1 first of all, it must be clear that children begin to enter adolescence at the age of 13. It is normal to have a good impression on the opposite sex at this stage. If not, that's a problem. There was once a father who was an officer, and it was forbidden for his son to associate with the opposite sex when his child was in adolescence. As a result, my son can't fall in love at the age of 32, and he blushes when he sees girls.
2. Secondly, confirm whether the child is really in love or just has a good impression on the opposite sex. In most cases, children just have a hazy affection for each other; If you are really in love, you should be happy at first: your children are very attractive and can attract people so early, and then teach them how to get along with the opposite sex. In most cases, the love between children is naive. If you really love each other, you will often find each other's shortcomings soon. At this time, they will take the initiative to ask for a "breakup."
3. Then euphemistically express your expectation: don't fall behind in your studies anyway, your comprehensive quality can continue to develop, and show your trust in your child, believing that he or she will handle the relationship between love and study well. This kind of trust will make children grateful to you rather than resentful; This often makes them start thinking like "adults".
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