find the right time to ask questions. Many parents often ignore the right time to speak. It is very important to know the timing of the conversation. Don't send messages to teachers when they are busy. Teachers not only have no time to reply, but also ask and answer questions too hastily when they are busy. You should ask questions when the teacher is free, so that the teacher's thinking will be clearer and the questions will be answered more comprehensively.

At the same time, be careful not to ask too many questions, control them within 2-3, and control the questions within 5 minutes, because the teacher is really busy. If a parent spends five minutes and dozens of students in the class have to reply, the teacher will be very tired, so parents should put themselves in their shoes.

There are many things that parents must know about how to communicate with teachers to understand the real situation of children. Parents don't know how to ask effective questions to teachers. After asking for a long time, they seem to understand everything, but their understanding is not in place. This is because parents ask wrong questions, sometimes parents ask too broad questions, and teachers don't know where to start answering. So, I'm not asking what you think, but I have to go through certain screening. Parents can ask questions in combination with their children's situation at home. For example, when a child needs help from an adult when going to the toilet at home, can you ask the teacher if the child can express that he wants to go to the toilet? By asking this question, you can know whether the child is adapted in kindergarten and whether you can ask others for help when you encounter problems that you can't solve.

Ask the teacher if he has any good friends at school. This question can help us understand how children socialize. Kindergarten is a social occasion for children. There must be something wrong. We can find some children's problems in time by asking the teacher, and then guide the children how to deal with them.

Ask children how their habits are at school, and do they need to be adjusted in time at home? This question can find out what bad habits children have from the teacher's objective point of view. If you really don't know how to ask, you can also tell the teacher about your child's bad behavior at home, such as losing his temper. Your child doesn't have this situation at school. You can ask the teacher if there are any good ways to solve it.

Don't be afraid that your problems are not nutritious, and don't be afraid that the teacher will be bored. Combined with children's bad behavior at home, it is the best way to ask children whether they have the same behavior at school. As long as you ask the teacher more, you will pay more attention to the children. When communicating with the teacher, you should have an equal and respectful attitude, not with the tone of command or accusation, and don't be afraid of offending the teacher without asking anything.