Many parents are worried about how their children's character is developed. However, some elders stood up and said: in fact, the child's character was brought out from the womb.
In fact, this reason is easy to explain, mainly because two aspects affect the child's personality development in the mother's stomach.
The first reason is that children have inherited some advantages and disadvantages from their parents before they are born.
These advantages and disadvantages include parents' personality. So we often encounter this phenomenon in our lives. If the mother or father is an introvert and easily blushes when talking to others, then their children may also be introverted babies, sometimes unwilling to communicate with strangers or even contact with others.
In fact, in addition to the influence of acquired education, a large part of the reason is that children inherit some factors from their parents from the moment they are born, and these factors include personality inheritance.
The second reason is the influence of prenatal education.
This kind of prenatal education contains a lot. For example, what kind of environment Bao Ma lives in after pregnancy, and environmental components may affect the baby's personality. If treasure mothers often listen to some beautiful and comfortable prenatal music after pregnancy, then the baby may become relatively docile after birth.
However, if there are always some noisy and rude words in the living environment during the prenatal education, then after a long time, these noisy environmental factors will also affect the baby's personality after birth.
Before, a doctor published an article on the Internet saying that a child's personality is related to human nerve transmission. The general meaning of this article is that when the child is in the mother's belly, the personality is influenced by genetic factors, partly because the external living environment affects the baby's nerve transmission and development.
This content is similar to the influencing factors of prenatal education that children receive in their mothers' stomachs. The doctor explained to the reader: If the father often says some sweet words full of love to the mother when the child is in the mother's belly, then the child is likely to become gentle and optimistic.
If the mother is pregnant and the father is cold and sarcastic to the mother, then the child will become depressed and introverted, and his personality may be unwilling to communicate with others after birth.
Point 1: Adjust your mental state.
No matter in what period, treasure moms should keep their mood in a positive, optimistic and cheerful state. However, women are sensitive animals, so if they encounter little things in life, they will probably think in complicated ways, which will easily make Ma Bao's mood very depressed.
In fact, at this time, treasure moms should always tell themselves not to think in an extreme way, but to think in a sunny and cheerful direction. If the baby is introverted because he has become depressed, then what does the mother talk about loving the baby?
Parents should not only learn to enlighten their feelings, but also create more opportunities to take their mothers out for a walk and breathe fresh air. Bao dads should also say more words that can encourage their mothers in their daily lives. If prospective fathers have strong language skills, they can say some sweet words in their daily lives to encourage their mothers to love and support their wives and welcome a happy and healthy baby.
The second point: treasure moms should also grow up, and don't lose their temper easily when they grow up.
In life, the probability of women losing their temper far exceeds that of boys. Girls before pregnancy are more headstrong, girlish and domineering, which are the embodiment of personality and the charm of women. But women should learn to grow up with their babies after pregnancy, because suddenly their responsibilities become heavier. Therefore, we should also consider whether the family around us will destroy the happiness of the whole family because of their extreme personality and bad temper. To say the least, it is also a responsible performance for children to control their bad temper before welcoming them.
When some precious mothers lose their temper, they either make others feel uncomfortable or make themselves feel uncomfortable. In either case, the treasure mothers should control their temper. After all, after making your family uncomfortable, it is likely that you will be the last to be wronged.
Another situation is that Bao Ma is not good at losing her temper after pregnancy and is used to putting pressure on herself. They think that putting pressure on themselves is a way to vent. In fact, this way is even more unacceptable. After all, I am not alone now, and there is a little life in my stomach waiting for me to adjust my mood slowly.
Therefore, treasure moms are in a bad mood, so don't sneak into remote corners and cry, and don't break out their bad temper casually. Because I finally adjusted myself, but the babies in my belly may not be able to adjust their emotions to the normal level, so I will say that the children are the ones who suffer.
The third point: Ma Bao should try to get rid of some bad habits after pregnancy.
These bad habits include staying up late, smoking secondhand smoke, long-term exposure to radiation and so on. Now many young couples are used to staying up late, playing mobile phones or smoking secondhand smoke. In fact, these bad habits should be avoided as much as possible after Ma Bao becomes pregnant.
From Ma Bao's point of view, no matter staying up late or playing mobile phone for a long time, it is easy for the baby to get insufficient rest time, so the baby may not have a good development environment in the mother's belly, so the baby's personality after birth may also be affected.
From others' point of view: If you know that you have a baby mother at home, you are still sticking to some bad habits. Such as smoking, swearing and so on. It is likely that mothers will be in an uncomfortable state. If the baby feels that his mother is nervous now, then the child may be in this state, which can easily affect the child's personality development.
In a word, the development of a child's character cannot be achieved overnight. If you want your child's personality and temper to be a little better, the parents of Bao Ma Cat must think about whether they have created a better living environment for their children before their birth.