What is home? Home is a harbor of love, with love, complaints, disputes, responsibilities and responsibilities ... this is a place full of fireworks and vitality. But how to set up the home? That is the house, the barrier between two people who love each other, and the fuse of breaking up. Even if both of them die, love will be scratched by the pressure of parents. After all, the house is not only a house, but also carries the happiness of a family for a lifetime.
Is it to live and work in peace and contentment to protect your land, or to rent a house and wander around with a heart that doesn't want to wander? When love fairy tales touch reality, many people's choices are material. It is not that love is impure, but that life has taught us to grow. A man who can't even give a house, what can he give a woman? Sweet words in love are all lies.
But what is the reality? Most young people can't afford a house that suits them. There are too many stories behind every house, and every house is a history of growth. The house is not a matter of one person, or even more than one. It may involve one family, or it may use the power of two families. Give two families the strength to protect an immature marriage. Parents' material things are not born, but taught by decades of life. The house has become a symbol of judging a person's success or failure. How a person gets along depends on the real estate situation.
The old house in my hometown is a blue brick house built by 1986. This used to be one of the earlier brick houses in the village, bearing the glory of my father. My father has built his own house twice since he was separated from his brothers. The first time was an earthen wall tile house, and the second time was this blue brick house. Earth-walled tile houses have the same layout as blue brick houses, with three main rooms and two east wing rooms. Only one is located at the entrance of the village and the other is located at the entrance of the village. All my childhood memories are here.
Now more than 30 years have passed, the old house has become a dangerous building, and the surrounding houses have become two-story buildings, and an inexplicable sense of failure arises spontaneously. The house is the result of struggle from generation to generation. Neighbors go out to work every year to contribute to their new house. The annual change of the house can be seen, and the annual income can also be seen from the progress of the house. But my old house is in decline, and I also have the idea of repairing it, which was rejected by my father. Reason 1: Now it is the target of poverty alleviation, the house has a maintenance plan, the roof has been repaired once, and the government has listed resident cadres for regular inspection. Reason 2: it has taken root in the city, and the house has not been built for many years, and it can't go back several times a year.
An inexplicable sadness welled up in my heart, ashamed that I couldn't even afford to repair my house after coming out for so many years. Failure seems contagious. The father's failure spread in the streets, and the son's failure seemed doomed. The image of a loser, afraid to go back to the village often, is very embarrassed to speak. It's just that parents are not used to city life and have to go home several times a year. Many times, the house is a person's confidence. If you have a house to take, you can raise your head and speak recklessly. Every time I go back, I am deliberately asked when to repair the house, and I am speechless.
I am not a successful person, and I am not that miserable. I have struggled in the provincial capital for so many years. Although I have experienced twists and turns, I have my own shelter. A one-bedroom, a two-bedroom and a three-bedroom apartment are all near the Second Ring Road. Although the repayment pressure is a bit big, it can still bear it. After all, how can we talk about home without a house? The sons, daughters and their own retirement rooms are all planned. I don't care about the gossip in the village, even if it's a joke after dinner. I don't want my children to think that dad is a loser. I don't want to spread my failure.
House is synonymous with home in traditional culture. Where is home without a house? This is why many families are eager to buy a house. Without good real estate, how can we provide a perfect home and a happy home for our children?