What should children do if they encounter teacher violence?
Tao Tao is a little girl with a very open personality. When you enter kindergarten at the age of two and a half, other children will cry, make noise and stick to their parents, but Tao Tao won't. She is very clever, so the teacher doesn't have to bother too much. Soon, Tao Tao rose from nursery to small class, and later to middle class. Because mom and dad were very busy at work during this period, Tao Tao was always taken care of by grandma. One thing that happened soon worried Tao Tao's mother. One day, after sending Tao Tao to kindergarten, she had already walked out of the door. Suddenly, she remembered that she had brought a coat to the child in her bag, which should be left for the child, so she folded it back. People haven't entered the classroom when they hear a cry. She wants to know whose child this is, who was still crying when she was in the middle class. Unexpectedly, when I walked into the classroom, Tao Tao was crying in the corner. After repeated questioning, my daughter told her mother that the teacher didn't like me and often pinched me. At first, the mother wanted to guide the child from the front and told her to be naughty, so that the teacher would be angry. But the daughter bowed her head and never spoke again. Her eyes were full of grievances and disappointment. That's the look that hurt my mother. My mother immediately found the kindergarten director to reflect the problem. Since then, the child has stopped crying and complaining, but has become more and more silent. One day a month later, Tao Tao's mother left work early to pick up her children. Tao Tao's mother found her crying alone. It turned out that she peed her pants during her nap, and the teacher didn't change the clothes for the children, nor did she inform the parents to bring clothes. When other children sat around and played games with the teacher, the teacher put the peaches aside. Tao Tao's mother was very angry when she saw such a scene. She couldn't help asking the teacher why Tao Tao was standing alone in the corner. The teacher said, "I dare not take care of your children." If you complain to the director again, I can't stand it. " It turned out that after Tao Tao's mother reported the situation to the director, although the child was exempted from corporal punishment by the teacher, she was subjected to cold violence. Peach, which was originally cheerful, has now become very introverted, which naturally affects learning and growth. Tao Tao's mother blamed herself and was very sad. She should find the problem early and guide the children early. Tao Tao's mother immediately changed a kindergarten for her child. For the sake of the child, her mother had no choice but to resign and help the child adjust his mentality. For all those engaged in early childhood education, it is a great responsibility to study hard. As early childhood educators, some teachers can't adjust their emotions in time, treat children equally, and be patient and considerate everywhere. As long as 1% negligence happens to children, it is 100% harm to children. In early childhood, this kind of injury from adults is quite difficult to adjust, so parents need to pay more attention. Then she talked about her experience of going to the park. "Last year, because my son was less than two years old and my child was young, I targeted the head teacher as my old classmate. I can take care of more. At this time, she asked me to send my son. " However, the reality made her disappointed. She has a small child, poor self-care ability and limited knowledge of things. She said; "My son was only two years old when he first entered kindergarten. Many kindergartens don't know the rules. He often wets his pants or something. The teacher will scold him when he wets his pants. It's normal for such a young child to wet his pants. If the kindergarten can't handle it, then don't recruit too young babies. If you confess, instead of talking about the gardener's great love, at least treat the children calmly, not scolding them. The child is so young, the more he scolds, the more afraid he is, and the more afraid he is, the easier it is to pee his pants. The baby was supposed to pee. What's wrong with pulling on him? He doesn't want to, and he feels bad. The teacher also reprimanded the child so fiercely. " Talking about my baby's experience in kindergarten, my friend complained a lot. "I don't know what to say. Other teachers in the middle class and the big class like my son very much and often carry him to their class to play. Later, the director said that this was no good, let alone no good. For more than a year, my classmates praised him only once in front of me. At other times, they all say that your son can't do this or that. Maybe the truth is always unpleasant, but children always have advantages. I haven't heard of anything better! If teachers have high expectations for children, they are strict, but all children will have advantages. When they grow up day by day, there will always be a place to do well. Encourage and praise their progress even if they are worse than other children. In addition to scolding children at school, teachers complain that children are not good in front of me. They have never said that it is not good to educate children at home and cultivate them. " I won't talk about this teacher's problem, but look for the reason from my friend's own side. I asked her if there was anything that offended her old classmates, or if she didn't do well enough to let her vent it on her children! The friend said; "I have been with her classmates for so many years, and I don't think I have done anything wrong to her. Last year, I invited some of their teachers to have dinner together, and so did this year.