First, parents are children's first teachers and the importance of family education.
Family education is very important for children's growth and plays an irreplaceable role in school education and social education. Parents have an unshirkable responsibility for their children's growth. Creating a harmonious family life is very important for children's growth, and parents should set a good example in every bit of life.
Second, stimulate children's interest in learning and help them find their own strengths.
In the usual learning process, parents should encourage their children and teach them how to deal with difficulties. When children make progress, we should praise and encourage them in time, cultivate and encourage their interest in learning, and always look for their strengths and encourage them. Third, always care about children's academic performance and treat children's achievements correctly.
Parents should care about their children's academic performance and help them correct bad learning methods. If their children make slow progress in their studies, parents should not pay too much attention to their achievements. If the child really works hard, there is no problem. Don't rush for success, don't take scores too seriously, and correctly guide children's learning methods and learning purposes. As a junior child, it is more important. Of course, you can't say that grades are not very important in front of children. Fourth, the cooperation between family education and schools.
In order to make the effect of family education better, it is very important for parents to keep consistent with school education, communicate with teachers frequently, understand the situation of children at home and at school, and let children develop morally, intellectually, physically and aesthetically through home-school cooperation. In my opinion, if children can regard teachers and parents as their intimate friends, have troubles to talk about and have fun, that is the success of our family education and school education. V. Cooperation between family education and social education
When children grow up, they will enter the society. As parents, children should feel the responsibility of society from an early age. In daily life, they should spread more good deeds and obligations as citizens in society. Cultivate children's correct outlook on life from an early age.
Experience of family education tutor Fan Wen II
July 16? On 24th, 16 colleagues from other brother schools in our county participated in the fourth training and study for family education instructors organized by the Provincial Education Department. Nine days' study, although not too long, touched my heart greatly, and I can say that I experienced a baptism of my soul. The specific report is as follows:
First of all, the schedule is very tight.
I have participated in many overseas training studies in the past, but I have never arranged the time and content of the study.
No time is like this, so tight. 16 morning is the check-in time. When we arrived at the hotel, it was nearly 1 1 o'clock. After reading the study arrangement of the meeting group, I know that the study will officially start at 3 pm. Settle down in a hurry and go to eat. At half past two in the afternoon, I arrived at the place where I studied. From then on, intense study began. During the nine days, except for one day of revision and one afternoon of exams, except for the middle break every afternoon 15 minutes, all of them sat for one afternoon, and the whole morning and afternoon were full. Study during the day and don't be idle at night. There are few opportunities and time for walking, wandering and playing after meals. Eight nights, except for the night of registration, I arranged my own activities, and I had something to do the rest of the time: I arranged an expert report for three nights, which didn't end until nearly 10. Those three days were real, and the dinner time was less than 30 minutes, which made everyone eat and walk in a hurry and was particularly nervous. The rehearsal of the get-together on the 22nd, the performance on the 23rd, and the rest of the time are basically group activities. There is also the content arranged in the morning, so we can't sleep in, because every morning at 6-7, comrades in our county 17 will get together to rehearse the program. We all have a common wish, that is, to leave the positive and cooperative spirit of Xin 'an educators in the provincial capital and show it to every student in the province. Our efforts were not in vain. On 23rd, our program "Country" won applause from the audience because of its new form and good effect. Looking back on my 9-day study and life in the provincial capital, I am really nervous, full of happiness.
Second, the training content is rich.
In 9 days, the content of study and training is very rich, with expert reports, self-reflection, study tests and gala performances, which is really refreshing. Experts include Sun Yunxiao, Xu Jianguo, Yang Xiong, Lu Shizhen, Ping Cao and other first-class top figures in domestic family education theory research, as well as wonderful reports from local teachers Zhang Jian and Zhou Huiling. Through a large number of case studies, teacher-student interaction, on-site question and answer and other flexible teaching methods, they give each of our students? The future family education tutors had a vivid and unforgettable lesson, and gave us useful training and careful guidance in the knowledge, skills and teaching methods we should have, which made us have a further understanding of family education and have more confidence in being a good family education tutor. In the process of learning, everyone is required to do a good job of self-reflection so that the feelings and experiences in learning can be recorded in time; There is a press conference every morning before the start of school, so that everyone can know and know the learning and activity dynamics of each class in time; At the end of the study, a rigorous examination was conducted, which not only tested the learning effect, but also promoted the learning process. At the beginning of study, we should arrange classes to prepare evening programs, so that everyone can find a place to rehearse while intensive reading, which not only regulates the pace of life, but also enriches the learning content, making this study and training in Zhengzhou truly a beautiful and unforgettable eternal memory in our long life.
Thirdly, I learned a lot.
As an educator, I have a clearer understanding of the relationship between family education, social education and school education and the importance of family education. Family education is the basic education and the initial processing of children, while school education is the main education and the continuous deep processing of children. Social education is actually a kind of humanistic education with the characteristics of development, inspection and environment. Family education determines the starting point and level of school education and the foundation and development trend of social education. Therefore, if a school wants to improve the quality of education and teaching, the primary starting point should be family education, which is the real starting line of the school. No problem children, no problem parents, problem children is mainly due to the height and angle of children. Changing the height and angle of parents' view of children requires schools to attach importance to family education and try their best to guide and help every parent in the process of implementing family education.
Reflecting on yourself, I used to pay more in my career, but now it seems very inappropriate to ignore or underestimate my children's family education. Teachers should not only cultivate their own fields, but also cultivate their own gardens. As a teacher's parent, you also grew up with your children. You should study, study, study again, master effective methods of educating children, and put them into action. Teachers who have abandoned their gardens should all be incompetent parents, let alone competent teachers.
Through several days of training and study, I have realized the importance of being a family education instructor, and gradually felt the great responsibility on my shoulders. In the future work, I will definitely further clarify my work ideas, attach importance to and earnestly do a good job in family education, undertake the duties and obligations that a family education instructor should have, do a good job in a down-to-earth manner, and promote the education and teaching work in by going up one flight of stairs.
Experience of Family Education Tutor Fan Wenzhi 3
After listening to Professor Ma's report last night, I realized that I need some experience every night. I was psychologically? Collapse? By the way, can you insist on doing your homework? I doubt whether I can finish my homework on time. But since I took part in this training class, I have been mentally prepared! Overcome all difficulties and learn ta once!
Last night, Professor Ma mainly explained to us the significance of family education tutor training. To be honest, it's not the first time I've heard of the term family tutor, but it's the first time I've really participated in learning.
The pre-class questionnaire of last night's training touched me a lot. This questionnaire made me realize that I don't know the world of children at all, and I have been using what I call? Love? While fettering my daughter, I also found that what I lack most in the process of educating my children at present? Patience. My daughter will be four years old in a month. The little guy is lively and lovely, outgoing, a bold little girl, likes to play exciting games, and often does strange things in the eyes of adults? No? Things: For example, when she brushes her teeth, she deliberately spits mouthwash on her clothes or on the mirror. Every time I do this, I will shout:? Hao Hao (my daughter's nickname), my God, what are you doing? Mom just changed your clothes. Why do you spit water on your clothes? For another example, I am not a person who likes doing housework too much, but I always clean my house thoroughly as long as I do housework. My daughter will follow me at this time and turn out all the shoes I just packed. She wants to take out all the shoes in my shoe box and wear them all over. As a result, the whole room is a mess with one shoe on the left and one shoe on the right. Little ancestor, will you stop teasing me? Mom just packed up. Why are you so naughty! Cases like this happen almost every day, so the little guy doesn't care what he should do or what he should do. Sometimes it really makes you exhausted and puzzled. I have always wanted to give children a good environment and a good education, but I lack good educational methods. I always think that my approach is to be kind to my children, so she has to listen to me and do everything according to my wishes. Whenever a child is rebellious and naughty, it is mostly because I am angry there and the child is crying. I can't solve the problem at all.
So, after attending this training class, I want to return to being a parent. Through this training, I can enter the children's world, understand and tolerate children, and guide their healthy and happy growth with scientific methods!
Experience of family education tutor's demonstration paper 4
First, learn to be a man: a sound personality is the permanent standard of being a man.
The ancients said:? The way of university is to be moral, close to the people and stop at perfection? . An important task of children's education is to cultivate people with sound personality. Learning to be a man is the basis and guarantee for family education instructors to conduct family education guidance and consultation. Being a man is to have high standards and requirements in people's quality and morality. The forms of traditional culture in China are philosophy, ethics and literature, and the schools are mainly Confucianism, Taoism and Buddhism. These cultural forms and schools, especially the contents of Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism, can be summarized as questions about ordinary people, with the emphasis on how to be a man.
Mr. Tao Xingzhi, a famous educator in China, has a saying: Learn to be a man. ? There is a simple reason. We may not be able to accept the most advanced educational ideas. You may not be able to cross the ocean to become an overseas Chinese? But first, learn to be a person with a sound personality. A person who can love himself and love himself. A person who can be modest and self-respecting, an ordinary person who is never mean, is the greatest wealth that will accompany us all our lives. People have their own specifications, and there are rules for being a man. Different times have different life standards, which are embodied in patriotism, self-esteem, sincerity, integrity, kindness, benevolence, tolerance, openness, persistence, dedication, responsibility, enterprising, courtesy, compliance, introspection, error correction, integrity, kindness, harmony and innovation. These are the eternal standards of being a man. We should use this standard to restrain ourselves, exercise ourselves and be a family education instructor with sound personality.
Second, learn to learn: being good at learning can make you get twice the result with half the effort.
In the new century, new knowledge emerges one after another, and the cycle of knowledge updating is getting shorter and shorter, and the speed is getting faster and faster. It is estimated that the digital information on the Internet will double every 12 months. Space technology, nanotechnology and the human genome project are dazzling. The development of the world and the sense of urgency of the times urge us not to slack off. This requires our family education instructors to learn to learn, and learning ability is a basic ability of high-quality talents in the 2 1 century. As toffler, the author of The Third Wave, pointed out, the future illiterates are not illiterate people, but people who have not learned to learn.
Being good at learning is the ability to make people smart. The key to learning to learn lies in mastering good learning methods, persisting in lifelong learning and constantly changing the original knowledge structure. Being good at learning means being able to adopt correct learning methods, master the rules of learning and learn efficiently in many aspects. Being good at learning is mainly to review frequently, that is? Study from time to time? ; Learning should combine learning with thinking because? Learning without thinking is useless, thinking without learning is dangerous? . Learning should combine learning with asking questions, that is? Sensitive and eager to learn, not ashamed to ask questions? ; Learn from others, learn from moral people, and make up for your own shortcomings by borrowing the strengths of others, that is? In a threesome, there must be a teacher, choose the good and follow it, and change the bad? ; Read more books and read good books. In other words, you should read widely and explain in detail, then integrate extensive knowledge through your own thinking, and finally tell its spiritual essence in simple language. This is not only a learning method, but also? Kind of learning ability, achieve? Reading is like breaking thousands of volumes, and writing is like a god? Learning realm.
Study quietly, and you can't achieve the best results without concentration. Being good at learning can make you get twice the result with half the effort. Only by studying can you master knowledge and skills efficiently, learn to be good at it, acquire skills, and shape yourself into a family education tutor with cultural capital and social capital.
Third, learn to communicate: smile is a bridge to build spiritual communication.
Teachers are students' mirrors, and students are teachers' shadows. Teachers are role models for students. The teacher's words and deeds are imitated and paid attention to by children. Communication, as a human ability, is an essential quality for educational consultants (family education tutors). In the educational consultation work, educational consultants (family education instructors) can only get the understanding and recognition of visitors if they are good at communication, so as to realize the success of educational consultation guidance.
In communication, we should maintain a sincere attitude and communicate sincerely, so that the other party can feel sincere, and any falsehood may lead to the failure of communication; It is necessary to grasp the psychological needs of the other party, the focus of differences or doubts in communication, and eliminate the doubts of the other party through explanation; We should choose the right language in communication and express our thoughts clearly and artistically. We should learn to listen in communication, understand and understand each other in listening, so as to establish a tacit understanding; In communication, we should maintain a tolerant attitude, understand or forgive each other's mistakes, and treat each other's weaknesses reasonably.
Family education guidance needs effective communication, and smile is the lubricant of effective communication, because the mood and face of family education instructors can directly affect visitors. Socrates, an ancient Greek philosopher, said: In this world, what else do we need besides sunshine, air, water and smiles? In other words, a smile is as important as sunshine, air and moisture in life. Smile is a kind of language, which builds a bridge of spiritual communication; Smile is a ray of soft sunshine, which warms others and makes them clear; Smile is silent music, which can adjust the tense atmosphere; Smile is the colorful sunshine connected with your heart, which can melt the ice and snow in your heart and make your life more brilliant.
I remember when I was a child, my teachers were all very serious. Although these teachers have taught us a lot of knowledge and wisdom in life, we may prefer those teachers who smile kindly. Perhaps our teacher has been lost in the ocean of examination for too long, blinded by scores, sealed by utilitarianism, his feelings have long been indifferent, and his mind has long won? Cirrhosis? Facing our vivid life and childhood rudely and mercilessly, I think this is the misfortune of education and the sorrow of being a teacher! As a future family education instructor, we must leave our beautiful smiles to our lovely classmates! Because smile is the most beautiful expression of human beings, not learning it is the most beautiful language in the world.
Fourth, learn to do things: doing things with your heart is the highest realm of learning to do things.
To survive in society, people need to have certain life skills and professional skills. Learning to do things is both a survival ability and a professional ability. If you can't do things, you can't be a man! People who can't do things are worthless and unqualified. There are three realms in doing things. The first realm is hard work, the second realm is hard work with the brain, the third realm is hard work, and the third realm is the highest realm, which is exactly what family education instructors should pursue. Do things like water, have the ambition to never look back, have the courage to go to the valley without fear, and have the tenacity to wear a drop of water without regret.
Work hard to get things right, and work hard to get things done. Only by doing one thing with your heart can you succeed. Doing things with your heart means adding wisdom, long-term planning, step-by-step thinking and planning when doing things. People often say that being a teacher is a conscientious job. Who can think carefully about the influence of his teaching design on children today and even in the future in education and teaching, who can cultivate children's habits and abilities in daily class management, who can sincerely care for the growing hearts when facing different children, and who can give more care and guidance to poor students, so that they can achieve themselves while achieving students. I think as a family education tutor, we should stand in the perspective of the harmonious development of a family as a whole and the personal growth of children, and try our best to solve various problems.
Through this training, I realized more clearly that education is the cause of educating people and laying the foundation for children's adult tomorrow. Therefore, the focus of education should be on children's growth and should serve their lifelong development. We should guide our parents with our sincerity, influence them with our emotions, enlighten them with our wisdom, edify them with our personality, and be a qualified family education tutor.
Learn to live: a grateful life is the source of pursuing a happy life.
Learning to live is the goal of life and also a realm. Life is not survival, life is the survival process of pursuing a certain meaning. There are three levels in life: first, common affairs, and more is daily life related to survival; Second, occupations, such as going to school, studying or engaging in occupations, will always achieve something in life; The third is aesthetics. Creating and appreciating culture is aesthetics.
Learning to live is to love life, have the ideal of life, live with hope, and live with goals and visions to have the passion of life; Learning to live is to handle the relationship between common affairs, career and aesthetics and unify them organically; Learn to live, in order to give full play to their own personality, in their own jobs to create performance; Learning to live is to actively experience and appreciate, appreciate beauty and appreciate value in the experience of life; Learning to live is to be good at communication and gain emotion in communication. People are the existence of groups, and only when they are integrated into groups and careers can they be spiritually enriched. Learning to live is sincerity and integrity, being kind to others and creating a meaningful life is the highest level of aesthetics. In the final analysis, we should learn that life is a happy life, and a grateful life is the source of pursuing a happy life.
? Grateful? It is an expression of gratitude for kindness and an emotion that haunts everyone who does not forget the kindness of others. Learn to be grateful, so that you will never forget everything you have paid. ? Grateful? It is an attitude towards life, a moral character and a heartfelt speech. Lack of gratitude between people will inevitably lead to indifference in interpersonal relationships, so everyone should study? Grateful? This is more important for growing family education instructors, and gratitude is the fulcrum of learning to be a man. It is an important content in moral education to let children know how to thank those who love and help themselves. As a family education instructor and a happy person, it is a happy thing for us to learn to spread our love and help children and parents in need.
In a word, this family education tutor training is a very meaningful training for my career development, which makes me realize that family education is not only a complex knowledge, but also a superb art, which requires us to constantly cultivate ourselves, constantly reflect and constantly improve. Training is just a means, a beginning, and I want to let the clear spring that training has given me flow forever. Behind my study and thinking, I feel more responsibility and pressure. I really feel that family education is a career full of wisdom, and I am deeply aware of my responsibilities. In the future, I will apply what I have learned and combine my actual situation to make the training achievements shine in the development of family education!