In other words, as the communication between _ has become longer and longer, you have become strongly dependent on him, so if he is a little slack, you will feel that his love for you is weak, and dissatisfaction will make everyone have disputes and be chilling to him. Until the end, you have no choice but to tell him that your chilling accumulation has made you have no expectation for him.
Your heart expects the other person to put an end to friends of the opposite sex, take care of you with medicine when you are sick, and stay with you when you have to, otherwise you will take a small notebook to record each other's faults;
It is inconvenient that you must pay back the five-point gift given by the other party, and you should always care about the other party's every move, where you went, who you met, and your unreserved investment.
Emotional counseling exposure, however, the similarity between the two is that there are only feelings left in the world.
You will always get tired of him. If you are separated from him for a short time, you will think badly. If you want to send them a message, make a phone call. Social psychology calls this situation "interdependence".
In the case of "interdependence", it is very easy for lovers to break up after the enthusiasm period, because the essence of feelings is that two independent personalities help each other, rather than one heating the other.
This kind of emotional situation will also hinder the development of the other party, because most of the energy and energy will be devoted to finding each other's love instead of caring about their own promotion and development. A relationship that can't promote each other and produce good chemical changes between each other will definitely enter a throbbing situation, so breaking up is beyond reproach.
This is the root of family relationship, the psychological state caused by lack of love or long-term loneliness.
Needless to say, some feelings must be given a second chance, but what should be done in practice to save the feelings that are on the verge of permanent cracking?
1, don't take trivial matters seriously, it's all subjective!
Appreciation, service commitment and cherish should not be abandoned from the first date when everyone goes to have coffee. Similarly, even if there are problems in our relationship, appreciation and cherish should not come to an abrupt end, because that will hinder the further development trend of our relationship.
On the other hand, the more people have emotional problems, the more you should spend a lot of time with your other half and show your love and appreciation for me according to some trivial matters. Don't miss every opportunity to send flowers and gifts to your other half, if you think it will bring them instant happiness and happiness.
2, once again clear the boundaries and standards of everyone's feelings!
A healthy and passionate love relationship needs to clarify the boundaries and standards of everyone's feelings again. For example, it is important to confine everyone to an exposed and intimate bedroom.
Therefore, clarifying the boundaries and standards of everyone's feelings again and attaching importance to the moral bottom line and standards of your other half may make everyone feel the flame of love again.
3. Look at the mood and have an effective estimate!
Many times, a relationship encounters problems because the prediction is unscientific. Therefore, it is particularly critical to have a feasible forecast to prevent the cold current.
From breaking up to saving your love life, you should reflect on your personal behavior in this marriage relationship. In this relationship, we must reflect on ourselves and don't have to make mistakes again.