Divorce is a very unbearable thing for many women, because after divorce, it is difficult to find a shelter from the wind and rain.
Fan and her husband have been inseparable for many years. It is a well-known fact that her husband has a woman outside. The reason why Fan has never chosen to divorce is that he doesn't know what to do after divorce.
Fan Xiao once told his mother about his divorce. Fan Xiao carefully tested her mother to see if she could take her children back to her parents' home after the divorce and whether they would take her in.
Fan's mother told Fan bluntly that she would go home and live a good life. Now he lives in his son's house and is also a patron. Whether to take her in or not is not for Fan's mother to decide. It depends on the opinions of Brother Fan and his wife, especially Sister Fan.
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Speaking of Fan's sister-in-law, Fan doesn't even have to think about it. Absolutely impossible. When my sister-in-law married my brother, my sister-in-law said she wanted to buy a house. My brother went home and forced her old mother to sell her old house and married the whole sister-in-law into the house.
Sister-in-law gave birth to a child and began to dislike the house being too small to live in, so she had to change to a bigger house. My brother borrowed money everywhere to change houses. I thought that Fan gave his brother 50,000 yuan, and after paying back 30,000 yuan, he never mentioned paying back the money again.
And as long as Fan keeps taking 20 thousand, my sister-in-law begins to complain about how difficult it is for her to marry a disappointing man. She had to run the family by herself. In short, she just doesn't want to pay back the money.
Then one time, Fan pushed hard. Sister-in-law Fan directly said that there was no house at home. Fan is also a clever man, and immediately understood that her sister-in-law wanted to ask her mother for money. Since then, Fan has never mentioned that 20,000 yuan.
Now that I think about it, Fan might as well save that 50 thousand yuan and buy himself a small house. Now he will not be reduced to no one who can settle down and have no capital for divorce.
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Not only Fan will have such questions, but probably every woman will think about divorce and figure out what to do after divorce. Once I asked my mother, "Mom, I am divorced, do you still take me in?"
What my mother said at that time, though cruel, was an indisputable fact. Mother said, "If I live in my own house, I will take you in anyway, but if I live in my son's house, I must ask my daughter-in-law's permission, because this is not my home, but my daughter-in-law's home."
My mother's words are right. If my husband's sister and I come back to live with us after divorce, I may be a little uncomfortable. After all, this is my home.
In the final analysis, the capital of a woman's divorce is money. If she has money, at least she won't worry about where to go after the divorce, and she won't have to worry about not being able to live. This is the sadness that women have no financial ability.
Also, even if a woman is divorced, it is best not to go back to her parents' home, especially for a woman with a brother, and her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are at home. If you add a sister-in-law, this home will probably be more lively than the vegetable market. Every day, chickens fly and dogs jump, but chickens make dogs restless.