I have participated in more than 20 periods of consulting practice, being a visitor, an observer and observing and learning, but I still dare not be a consultant. It feels like a class is not ready, and I have to rush to the lecture hall, which seems to be a misunderstanding; As a consultant, if you don't accompany and help visitors well, you will feel that it is a waste of their precious time. Although I know it's just consultation and practice, I'm still worried!
Summarizing the learning experience in consulting practice, there are roughly two types of excellent consultants:
Have profound professional knowledge of psychology, be flexible in the consultation process, and be not dogmatic or blindly obedient. There are many male teachers of this type. Maybe men's perspective is different from that of women, wider and deeper? What's more commendable is that they still have feminine softness. In the process of consultation, you can accompany them stably and enthusiastically, and at the same time guide the visitors' thoughts and run and fly freely. Or some narrative flavor, let tourists pour out their unique life stories and think about building wonderful side stories!
The other kind of professional technology is profound and will be consulted in strict accordance with the focus. This kind of consultation will not deviate from the main line of consultation and can provide a good reference model for novices. The whole consultation process can be close to visitors, set goals and take a small step, thus causing better changes, which is also a good consultation method.
Continue to study, continue to practice and cultivate yourself into a useful person!