It was in 2007 that she was selected as the moral model of "carrying her mother to school".
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When I was a child, Liu Tingjia was an ordinary but happy family in Huzhou City, Zhejiang Province. At that time, his father was an ordinary shop assistant and his mother was a sewing worker. The life of this family is dull, but very happy.
But when Liu Ting was thirteen, things changed. That year, Liu Ting's mother was diagnosed with uremia, and she needed sky-high treatment costs almost every day. Father borrowed money everywhere, but the money was still not enough. Finally, under the great pressure of life, my father told his family to go out to work and never came back.
Fortunately, grandma finally accepted Liu Ting and his mother. In the following years, my mother was taken care of by my grandmother, and Liu Ting studied hard at school. Finally, Liu Ting was admitted to Zhejiang Forestry University with excellent results. After receiving the notice, Liu Ting immediately returned to her grandmother's house to take care of her mother.
At that time, the family had emptied their money for their mother's illness, and the family's life was extremely difficult. My mother saw that her family was in pieces, and felt that she had dragged down the whole family, and even had the idea of suicide. Liu Ting decided to take her mother to school because she was afraid that her mother would be unhappy at home.
"Take your mother to school."
However, Liu Ting also felt uneasy about leaving her mother alone in the rented house outside. So, Liu Ting went to discuss with the school to see if the school could agree to take her mother to school. The school was moved by Liu Ting's filial piety, and finally agreed to his request after repeated consideration. So there is what we now call "carrying mom to school".
After learning this touching story, the media reported Liu Ting's deeds in succession, which also aroused widespread concern in society. Liu Ting was rated as a moral model.
After hearing the story of Liu Ting, people from all walks of life helped Liu Ting in succession. At the beginning, Liu Ting raised 654.38 million yuan, which will be used for the treatment of uremia of mothers. The cost of follow-up treatment is also slowly in place, and the mother's illness has been successfully treated.
After her mother recovered, Liu Ting took out all the remaining 50,000 yuan and set up a love fund in Zhejiang Linda University to help students with family difficulties like him.
The mother of the "dutiful son" has been successfully cured, so he can concentrate on finishing his studies. At this point in the story, everything seems to be perfect and should gradually fade out of people's sight. However, in 20 15, Liu Ting appeared in public again, with a gesture that no one expected.
Regression of degeneration
The man who appeared in public again was a beautiful young Liu Ting. As everyone guessed, Liu Ting had a sex-change operation.
Liu Ting is one of the few people in China who openly transsexuals themselves. The last person who did this seems to be a famous dancer in China, Venus.
Venus said that she knew her situation from the age of six and was ready at the age of sixteen, but she didn't really lie on the operating table until she was twenty-eight. From the experience of Venus, we can see how difficult it is for a transsexual person to make a "transsexual" decision. As strong as Venus, it took several years to really make up your mind.
Liu Ting is a transsexual. When he was very young, Liu Ting had a gentle personality. Compared with boys, she seems to be able to play with girls better. She thought she was a girl since she was a child. The conflict between her psychological gender and physical condition once made him miserable. But over the years, Liu Ting was more worried about her mother's illness than her own.
After her mother recovered from uremia, her own problems became a headache for Liu Ting. Accompanied by her mother, Liu Ting went to consult a psychologist, who gave her advice on sex-change surgery. Presumably, at that time, Liu Ting also went through a great struggle and finally decided to have sex-change surgery.
After deciding to be transsexual, Liu Ting accepted public welfare assistance from Guangzhou Meilai and held a press conference. Followed by half a year's surgery and recovery time. During this period, Liu Ting did not accept any media interviews, nor did he post any news on social platforms.
Half a year later, Liu Ting came out from the back of the background board that said "Guangzhou Meilai" train carriage modeling. The appearance was really amazing, and someone praised him on the spot and thought he was "Elizabeth Taylor".
At that time, Li Yinhe, the first female doctor of sexology and a famous sociologist in China, immediately sent Liu Ting a blessing and fully affirmed the significance of the Liu Ting incident. Many celebrities present also expressed their blessings to Liu Ting.
20 16, Liu Ting published the autobiographical novel My Beauty. She told her story to more people, and let more people know the true inner course of the "transgender" group.
On 20 18, Liu Ting took part in a beauty contest. At this time, Liu Ting has been able to stand on the stage with ease. She showed her beauty and generously accepted the curious or malicious eyes of others.
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Now Liu Ting may be worried about some minor problems that all women are worried about, and may have his own happiness, but in any case, Bian Xiao believes that Liu Ting must be happy.
Liu Ting's courage is admirable, because not everyone can accept her true self, but Liu Ting not only accepted herself, but also decided to show her true self to everyone, calling on the society to tolerate people like her. Venus said in her own program that she supported Liu Ting not because she was a moral model, but because Liu Ting took this step. While taking this step, she is still a good girl who is filial.
Whether Venus in the past or Liu Ting today, they have the courage to face their true selves, make difficult choices and tell the world their true identities. We should respect them and understand them. Even if you can't understand them, you can't abuse them at will. After all, this is their life.
Finally, I wish Liu Ting can find her own happiness and career like Venus.