The beginning is a little trivial, until the story of Wu Linglan in the Republic of China, although simple, shines with strange brilliance and becomes the origin of all the turning points of the story.
Wu Linglan wore a nightgown and looked at the list.
English scores first, but physics scores fall in the "no column".
When the liberal arts were excellent, the teacher advised him to change his major, but he was at a loss.
Teacher Mei asked, "You are so good at Chinese and English, why do you want to learn' real subjects'?"
He replied, "Because the best students are studying practical subjects."
I remember there was an uproar in the cinema at that time.
Outsiders can see clearly.
However, this is the only reason why many students in China study hard.
Reading is to be a top student, that's all!
Teacher Mei asked again, "What are you studying for?"
Wu Linglan was at a loss again, and it took a long time to say, "I don't know. I only know that I read books every day and feel practical. "
Teacher Mei said:
Wu Linglan wondered, "Real? What is true? "
This is a calm and firm attitude in the face of the tide of the times, following the heart.
Teacher Mei's words made Wu Linglan really face and think about her life for the first time. Until Tagore's speech, his eyes crossed the crowd and met Miss Mei, which became a turning point in his life.
He was awakened by Miss Mei!
Later, the story produced a chain reaction:
A word from Wu Linglan:
A word from the air force instructor:
Let Shen Guangyao make up his mind, regardless of his mother's tearful opposition, and resolutely join the Air Force according to his own wishes and ideas.
Shen Guangyao often thinks of the boy who died in the fire. During his mission at school, he ignored the danger of being chased by the enemy, listened to his inner voice and often flew to feed those poor orphans.
Later, comrades-in-arms were also deeply infected and joined the ranks of "putting" dishes.
Watching movies here is my most touching moment, a warm and brilliant moment!
Their charity helped many orphans in the war, one of whom was named Chen Peng.
Chen Peng is grateful, and when he grows up, he has genes of kindness and love in his bones.
Although he left his beloved Wang because of misunderstanding and went to the northwest to become a scientist to develop nuclear energy, when Wang was criticized in Beijing for a letter of accusation and faced with the test of life and death, he dared to face his deep love and return to Wang in time to become her salvation force.
He rescued the king who was interrogated, punched and kicked in a pool of blood, and said the most touching sentence:
Harvest love!
Li Xiang, another young man who worships Wang, originally wrote a letter of accusation with Wang, and did not stand up and bear the consequences with Wang for fear of affecting his future.
Li Xiang repented when he mistakenly thought that Wang had been criticized to death. Although I was angry at Li Xiang's selfish attitude of self-preservation at a critical moment, regardless of Wang's life and death, I finally forgave him and said:
This crucial sentence awakened Li Xiang's later life.
In the northwest desert, he died to save two medical team members who fainted due to lack of water in the snow-capped mountains. These two medical team members are Zhang's parents.
Zhang was shocked when he heard his parents tell the story that he was saved by Uncle Li (Li Xiang) on the snowy mountain.
When his father said to himself, "I hope you can do what you like and be happy", he finally faced up to his inner softness, did not betray his boss David, and placed a quadruplet family.
He was very happy when he decorated the windows in the quadruplet room!
Nothing else matters.
All the stories are strung together by a fiery spirit:
Whether it is the "big self" who is patriotic and helps others,
Or inner love, the ideal "self",
Every "what I want" is precious and worthy of respect!
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Four generations, * * * promoted the process of the times, and performed wonderful and regretless lives with different language and behaviors of the times? Be "true" to yourself: just ask courage, not the west and the east!
Many people say: Spirit, this kind of thing is neither airplane cannon nor delicious. Can't see, touch, eat or live. What's the use?
The steering wheel of life is in the spirit.
Without "spirit", it's like living in a dream, without really experiencing the world, but in a muddled state: doing what you think you should do, but you can't have a wonderful life in live high!
Our culture does not encourage people to think about real big problems, but attracts people to pay attention to a lot of practical trivial matters: going to school, taking exams, getting a job, getting promoted, making money, getting married, buying a car, buying a house, decorating and so on. They are all for survival and always strive to live a decent life according to secular standards.
Everyone seems to have been very unaccustomed to "taking a step back" in such thinking inertia to examine themselves: Is this all I need in my life?
Because culture does not encourage this kind of "step back" problem, everyone's real needs are covered up.
"Need" became "want".
The content of "want" comes from blind competition with others after looking around.
Obviously, it is enough to ensure nutrition, but the so-called food culture has pushed this practical need to the point of delicacies and extreme luxury; Obviously, they just want to live comfortably, but the decoration culture has alienated this demand into a palace-like luxury pursuit.
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Everyone is like a marathon, running out of breath, exhausted, and the pressure far exceeds the demand and enjoyment itself.
What I admire most about the Japanese is that they know what they like, and then go all out to pursue and realize what they like to the extreme!
When their children say that they want to be beauticians and make cakes in the future, Japanese parents will look at their children with approval and appreciation, while China's parents will not. China's parents' expectations for their children are mostly: higher education, higher income and higher social status, but they seldom consider what kind of person their children want to be.
So there are so many Wu Linglan at the beginning of the article.
Therefore, as adults, we should learn to gradually establish our own rules of life.
We can still follow the "general rules of sexual life". There is no need to break through traffic rules and civilized conventions.
But for real big problems, such as alienating blind material pursuit, establishing one's own life goals, social responsibilities, caring for others and so on. You must make your own decisions and make your own judgments. No one or any social trend can make decisions for you!
Smart people never fall into other people's "farce"!
The splendor of life comes from the transparency of life and the filling of inner love.
You, who is it?
What kind of life do you want?
What kind of connection do you want to establish with others?
What is the most important thing for you?
. . . . . .
Miss Mei, wake up Wu Linglan;
Wu Linglan and the air force instructor woke Shen Guangyao;
Shen Guangyao, awakened Chen Peng;
Chen Peng, wake up Li Xiang;
Li thought, I woke Zhang up.
Who is the person who woke you up?
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