Therefore, you must be very cautious when you first start to fall in love. If you really fall in love, don't give up. If you really don't love, then you should give up. Because the so-called love is true love, it can't be abandoned, and it can't be said that love is just to satisfy comfort. Why do you say that? The reason why you change your mind too quickly in love is because it is not deep enough.
MengMeng, she feels the same way. This is a girl who loves life very much. After graduating from college, she maintained a good relationship with her first boyfriend. Unexpectedly, her first love was abandoned by her first boyfriend and broke up. We haven't talked about anyone since we broke up for four years, because we are all hurt. Later, after my 27th birthday, my parents forced me to find someone quickly. Under the introduction of relatives at home, I met Fu Xiao, and the two gradually cultivated their feelings. After half a year, they decided to get engaged.
Fu Xiao is thirty years old. Before MengMeng dated her, she actually had seven or eight girlfriends, and each emotional experience was basically three or four months. Do many people think this man is abnormal after seeing it? MengMeng told me that Fu Xiao often changed girlfriends because he couldn't afford a house because of financial pressure. Few young people want to live with their parents after marriage now. This phenomenon is understandable, but it is also related to the actual situation of low salary.
Fu Xiao is a small boss of a startup company. He used to work in a financial company and earned a good income. He talked about a girlfriend and almost got married. Later, his parents offered him 500,000 yuan to buy a house and get married quickly. However, Fu Xiao didn't buy a house, but started a business with this 500,000 yuan, which is also the reason why his girlfriend broke up with her before. Since then, many girls who dated Fu Xiao don't want to be with him because he can't afford a house.
Today, Fu Xiao's company operates in general. In the past two years, he has hardly made any money, and Fu Xiao only relies on this company to make a living. MengMeng appreciates Fu Xiao's ambition, and they are in the same city, so they are willing to associate with him.
Compared with other girls, MengMeng is willing to associate with Fu Xiao, and even takes Fu Xiao as the future marriage partner. In fact, her family conditions are not bad. When she just graduated, her parents bought her a house, and she moved into a new house in her second year of work. Even if Fu Xiao doesn't have a house, she doesn't care. After all, Fu Xiao's enthusiasm is very high, and it is entirely possible to buy another house in the future. So she decided that she was really married and could be a wedding room after the house was renovated.
Of course, since the woman is out of the house and has to decorate, then the man must spend more money on the bride price, so that the contribution to the marriage is equal. After their engagement, she asked for a small bride price of 200,000 yuan, but she didn't refuse her request. Fu Xiao told her that although 200,000 yuan was too much, he would work hard to figure it out. MengMeng also knew Fu Xiao's character and believed it, so she began to decorate the house.
However, as the wedding day approaches, the houses are basically decorated. Fu Xiao can't come up with this 200 thousand bride price. MengMeng kept calling to urge him, but Fu Xiao still used various ways to escape or escape. However, a few days before the wedding, Fu Xiao suddenly called and said that he fell in love with someone else and could not marry MengMeng. MengMeng was puzzled and kept asking Fu Xiao why. Didn't he do enough? Then Fu Xiao replied after escaping several times: You want too much bride price, and I can't afford this relationship.
Compared with the atmosphere when the first love broke up, MengMeng and Fu Xiao were more angry after breaking up. After all, both of them are engaged, and relatives and friends know that the man suddenly broke off his marriage, which made her and her family lose face. Moreover, after the engagement, she has told her colleagues and friends around her that these colleagues and friends will also come to the wedding scene in a few days. How should she face these people like this?
In fact, Fu Xiao decided to break up with her after hearing the bride price of 200,000 yuan. Fu Xiao felt that he couldn't get a bride price of 200,000 yuan, and he couldn't accept that the woman asked him to take more money after decorating the house, which made him feel that the money was gone and his face was gone. Later, he found another girlfriend, a young graduate of his company. Maybe this girlfriend will be engaged to him for several years, and he has enough time to earn money to buy a house.
MengMeng was not heartbroken by this incident. Although she smashed the new house on the first day of her busy life, she and Fu Xiao didn't have deep feelings, just because she was going to break up her marriage, which made her lose face. After venting, I decided to find another suitable marriage partner. She told me that this relationship, this relationship is a childish game, the two sides don't love each other deeply, just to make up for the marriage, but the man changed his mind in a word.
I think love is always full of money, trust and even affection, but more people will change. The reason why two people break up is that they don't love each other deeply. From the changes after the engagement, it can be found that the man's poor economic conditions are, on the one hand, the woman blindly asks the man to pay the same as her, on the other hand, she doesn't understand each other, which is why they don't love each other deeply enough.
If a man really loves a woman, he will try his best to create better living conditions for her. The woman is really willing to be with the man and will understand the man's difficulties. If you don't do it, you don't love it If you can't do it, you will never fall in love with it.