In that explosion, one of Dali's fathers died. At that time, the social attention to such incidents was not high, which did not cause much sensation, and pensions and compensation were pitiful. From then on, only grandma and mom were left at home, and there were several relatives who were not too painful or itchy.
In the mountain village, survival is cruel. After the only source of income in the family was broken, only the mother left home, besides supporting the big pear, she also had to support her grandmother. The lack of adult men in rural families is even worse. Mother can't do heavy manual work, and she doesn't have the strength to plow and pull cattle. When it comes to the autumn harvest, she can only pay for help.
Dali's mother has become a widow, and she still has some beauty in that backcountry. Every time Dali meets someone outside the village, a man teases her:
"Big pear, I saw the old cold head send briquettes to your mother the other day ... hahaha." "Your mother also sent some eggs to wild dogs plowing in the fields." "Hey, Dali, she looks more and more like your mother." Dali will throw away his eyes when he meets this kind of words.
"Big pear, your mother's milk is really big. Yes, it shakes when you carry water. " In case of hooligans, Dali directly picked up the stones on the ground and smashed them.
When Dali comes home at night, she tells her mother. Mother and son are crying under the dim tungsten lamp.
Three years later, Dali's mother was overwhelmed by life. One night, she put all her money on the bed and left home. At that time, Dali was already in Grade Two. She dropped out of school as soon as her mother left. Dali cried with grandma all night.
Until my voice became hoarse.
Grandma told Dali that her mother had married a village 10 miles away, and married a man whose wife was dead. She recounted her mother's faults: she couldn't work, she couldn't have a boy, and there were always men who tried to seduce her and didn't want Dali mercilessly. The hatred for Dali is growing day by day.
Not long after, in order to make a living, Dali went to Guangdong to work with the young people in the village. I entered a clothing factory and worked very hard. Six years later, I was promoted to deputy director, and two years later, I started my own clothing business. Everyone who works for dozens of miles around his hometown in Guizhou knows Dali's reputation.
After Dali's mother remarried, she continued to farm in the countryside and gave birth to three babies, two boys and a girl. I heard that life is not bad. However, I have never been in contact with Dali.
Last year, when I went home for the Spring Festival, Dali arranged for several uncles to have a reunion dinner, and the family atmosphere was still quite hot. Grandma said in the banquet, "Dali, do you want to see your mother in a few days?" Dali replied, "We'll see."
I stayed up all night on New Year's Eve. How did I spend the days when I was out of school, working in the south, a girl being isolated and helpless, and countless days when I missed my grandmother day and night? The tempering of life has made Dali's eyes sharper, his attitude more calm, his tolerance for the good and evil of human nature and his life more abundant. That night, I completely emptied myself, imagined my mother's situation at that time, and gradually understood her choice.
At the head of the village 10 miles away, I met my mother whom I hadn't seen for seven years. My mother knelt down at a distance and burst into tears. A pear with a diaphragm in its heart suddenly collapsed. All the resentment and pain were washed away with the flood of emotion, and all the unwillingness and helplessness disappeared in the crying. Dali ran to his mother, hugged her and cried.
When Kang Ge left Hangzhou, he only brought clothes. A room full of books, photo albums, souvenirs, SLR cameras and IPad are all left in the room. The last high-speed train sailed to the magic capital alone with the night.
On the morning of leaving, Kang Ge told his girlfriend Yaqing that he was going to work overtime in the company to catch a big project of Party A. When he didn't come back in the company at night, he bought more snacks and took a bite if he missed him. Yaqing is an executive in a company, working from nine to six almost every day. She is used to getting along with Kang Ge 1 year.
Never thought, Party A encountered crisis public relations, and Kang Ge's project was stopped in the middle of the night. Brother Kang couldn't wait, so he sat on the swivel chair and turned around to celebrate liberation in a low-key way. Over the past month, I don't know how many classes have been added, and TMD has finally been liberated for some time.
Looked at the time, at night 1 1, Yaqing should have fallen asleep when she got home. Every time I think of my girlfriend's sleeping face and loose black hair, I can't help rushing home. Every time he pokes his head out of his tender chest, Kang Ge silently swears in his heart that Lao Zi will make a lot of money, so that the skin of this bitch in his arms can always be squeezed out.
When a tall man went out from his side with his head down, Kango stood in the middle of the living room. The sofa is full of snacks, blankets are scattered on the sofa, pillows are scattered on the floor, and the ashtray used by Kang Ge is randomly placed on the table, next to a stubbed cigarette. There are crayons on the TV screen. ...
After a long time, Congo didn't say a word. Then, I walked slowly to the bedroom, packed some clothes and went out with my bag on my back. Ya Qing's nervous and delicate eyes, Kang Ge said it was a betrayal that would never be forgotten.
I came to the magic capital with only 2000 yuan on me. I am really poor. After renting a cubicle, he went to look for a job the next day. About a week later, Congo left his original company and found a job as a copywriter in an advertising company.
Ya Qing sent a message, explained it and said, I'm sorry, I didn't control myself. Kang Ge simply replied: No, fuck off. Brother Kang is single-minded, and so is his work. He stayed in this company for five years and rose to the position of director of the creative group. He earns hundreds of thousands of dollars a year, sweeping away the embarrassment before, wearing fashionable colors, and there are many girls around him who take the initiative to show good.
Some time ago, Kang Ge attended the wedding of a college classmate and met Ya Qing. Several close friends don't know the real reason why they broke up, only one buddy learned it from the gossip after drinking when quarreling.
This guy also attended the wedding. When others teased Kang Ge and Yaqing, he deliberately changed the subject to avoid embarrassment. I didn't expect Kang Ge to take the initiative to talk to Yaqing. After asking a few simple questions, he moved away.
Kang Ge saw Yaqing, still beautiful and much more charming. Recalling that past, he couldn't help feeling emotionally. How can such a beautiful girl stand a poor man who died at that time and worked overtime? I feel relieved of the pain hidden in my heart for many years. Then I called my current girlfriend and talked about the arrangements for getting married in 1 year.
Xiaoqing and Linda are college roommates. Xiaoqing's family is average, and she usually saves money; Linda's family is a businessman, well-off, generous and full of petty bourgeoisie. The twins, who are called English department, have good academic performance, and the way you fight for each other has become an example for the college of this department. However, although Linda's grades are also very good, most of them still lag behind Xiaoqing.
They often study together and go in and out of the library and study room. When they appear at Christmas parties and social dances, they must be the focus of the crowd. Linda usually knows how to dress up. Clothes, cosmetics and ornaments were filled in the wardrobe of the dormitory, and a cabinet was specially added, which was envied by the four roommates. Xiaoqing is much more elegant. If two people meet someone on the road, Linda will always be accosted.
Xiaoqing will inevitably think too much in the dead of night, especially after seeing many boys pay attention to Linda. I can't help feeling that I am short of money. If I dress up carefully, I am naturally more beautiful than Linda. However, this kind of mood will come once in a while, and it will soon become an encouragement to yourself: Xiaoqing, work hard, you deserve better.
Once, Linda's father came back from a trip to Europe and brought back a bottle of Chanel No.5 from Paris. Linda opened it in the dormitory, let her roommates spray some, and then told them about this magical perfume she had heard. When everyone asked about the price, the domestic price was over 1000 yuan, and everyone was amazed.
It's about the weekend night after this week. Linda is getting dressed and getting ready for a date. When I finally opened the cupboard door and took out chanel no.5, I found it was gone. Three girls in the dormitory exploded the pot. Xiaoqing was not here at that time, so she went on a date with a senior in the finance department. When Xiaoqing opened the dormitory door, three pairs of eyes looked at her.
Xiaoqing is very flustered, because this senior is also Linda's favorite object, and we met at an international volunteer activity. Xiaoqing thought everyone knew, so she put the cards on the table and said she had a date with her senior.
Linda cried her emotions: "Zhang Xiaoqing, you actually used my perfume to date." Where did you get the smell? I don't usually wear perfume. "
Xiaoqing was dumbfounded at once, blushing and explaining, "I bought it myself." Then he ran out of the dormitory crying.
It turns out that this girl used to wear perfume in order to date her seniors. Maybe she saw the charm of perfume in Linda. So I bought a small bottle in bulk in the online mall, imitating the fragrance of Chanel No.5. She is usually competitive and stubborn, and she doesn't want to explain this reason to her roommate, so the misunderstanding arises. Besides, there is a senior in the middle.
Linda is a frank person. She told her friends about it, and the whole hospital knew something. Later, Linda did see the bulk perfume bottle that Xiaoqing threw in the garbage basket, and she also remembered the smell of perfume that day. But it's too late. Since then, the two have become strangers. In the past, they secretly competed in grades, beauty, making friends, etc., which led to one party's superior gaze and the other party's silent swallowing.
After graduation, Xiaoqing has just entered an international cosmetics giant and achieved the position of deputy director of the brand. What Linda used to use in college can be easily put into her pocket. One day, when Xiaoqing was shopping, she saw Chanel No.5 and suddenly realized something. She bought a bottle with her own money.
In the evening, I wrote a long email to Linda, explaining what happened in those days. I didn't expect Linda to reply immediately, saying that she was misunderstood and irrational. Xiaoqing is not the strong and poor girl she used to be. The pain that Linda brought to herself has gradually drifted away on this beautiful day. That night, even the roots were pulled out.
My friend is devoted to his work, but he has never been interested in marriage and love, and there is no suitable person around him. Her parents have been urging her to get married since she graduated from college, and it was very painful at that time. Now she is living a wonderful life alone, managing her life clearly, and her salary is gradually rising. Now that her parents are urging her to get married again, she said, "I'm living a good life alone now. There is no need to be in such a hurry. I am in such a hurry to find someone to satisfy you. Will you? " At that time, the personality was not suitable and had to be divided. Would you like to? "
Parents see that their daughter is taking care of herself better and better, so they let her wait, because they know in their hearts that a good daughter never worries about getting married.
My friend proudly said to me, "The better you live, the stronger your ability to resolve your pain."
Whether it's the dull pain brought by growing up or the painful situation you are in now. The best way is to live a good life. Accumulate workplace skills and make the salary rise; Careful management in life makes life more poetic; Read more books and absorb spiritual nutrition; Walk more and see the world.
I believe that with your rich knowledge, strong spirit and accumulated skills, your vision and knowledge will surely come. Your ability will become more and more effective, your economic foundation will become more and more solid, your understanding of past experiences will be clearer and more thorough, you will learn to tolerate, you will learn to let go, you will learn to cherish, you will learn to prepare for the future, and then you will open your heart.
Try to live a good life, cross the pain and go to poetry and the distance.
Yixin, a man who tells the story of vagrants,
You may be in the story.