"Airport, big cow, big fat pig", what fatal injuries will these physical humiliations bring to women?

I recently saw a fat beauty blogger on the Internet. This is Felina. If I could go back in time, Felina said, she would tell her childhood that appearance is not everything, and she doesn't need to change herself for other people's eyes. When she was a child, because of a tumor operation, Felina began to gain weight endlessly. When she goes back to school, no one wants to sit at the same table with her. They call him "Fat Man". When she grew up, she went to the gym, and someone even said to her, "Why do you come out to exercise when you are so fat?" Other people's bad words finally tore up a girl's confidence bit by bit. She began to hate herself and even became depressed. It was not until she learned to make up that those strange eyes became less and less. But he doesn't like makeup, just to please others.

In real life, how many flat-chested girls are called "airports"; How many girls with big breasts are called "big cows"; How many fat people are called "big fat pigs". . . . These are all real. Strangely, people around you seem to have reached a * * * knowledge secretly and acquiesced in the existence of this behavior. To make matters worse, this unhealthy trend is spreading more and more. From old people to children, physical insults are different, but they are all malicious.

Compared with other people's insults to your body, our closest person is the last straw to crush the camel. I am a fat girl myself. I often hear people say to me, "You still eat when you are so fat." "This leg is too thick." "You are so fat and drink milk tea." "You don't eat this meat. You have to lose weight. " These voices come from the people closest to me: my friends and my relatives. They didn't know those seemingly unintentional words, but they deeply hurt my self-esteem. They always say, good for me, good for me. Always in the name of loving me, it often hurts my heart the most.

In fact, there are no perfect people in this world. Everyone has his own defects. It is these defects that create differences and increase the richness of the world. But we just forget this point, and always magnify some physical defects infinitely, and then become a scar in our hearts. Always denying yourself is really stupid, really stupid. I don't know how to silence those who humiliate us. But I know we should all believe that we are the best. I should be me now. Now I deserve all the beauty in this world. So what about fat and black? As long as you are healthy, nothing else matters. Because in this world, you are unique, there is no better you.