In fact, psychological barriers and "privacy" in people's eyes are often common psychological problems in the eyes of psychologists. The doctor won't make fun of you, but will keep your secret. Therefore, it is the key to cure the disease that the consultant should put down the burden and fully trust the doctor.
Many psychological counselors deify psychological counseling, as if a psychological doctor can do anything, just like a locksmith. What kind of knot can be opened at once and often come to see a doctor once or twice, but it can't achieve the desired effect? Quot clear sky Wan Li "state of mind, there is no below. In fact, psychological counseling is a continuous process, and mental illness often has a lot to do with the personality of psychological counselors. Just like an iceberg, it has been sealed for a long time, and it is difficult to melt without a strong desire to change and a lasting determination to compete with it. Therefore, people who consult should be prepared for a protracted war. Some people who come to consult regard the psychological doctor as a "savior" and completely throw their psychological burden on the doctor, thinking that the doctor has the ability to solve them one by one without any effort and responsibility. We should know that psychologists only play the role of analyzing, guiding, inspiring, supporting and changing their understanding during the whole treatment process. In addition, the consultant is faced with a choice, and he can't make a decision. When he hopes that doctors can help him make up his mind, he should understand that doctors and patients are two independent people with completely different outlook on life and values. Doctors have no right to impose their likes and dislikes on consultants.
Some people regard psychologists as fortune tellers, who can see through the inner world of counselors at a glance. Others think that psychological counseling is meaningless and just doing ideological work. Both views are very one-sided. Psychology is a very rigorous science. Psychologists apply psychological phenomena and laws, reasonably analyze the information provided by counselors, and then carry out psychotherapy. Psychologists are not the leaders of patients. They are generally neutral rather than criticizing educational consultants. The success of mental illness depends on the efforts of both doctors and patients
People in China generally don't see a psychiatrist, but have something to say to their families or close friends.
"If you can't get rid of yourself by going to church and giving your troubles to God, you should go to a psychologist." According to statistics, more than 80% people in the United States have seen a psychiatrist, and 30% of them regard seeing a psychiatrist as a part of their lives.
Therefore, American universities have student counseling centers; American enterprises not only have full-time psychological counselors, but also some medical insurance for employees is specially used for such matters; The US military also employs psychiatrists and psychologists to treat various psychological diseases of officers and men, so as to strengthen the psychological quality of soldiers and establish a solid psychological defense line. ...
If when you first arrive in the United States, after the initial excitement and novelty have passed, language barriers and cultural differences will make your troubles come one after another, and your mood once fell to the lowest point in your life, and dissatisfaction, disappointment and depression … these gloomy words are full of your life. A friend suggested that you should be treated by a psychologist. You must be hesitant at first, because in China, people who see a psychiatrist are often in serious condition. But later, the doctor's words will make your doubts disappear. "People's bodies will get sick and their minds will be troubled. Talking to a doctor may be a good medicine for symptoms, as simple as treating a cold. Why not? " So, the doctor first prescribed some drugs to help you sleep, and then designed an 8-week short-term "psychotherapy plan", lasting 30-45 minutes at a time. After a course of treatment, you can gradually step into a normal life in a foreign country.
Of course, although most doctors in psychological counseling centers in the United States have professional ability, it is really impossible to solve all the problems of patients. So the most important thing for them is to let patients know where their problems are and how to solve them through professional help. While giving psychological counseling to patients, we should also keep our mouths shut about their situation.
However, although there are many people who see psychologists in the United States, due to the high price (usually the hourly salary of psychologists is between 100-200 dollars; Psychologists charge more than $80 an hour), so it is difficult for ordinary people to patronize them often. Therefore, only the middle class in American society has private psychologists. No wonder someone said humorously, "Successful people always hold lawyers in one hand and psychologists in the other."