The more contact we have, the luckier we are. I hope that after a period of time, I can end this state of frequent separation, but in the end I find that I just wasted my years and my youth.
Go forward resolutely, let others go, and let yourself go.
People who love each other may not be together. Letting go is the best ending.
Meng and Xiaohui are my junior high school classmates, and their love affair began at that time. Amon is sentimental, kind-hearted, lively and cheerful, and has the best popularity.
Both of them are beautiful and often laughed at by classmates, right? The most beautiful couple? . After graduating from junior high school, Amon had to work in the south because of poor family conditions. Xiaohui went to a high school in a daze and couldn't wait to follow Amon to work.
The two rented a house near the factory, and like the most ordinary couple, they struggled for their dreams and future. During this period, Amon had miscarried twice, but Xiaohui never planned to get married. He said that when he made a lot of money, he would marry Amon home in style.
However, Xiaohui's personality is too generous, and her monthly salary is just? Good brothers? It is not enough for children to eat and drink in the sea. Later, to follow them? Make big money? Xiaohui became a driving school coach, all day long? Cadet. The children mingled.
Amon never imagined that the final outcome of the two people turned out to be their own ways. Xiaohui and her female classmates became boyfriend and girlfriend. Amon saw the change of Xiaohui. Such a careless person has become cautious now, always thinking about how to please each other.
In the ten years together, Amon took care of Xiaohui in every possible way, and Xiaohui was often male chauvinistic. Desperate, Amon turned and went to Hainan. On an island, she married a beekeeper.
Years later, Amon's honey was widely praised by her classmates. But everyone thought of Xiaohui in unison, and someone asked Xiaohui where it was untimely.
Xiaohui is still very chic. After marrying that schoolgirl, she gave birth to twins. But when the child was one year old, the two divorced quietly, and this time, Xiaohui met a female classmate who she liked better.
But Xiaohui is very loyal. Among his classmates, no matter who wants him, he tries his best to help. So more people are just sighing for Xiaohui and Amon.
Amon's husband is a very diligent person, and he has the final say in everything at home. Obviously, he loves Meng more than Meng loves him. Anyone who is familiar with Amon knows that in this life, the person she loves has finally become someone else's lover. He is the affectionate and heartless Xiaohui.
The lover you miss may have forgotten you long ago.
In love, the stupidest thing is to believe that the person you loved will always be in your heart, as a beautiful memory, sealed in the most secret corner of your heart. When I was sad and crying, another person gave me inexplicable warmth and touch.
But time can take everything away, including love. Without your company, someone else will take your place. Without you, I thought he would really remember the past, okay?
No, after all, people have feelings and want to live. Life is inseparable from three meals a day and the smell of fireworks. Love needs freshness, sustenance and companionship.
Nothing lasts forever. When he is with you, it is true love. But now, being with the present is also true love. You can't deny his love for you, but you can't deny it. His love for another person is more real.
So, the person who loved a long time ago is still thinking about him, and he is always looking forward to taking advantage of the reunion of classmates and old friends? Volkswagen? Occasion, see you again, say a few words.
But this idea is really stupid and naive.
People who really love you won't give you another chance, because they can't accompany you, so why occupy your heart? Those who have no deep feelings have already left you behind.
So, don't meet again, lest one romantic avoid it.
If you can't have a lover, don't contact him.
In the world of adults, love is also utilitarian.
Whether we can stay with each other, take care of each other and support each other, rather than relying on only one person, are all practical issues that need to be considered.
I once saw a documentary about older women. Three women of different ages are characterized by successful careers and beautiful fantasies about love. But even if they support themselves, or even support a large family by themselves, no one can be their other half.
Someone approached them with talent and looks, gave them a beautiful bubble about love, took some money from it, and finally beat them? We are not suitable? The cover of escape still makes these women feel that they are all to blame and unworthy? Lover? .
Some people are very realistic, pay attention to living together, constantly show their advantages and call a spade a spade. Scarcity? Yes Show? Savior? Mentality means, get married quickly, or there will be no shop if you miss this village.
However, if you can't look at a person pleasing to the eye and talk together, where will there be happiness? Marrying for the sake of marriage, this irrational behavior, has been increasingly despised and abandoned.
On the road of life, you will always meet some people who hurt you. You gave all my heart, but you didn't get a love. Or, you both love each other very much, but because of work, because of both parents, for other reasons, you finally passed by and became a regret.
These things, one day, will become jokes. However, spoony people may be the last to wake up.