Recently, she found that her husband was eating Viagra behind her back, which was related to the performance that men couldn't do what they wanted in bed some time ago.
She is worried and suspicious. She doesn't know whether there is something wrong with her partner's body or her sexual attraction has decreased, which makes her husband lose his impulsive desire.
The contents of the letter were repeatedly mentioned, and she struggled to ask clearly in person, fearing that the relationship would get worse if asked, but the problem was not solved and she became more and more unhappy.
So, how do you communicate when you find that your partner is taking an aphrodisiac without your knowledge? How to solve it?
What if the other half really can't do it? Let's share some thoughts and opinions below, hoping to provide some reference and help to everyone.
1. Why does he take Viagra?
Usually, men who take aphrodisiacs can't just think about improving their sexual ability.
Many people think that sex represents a man's status and charm. If you can't get hard or move too fast, you can't do it, or you're not good enough. This is a matter of great self-esteem and face.
Men subconsciously regard erection as something they must do. Even if I'm not sick, I'm worried that I'll play occasionally. I must take a small pill in advance for peace of mind and insurance.
They think I just want to make you feel better anyway, and there is no need to let you know this, or they think that after saying this, it will affect their strong image in their partner's heart and make them look unmanly.
In addition, some people who take aphrodisiacs do realize that they are unhealthy, but because of face problems, they don't want to tell others or treat them, hoping to improve their biu ability through drugs.
2. Can I take the blue pill Viagra when it doesn't work?
Blue pills, also known as Viagra, are now mainly used to treat male erectile dysfunction. If you have this problem, you can take it, but it is not recommended to take it for a long time to avoid drug dependence.
Many people think that small pills are a panacea for all diseases because they don't know enough. Take small pills when you have a cold; Soft too fast, take small pills; Some people even suspect that they have sexually transmitted diseases and take small pills.
Here to remind you, Viagra can only make you work harder, but it can't improve your sexual desire, delay your time, and it can't treat sexually transmitted diseases.
In addition, Xiaolan Pill has some side effects, such as mild facial flushing, dizziness, headache, serious cardiovascular disease, or long erection time, which may cause harm, but that is even worse.
Therefore, it is best to go through a professional examination to decide whether everyone's health is appropriate, the time and dosage to take. Whatever the reason, it is not recommended to take medicine blindly without permission.
He is very strict with me. Am I not sexy enough?
There is a girl next to me. After dating my boyfriend for a year, my sex life gradually decreased. Later, it was found that her partner took small pills without telling her, but the other party said it was because of her problem.
A man thinks he is good with his ex-girlfriend, but he can't be too hard on her. They also said that she was not sexy enough to touch her without taking medicine.
Because of this, my friend has been in inferiority and anxiety for a long time, and she feels that it is really her own fault.
But in fact, most of these reasons are bad excuses, lacking knowledge of possibility and understanding the real situation.
Or he's only with you for other purposes, and he doesn't really like you in his heart.
Most men can't get up in biu, which is related to age, illness and psychological pressure.
This matter, just like playing basketball, no matter how powerful a person is, he will not always hit the target. It's normal to miss the camera occasionally.
But until now, there are still many women who think they have the obligation to serve their partners well, and the other party can't do it because of poor performance.
A study by the University of Canterbury, New Zealand, found that women (33-68 years old) surveyed had a series of concerns about their other half secretly taking Viagra. Many women attribute the decline in the quality of their husbands' erections to their lack of enthusiasm or compassion in the past. & amp
A woman's body never exists to please others, and a woman is also the subject of pleasure.
Since it's voluntary, you don't like it, and you don't have to do it if you don't feel sexy enough. Now that you have done it, don't feel that girls are not attractive afterwards.
Moreover, sex can make both parties cooperate with each other, but sexual desire and pleasure need to be obtained by themselves rather than others.
He ate viagra secretly. What should I do?
As long as it is a sexual relationship between two people, you can actually talk openly. Whether it is a physical illness or a psychological problem, we should understand each other's situation.
However, it is necessary to use appropriate communication methods instead of questioning, laughing and condemning, so that the other party must give an explanation.
After understanding the situation, we will see if we really need drugs and treatment. Maybe there are other ways to solve it.
When they talk to him calmly in a quiet environment, tell him that you accidentally know that he is taking medicine, but you are worried about his physical condition and think that taking medicine may not be the best way.
If it is serious, you still need to see a doctor and cooperate with other treatments.
But in any case, you support him and hope that he will get better, so that you won't look down on him. He knows it's normal for men to have sexual problems.
If the other person doesn't want to talk and refuses to communicate, you can also see what methods can help him in daily life or sex/life.
For example, if you are too tired from work, don't force yourself. Try to suspend your intimate life for a while and remind him to take a rest, eat and exercise properly. In short, don't put too much psychological pressure on each other.
In addition, sex/life does not necessarily need to be inserted to complete, foreplay and caress are both a kind of sex.
Take this opportunity to try other ways with your partner, such as toys, fingers or lips, so that you can get comfortable satisfaction and enjoy different fun.
Once insertion is not considered as the only sexual/lifestyle in psychology, it is not so important whether Tintin can get hard or not, and the pressure of doing it will be much less.
Just like when we are allergic to certain foods, we can also satisfy our appetite through other foods.
Because. All right. Trouble is always hard to talk about, even between husband and wife. I think it's probably because people attach too much importance to sex and can't treat and talk about it calmly and normally.
When we can face up to sex and talk about it naturally, maybe we will understand a very simple truth:
In other words, sex is just a part of our life. We can solve sexual problems like other problems in life.
I also want to talk to the boys here, but I suggest communicating with the other half more. Don't think this is your own business.
Don't be too stressed, and don't think that the other party has an obligation to please you and protect your self-esteem. After all, the relationship needs the efforts of both sides to maintain.
In intimate relationships, many problems, including sex, can be solved through active communication, and mutual honesty and trust between two people are the decisive things in this relationship ~