In the fifty-ninth episode, Xue Baochai asked Yinger to ask Lin Daiyu for nitrate roses. After Lin Daiyu gave it, she said, "I'm fine. I'm going out for a walk today. Go back and tell your sister that you don't have to greet your mother, and you dare not ask her to come and see me. I combed my hair and went there for dinner with my mother. Everyone is more lively. " Because Jia Mu and others are bound to enter the DPRK for about a month, and Wang Xifeng is in poor health, Aunt Xue is responsible for taking care of the maids in the house, so she lives in Xiaoxiang Pavilion.
At this time, it seems that Lin Daiyu and Xue Baochai are sisters, and Aunt Xue is mother and daughter, one sister and one mother, very affectionate. Jia Baoyu also said that Sister Bao sent something to thank her, but Lin Daiyu said that her sisters were polite.
Why has Lin Daiyu, who has always been wary of people and dissatisfied with Xue Baochai, suddenly become so close to these two people? Actually, it's sad to say.
Lin Daiyu was not only sick from birth, but also needed medication. Her mother died very early, leaving her no maternal love. Lin Ruhai abandoned her in Jiafu, which also made her a real orphan. Such Lin Daiyu can be said to be very lacking in maternal love and affection. Therefore, in her heart, there has always been a desire for these emotions.
Lin Daiyu's recognition of Aunt Xue as a mother is actually an expression of her inner thoughts. Fifty-seven times, Lin Daiyu couldn't help crying when she saw Xue Baochai coquetry in Aunt Xue's arms. Aunt Xue said that Lin Daiyu was sad, and Aunt Xue was also distressed. Lin Daiyu replied, "Since menstruation says so, I will recognize menstruation as my mother tomorrow. If menstruation doesn't like it, it is pretending to love me. " Seeing the affectionate scene of mother and daughter aroused her desire for maternal love, as if she didn't want to be rejected, and quickly wanted to recognize Aunt Xue as a mother. It can be seen that Lin Daiyu is a sincere girl. When others give her a little affection, she will hold on to it and treat each other sincerely. There has always been a longing for maternal love in her heart.
The change of attitude towards Xue Baochai is also because of her warm behavior, which makes Lin Daiyu remember her and regard her as her own sister. Although Lin Daiyu entered the Jia family, although she was favored by the Jia family, she was not her home after all. She should be careful everywhere, lest she do something wrong again. Therefore, Lin Daiyu, who relies on others, is very lonely and helpless in Jiafu. Lin Daiyu also told Xue Baochai that because of her illness, women and maids had to be served, and ginseng had to be prepared. On the surface, everyone is very kind to her, but at the bottom of my heart, I feel that Lin Daiyu has done too much, not to mention that Lin Daiyu is not their serious master. It was Xue Baochai who sent someone to bring her bird's nest after hearing these words. Why is Lin Daiyu not moved?
An orphan girl who has lost her parents can get maternal love and sisterhood, whether it is true or not, she will naturally feel happy and regard them as real relatives. But once in the book, the title is "Kindness and menstruation love words to comfort the delusion", that is to say, Lin Daiyu regards the two as relatives, but actually she can't escape the delusion. But the feeling she thought would eventually betray her and leave her, and everything was just a wishful dream, which made people sad.