This memory has existed for a long time. At that time, women had no status, and they couldn't make money by marrying someone else's house. They could only work hard at home, give birth to their husbands and serve their parents-in-law. Some mothers-in-law are kind-hearted, know that women are not easy, and will not put their own suffering on their daughters-in-law. But some people are psychologically distorted and insist on making their daughter-in-law feel twice as much.
Fortunately, now that women's status has improved, women are getting stronger and stronger, and they can achieve economic independence. In addition, the thinking has changed now. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not be as tense as before, but some mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are still very easy to get along with.
However, if a family has many children, parents' love for their children is definitely different. In some families, parents are too partial to one child, which will also lead to some subtle changes in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. For example, in some families, parents are the least partial to their sons, so as a daughter-in-law who is not partial to her son, she will be treated differently by her parents-in-law.
Yang Jing met such an eccentric family, which started when they fell in love.
Yang Jing is a happy girl. She has her own unique ideas in doing things, so on the recommendation of her relatives, she married Liu Hu.
Liu Hu is a very trustworthy person. Although he looks ordinary, looking at him will make people feel safe.
When they met for the first time, both of them had a good impression on each other, so they naturally began to associate. Because both of them think that the other person is the most perfect person and the person they want most, they got married after half a year.
Yang Jing is very optimistic about Liu Hu. Seeing that Liu Hu spent a lot of money to decorate the house, he simply married Liu Hu without a bride price. Yang Jing is a person with unique ideas. She hopes that her marriage will not bring pressure to her future parents-in-law, so she has always been considerate of Liu Hu's family. Yang Jing arranged everything needed for the wedding. On the wedding day, the wedding is also glamorous. Her parents-in-law are very satisfied with what Giudice LC has done, and she is also very grateful to Yang Jing for being so considerate of their difficulties. She has always been very polite to Giudice LC and has a good life.
However, Liu Hu also has a younger brother, who was spoiled by his parents since childhood, and his academic performance was average. In the end, he can only go to three schools and get a college diploma. But everyone who has studied in college knows that three books are the most expensive. The tuition alone is very expensive, and with the monthly living expenses, it really needs a lot of money.
Liu Hu's mother is in poor health, and has been taking medicine. The monthly medical expenses are also a lot of money, so the important task of living expenses is naturally handed over to Liu Hu. Yang Jing is also a clever man. Knowing that my brother-in-law just went to school and didn't have the ability to make money, and thinking that he could help, I suggested putting the living expenses on my brother-in-law's card every month. This living allowance was given for four years.
After her brother-in-law graduated, Yang Jing also had children of her own. She realized that she had to save money for her children now, and her brother-in-law was not going to give him living expenses after graduation. Who knows that as soon as she had this idea, her mother-in-law came to her.
Mother-in-law said, "Look, your brother has graduated now. I asked someone to find a job. This job is a good unit and stable. But it takes 60 thousand introduction fee to get in. Listen, I have a lot of money to buy medicine every month. I really can't take it out. You young couple should be together first. When he goes to work, I will let him pay you back slowly. "
When Liu Hu heard that he wanted 60,000 yuan, he also needed money after the child was born. He could not give the child's money to his younger brother, so he shirked it. I didn't expect my mother-in-law to sit directly in the chair and cry. You heartless people and the your brothers won't help. Who are you going to help? Say that finish, clutching his chest, the atmosphere can't breathe, two people hurriedly sent her mother-in-law to the hospital, but no problem, and brought back some herbs.
There's really nothing we can do. Liu Hu had to discuss with Yang Jing: "Let's help him for the last time. It's important to have a good job just after graduation. When he works, we will leave him alone and look at his own luck! " Yang Jing transferred 60,000 yuan to her mother-in-law, and it was over.
After working for a month, my brother-in-law got his first salary and said happily that he would invite everyone to dinner. Yang Jing is pregnant now, so it's really inconvenient to walk. She had been waiting for her husband to come over, and they came to the hotel slowly and leisurely. Before I opened the door, I heard my mother-in-law's loud voice: "If I hadn't faked a heart attack in front of your brother and sister-in-law, would you have such a good job?" At that time, your brother and sister-in-law didn't even want to give you money! "Hearing this, Liu Hu and Yang Jing, like a stone was blocked, were very depressed. Liu Hu pushed open the door and pretended that nothing had happened. Although seemingly happy, the young couple already have an idea in mind.
Since then, they have never given their brother-in-law a penny. My brother-in-law soon talked about his girlfriend, but the woman agreed to get married only after asking for a room. This puzzled her parents-in-law. They haven't saved any money in these years. My brother-in-law spends all his money on his girlfriend every month. She is a moonlight clan, and this time the idea of buying a house hit Liu Hu again.
Mother-in-law came to Liu Hu's house again and played cards of bitterness with the young couple, saying how difficult it was for her and her brother-in-law. She hoped that they could help buy a house, but Yang Jing refused.
"Getting married is really a happy thing. Don't worry, we will definitely get married with a big gift, but let's buy a house. Yes, we are his relatives, but we are not his parents. Why buy him a house? Our own children have to buy milk powder. What does my son drink when he gets the money? What to eat? I want to save money for my son and be a reasonable mother. Or I will buy him a house, and you will never ask us for a penny again. When you are old, you will go to see him. Now our money should honor you, and you can count on him in the future! You choose. "
Yang Jing blocked her mother-in-law's mouth with her own actions, and her brother-in-law and girlfriend broke up, holding a grudge against her brother and sister-in-law, and they kept quarreling at home.
In fact, this brother-in-law is really unreasonable. He has no ability to marry a daughter-in-law, and others have to blame. After all, it was only because his parents were too partial to him that he became so rude.
Children who are not loved by their parents often try their best to please and obey their parents. But this kind of ingratiation is very stupid. He will take care of the family he came from regardless of right or wrong, thus choosing to give up the happiness of the small family.
Fortunately, Liu Hu is a very sober person. He can distinguish the relationship between everyone and his family. Although he is an unloved child in a big family, he can stand on the side of reason. In a small family, he is the husband and the pillar, and he will give happiness to the small family.
Yang Jing's words let her mother-in-law see the reality clearly, knowing that a younger brother who can't help the wall will definitely not be able to support the elderly in the future, so she deliberately blocked her mother-in-law's mouth with this sentence. Let the mother-in-law remember what kind of trouble her eccentricity will bring to her youngest son and what kind of trouble she will bring to herself.
As parents, we must treat our children equally. You can't blindly spoil one child, nor can you blindly ask one party to fill in another child. The unloved child really regretted leaving you after breaking his heart.