The company expanded its department and recruited Xiaoli, a newly graduated college student. Xiaoli used to be everyone's "pistachio" and the "flavoring agent" of the office because she was young and lively. After a long time, her outspoken and unthinking way of speaking gradually aroused everyone's disgust.
Last week, Sister Liu in the office wore a fashionable skirt to work. When Xiaoli saw it, she exclaimed in full view: "Sister Liu, you are so affectionate in this dress!" And this skirt is Chanel's, and she added: "Is this skirt at least 3,000 yuan? Which handsome guy bought it for you? " Originally smiling Liu Jie suddenly froze, and the atmosphere in the office seemed to freeze instantly.
On another occasion, when the salary was paid at the beginning of the month, Xiaoli accidentally saw the salary slip of Lao Liu, a colleague of the department. After returning, she immediately started a free publicity in the office: "Brother Liu, your salary is really high, more than 20,000 yuan. Congratulations!" The company keeps everyone's salary secret. After Xiaoli's "propaganda", Lao Liu's cheerful face suddenly became sunny and cloudy.
There are many similar things, and everyone slowly began to have an idea: "Xiaoli is very open-minded, that is, she likes to say everything." "Well, I'm still too young to understand." Gradually, little Betty found that when she spoke, there were fewer listeners in the office, and even fewer people picked up jokes. Communication in the office is necessary, but it is better to say less about some things that everyone is taboo.
In fact, there are many details in the workplace, seemingly insignificant little things, seemingly insignificant little problems. If it is not handled well, it is possible to "stir up a thousand waves with one stone", make others unhappy, and slowly let themselves fall into an unacceptable situation. This is a sign of low emotional intelligence. Many people have made this mistake. These people not only don't understand why they are gradually isolated from others, but also feel that they are really treating others and why they don't get anything in return.
Speaking in the workplace depends on the occasion, we should fully consider the acceptance of the other party and consider whether what we said on that occasion is appropriate. Moreover, we should have a certain understanding of some hidden rules in the office and speech rules that cannot be discussed at will in public. Appropriate witticisms can adjust the atmosphere, and occasional directness can be considered as simplicity, and it can be said that casual expression is stupid. Learn to speak so that you can get twice the result with half the effort in the workplace.