Three labels: community operators, trainers and efficient learning researchers.
Lao Xu himself is kind, gentle, humorous and reliable, which left a deep impression on me in Shi Beichen's writing training camp. At the same time, sharing through his circle of friends indirectly shows that he is a delicate and observant person.
So seeing the publicity of his paid courses, I did not hesitate to send a red envelope to join this group. In fact, it also confirms Lao Xu's point of view in this course: Be a reliable person, others will believe in your character and naturally believe in your products.
The purpose of buying textbooks is not how to get wealth, but to learn from his ways of self-promotion, self-display and continuous improvement, but after listening to sharing, I really upgraded my view of wealth.
The main gains are as follows:
1. The most important investment in a person's life is to invest in himself. I quite agree with that. Growing up, I was never willing to spend money on eating, drinking and having fun, but I was willing to invest in my studies. There is a whole bookcase of books at home, as well as paid courses about get, classes at ten o'clock, only the library and chat. For the same 1000 yuan, I can buy a dress or enroll in a good course. I will choose the latter without hesitation.
2. Take a blank piece of paper, write down what you can do, find out your own advantages, and continue to focus on yourself. You realize it's only a matter of time. This was confusing in the past. I have always felt that I am poor in ability, unable to speak or write. Sometimes I feel so useless that I don't even want to tell others that I am a teacher. But judging from the feedback from my colleagues, classmates and friends, I am still excellent in their eyes. For example, they are considerate and good at learning, and can help them solve their worries and doubts with what they have learned and experienced. There is even a proud female leader who calls me "the goddess of wisdom". Sometimes she will turn to me to help her analyze and solve problems that she can't handle. This time, Lao Xu's sharing point awakened me and strengthened my strength.
3. Textual research is possible. The exam shows that we have only mastered the relevant knowledge, but we have not been able to put it down. I agree with you on this point. I think I prefer textual research. As long as you take the exam, you will basically pass it at one time. However, I have already passed the exam and I don't know how to apply it. For example, I took the teacher qualification certificate in senior three, the second-level psychological counselor in 1 1 year, and the multimedia operator certificate in 13 year, but I always feel that having a certificate does not mean that I can really reach the qualified level, so I still have to continue my studies, so I can't live without the ground.
4. Shamelessly betray yourself on the premise of being yourself reasonably and legally. This is also something I need to practice. I am too thin-skinned, so I never want to ask for help unless I have to, and my personal development is greatly affected.
4. If you want to eat fruit, you should plant fruit trees instead of buying fruit with your salary. Planting fruit trees is an investment, and buying fruit directly with wages is a costly consumption. This also requires us to raise a golden goose of our own, so that the golden goose can lay eggs for us continuously.
5. Many powerful people are T-shaped, and they are multi-dimensional.
Finally, I would like to add a recent reflection on the concept of wealth: money is forged freedom. I forget who said this sentence, maybe I saw it in Transition.
My understanding is: Why are we all eager for wealth? Because we all yearn for freedom, the pursuit of wealth is actually the pursuit of freedom. So, if we don't have a big house, a luxury car and a lot of money, but I have a healthy body, a job I love (I can't earn a lot of money) and a like-minded lover, that is to say, I have a free and happy life, so there is no need to pursue wealth desperately.
In fact, a healthy body, a job you love, a like-minded lover and an interesting soul are all wealth.
There are still many points. I will continue to analyze and think later and submit feedback first.