I believe there are many classic examples and warnings about the harm of extramarital affairs, whether in life or on the Internet, but some people still don't cry until they see the coffin, and they won't stop until they see the Yellow River. People who have never experienced it can never imagine the unspeakable regret after it happened.
A few years ago, I met a middle-aged uncle and a Song, who was in his forties because he played ball. Although there is a gap in age, there is no distance in communication, so we gradually become friends who forget to make friends.
Sometimes after playing ball together, we also go for a drink or something. Through understanding, I know that he is an executive of a famous enterprise, with a high income, several houses and a luxury car under his name, and he is considered a semi-successful person.
He and his wife have been married for nearly twenty years, and his son is now in college. It seems that his life is complete and he has everything. As an outsider, I envy him, but he is still dissatisfied with this life and wants to indulge his desires.
Last year, he told me that he had a girlfriend outside and was very happy. I was shocked at that time. Although it is a good thing to have a girlfriend, should he be called an "extramarital affair" when he has a girlfriend with a married man?
Isn't this an immoral thing? How in his eyes, but without any guilt.
At that time, I also advised him to think twice before acting, and not to make himself unbearable because of a temporary impulse.
But Asun didn't listen to my advice at all. He said he should be careful, and no one would find out. After all, I'm just an outsider. I said and advised him, but he wouldn't listen. There's nothing I can do.
Since he got a girlfriend, Asun has come to play less and less, but he still comes here occasionally. After playing the ball, he hurried back to accompany his girlfriend, and didn't even have a chance to talk more, let alone drink and chat as before.
It's less than before, but at least it's still here, but I haven't seen Asun since three months ago. I hesitated a few days ago and sent him a message in a caring attitude. It didn't take long for him to reply and ask me out to sit down.
That night, I could see that he was in a bad mood. As soon as he arrived at the restaurant, he drank his own wine like crazy. Then I couldn't help it, so I asked him what was going on.
"Brother, I regret not taking your advice. Now because of the extramarital affairs, the wife and children are separated, and the family is ruined. It' s really self-defeating! " Asun said bitterly while drinking wine, and the corner of his eye didn't know when it was wet.
It seems that it is really not easy to make an experienced middle-aged man feel so sad.
Under the narrative of Asun, I learned the whole story.
Although Asun has been very careful, the paper can't cover the fire after all, and his affair finally reached his wife's ears.
The two men quarreled about it for a long time. Finally, his wife planned to leave the child to him, but Asun naturally wouldn't agree easily. Although he did something wrong, he still couldn't bear to be separated from his wife and children, so Asun put down all his face and knelt down to ask his wife's forgiveness.
But Asun's behavior broke his wife's heart, so she could not choose to forgive Asun, even though he was her husband for twenty years.
Nothing hurts a woman more than her husband's betrayal. When the trust between two people has gone wrong, there is no need to continue.
Besides his wife, Asun's son hates his father's behavior, so he chose to stand on his mother's side.
It never rains but it pours. Apart from the loss of marriage, the company, as a reputable and well-known enterprise, can't tolerate people like Asun because of the bad behavior in Asun, which is an explanation to the public.
At the same time, Asun's girlfriend left without any unexpected choice. She approached Asun, originally took a fancy to his strength, and now she has lost her job. In addition, after her divorce and leaving home, Asun suddenly changed from a middle-aged man with a successful career to a poor man.
So how can a real mistress stay?
Due to a temporary "desire", Asun successfully destroyed himself, turning himself from nothing to nothing.
Now he finally knows that he is wrong, but what's the use of regretting at this time?
I was really convinced when I watched this down-and-out middle-aged man wake up late. I didn't believe it before, but Asun proved to me with practical actions that a person can really destroy himself by himself.
Don't take chances, hold your head high and have a spirit. When you do something against morality, you will get the corresponding retribution sooner or later. If you don't want to be defeated, be honest.