What are they arguing about? Actually, it's a very simple thing. Feng Ge's wife said that no matter what adult children they are, parents who have difficulties must help them. Take Sister Feng as an example, saying that if Sister Feng has difficulties, such as buying a house, her aunt will definitely lend money to her daughter if she has money. My aunt said that if you want to help your daughter, it depends on whether her daughter likes her or not, or you won't help even if you have money. Then they argued with each other like this, but fortunately they just argued and didn't fight forcibly. Later, Brother Feng also sat down and joined the fucking camp. Brother Feng said, for example, if your old house is sold and your father has millions, it is his right to give it to you or not. You are not qualified to ask your father to give it to you. Then his wife said yes, that's my father's right, but breaking up with him is my right. Then the two continued to argue about whether parents should help adult children.
If you look bored, you won't participate. My aunt insisted that I judge the reason. I said that if the property is my own, I'd like to see if people want it, let alone children. Even if it is a couple, it depends on whether they are willing or not.
Actually, I used to be a grumpy person. I often lose my temper because of a little incident and speak with a knife. Later, when I knew more, I didn't want to argue with others, because it didn't make sense to me unless it was fun.
Each of us lives in our own subjective world. We see what we want to see and hear what we want to hear, not the real world. Therefore, we always feel that we are right. Each of us has an overrated self and a blind spot of generalizing. Together, these two will make us put ourselves in a limited perspective to make our own reasonable judgments, and others will not listen to anything.
Brother Feng's wife just lives in her own little world. She feels that parents must be kind to adult children, which is an obligation. So she used this theory to follow the trend of her brother and her aunt, thinking that she was right and others would not listen to anything. I guess this may have something to do with her childhood, and she should be spoiled by her father, so she takes everything for granted. Nothing in this world is taken for granted. If there is, there will be no divorce.
Arguing with others to prove that you are right is not important at all. What if you are right? What if you are wrong? The key is to see what you do. Every time we quarrel, we have to ask ourselves, is it really necessary to quarrel? Can losing your temper solve the problem? Is there anything more meaningful to do than quarrel? If only I had something to do directly, I don't have time to dawdle here.