When I read the ending of "Human Life" and Hao Dongmei, I couldn't help feeling sorry, but as two people with different backgrounds, it is conceivable that they won't come to the end, and the ending of remarriage seems logical.
Everyone has the right to choose love freely, and no one can choose to kidnap Hao Dongmei morally.
After Zhou was promoted, he was falsely accused of taking bribes. After finding out the truth, he was diagnosed with cancer and finally died. His wife Hao Dongmei married someone else shortly after Zhou's death.
This ending is actually very unsatisfactory. In some cases, it also implies that everyone has the right to pursue happiness and enjoy life. At the same time, it also means that people who are not in the right place can hardly enjoy long-term happiness.
"On Earth" episode 32: Jin Yueqi's words changed the ending of Zhou and Hao Dongmei.
Hao Dongmei promised Zhou Rong to let _ _ live at home, but Hao Dongmei's mother Jin Yueji told her a truth with a smile.
Embarrassment is more terrible than loneliness. Loneliness can be overcome. What about embarrassment?
This sentence actually points out the relationship between Hao Dongmei and Zhou. Hao Dongmei can't have children, and the gap between Zhou's family and Hao Dongmei's family is the reason for their embarrassment.
This insight made Hao Dongmei know this embarrassing problem in advance, so it is suggested here that she and Zhou will completely solve the problem of hidden pain between them. Even if Zhou leaves first as in the original, Hao Dongmei will consider her mother's words to measure this loneliness and embarrassment.
Hao Dongmei lost Zhou, but she was lonely. If she marries again, it will be embarrassing. This sentence seems to be explaining the problem of _ _ coming to live, but it is actually educating Hao Dongmei.
In Jin Yueji's cognition, the feeling of having relatives and friends but no blood relationship is the most complicated, so I dare not let _ _ come to live, obviously thinking of the worst result.
She is afraid of _ _ accident, and if something happens, she will bear the responsibility. Taking responsibility is a trivial matter. She is more afraid that the Zhou family will blame her, and blaming her will also bring negative effects to Hao Dongmei. After all, Hao Dongmei can't have children. From a certain point of view, Hao Dongmei is a little sorry for the Zhou family.
Jin Yueji was very considerate and directly cut off the root of possible problems. It can be said that she resolutely refused and was responsible for the Zhou family, which also created better conditions for her peace of mind.
When she refused to come to live at home, she thought that there would be no mistakes if she didn't do it, and there would be no contradictions if she didn't contact. This is the "lazy" emotional communication between relatives.
"Lazy" emotional communication means less contact, less help, less talking, less meeting, less meeting. According to Jin Yueji's idea, all relatives don't have to communicate, so they can only live quietly and be a breathing robot.
When Hao Dongmei's father was alive, their family didn't contact the Zhou family to avoid suspicion, even if they didn't meet once. Later, Hao Dongmei's father died and Jin Yueji retired, but the two families still had no contact. Jin Yueji just wants to live her own life, and there is no so-called affection at all.
Obviously, Jin Yueji doesn't like the Zhou family from the bottom of his heart. She always thinks that the Zhou family will have something to trouble them, and never considers the meaning and value of family ties.
Take Zhou Bingkun as an example. Before he went in for half a year, his neighbors and friends helped him through the difficulties. Later, Zhou Bingkun developed well and lent his house to a friend for free. Cho almost died. Zhou Bingkun rushed to save his brother without thinking. If he is as considerate as Jin Yueji and thinks of the worst, then people will have no friends in this life and all blood relationships will gradually disappear.
Hao Dongmei's parents are actually very cold-blooded. Even the Zhou family can't climb the Hao family. However, after Zhou's mother woke up seriously ill, Zhou's father retired, which was a big event. It's really a little unreasonable not to see my in-laws at this time. I have never seen anything I have never seen, and I always feel that Hao's family is too high.
The lines of the old opera bones are very chewy, and one sentence penetrates life and makes people feel.
This theory of loneliness and embarrassment also applies to young people's marriage. I have been exploring why young people don't love marriage so much. In fact, what is more terrible than loneliness is embarrassment. If a person lives a long time and fears the existence of another person, he will receive more negative information and be more afraid of marriage.
Jin Yueji is afraid of being rejected _ _ and there are contradictions. The same is true of young people who can't find the other half. The same is true of getting along with others. People are always afraid of taking a wrong step and dare not take risks to try new emotional paths. More and more people ignore the reality when surfing the Internet or keeping pets to solve loneliness.