1, the average registered age of girls in Hangzhou
Hangzhou Civil Affairs Bureau released the data of marriage registration in Hangzhou on October 20 17. In 20 17 years, an average of 180 couples get married every day. The average age of marriage registration is 33. 1 year for men and 3 1.0 for women, which is later than the same period last year 1.3 years. Among them, the average age of men's first marriage is 28.6 years old, and that of women is 27. 1 year old, which is 0. 1 year old for men and 0.4 years old for women compared with the same period last year. In addition to marriage, the registration of divorce and remarriage is also increasing.
2. The main reasons for the widespread phenomenon of late marriage.
1. The reason for late marriage is that the material conditions for marriage are not mature.
Some people say that most of the post-80s and pre-30s have nothing, except the rich second generation. The housing problem is a big problem left by history to the post-80s generation. When it comes to housing, another problem has to be involved, that is, the difficulty of obtaining employment, which is an essential problem. It is precisely because of the enormous employment pressure faced by the post-80s generation that many employers take this opportunity to substantially reduce their salaries. This situation limits their income level and overall purchasing power. The housing problem is essentially an income problem. Getting married is naturally not as simple as a paper certificate, as many gold diggers say, you need to live. Life needs money, money is needed in all aspects, and material conditions are not mature, so how to get married.
2. The reason for late marriage is that psychological age can't bear the pressure after marriage.
The post-80s generation can also be said to be a relatively happy generation. Because of the only child, they got the greatest love from their parents. So on the whole, they are also happier than any generation (naturally excluding post-90 s and post-00 s). In a sense, for them, these loves don't all play a positive role. Love sometimes fetters a person's independence and weakens a person's endurance. Therefore, under the sunshine of their parents for a long time, they are rarely able to face and undertake one thing independently at once. Many post-80s people have post-marital depression, which is because they did not foresee the pressure of married life, or overestimated their endurance.
3. The reason for the late marriage is that the job status restricts the marriage life.
As mentioned above, with the increase of employment pressure and the intensification of workplace competition, the post-80 s working state is now facing not only low wages, but also great work pressure. The author once learned from the investigation on the work of college graduates that nowadays college students rarely have the experience of not working overtime or taking a break on weekends, especially in private enterprises. According to a graduate, they never got off work before 10, which means going to work as usual the next morning, every day for several months. The author was surprised, but through later in-depth understanding, the situation of such college graduates is by no means accidental. Therefore, in this working state, married life actually exists in name only, and there is no time between husband and wife. How can it be regarded as husband and wife?
4. The reason for the late marriage is that there are less gatherings and more parting.
Long-distance relationships were quite popular for a while. Many people say that distance is not a problem as long as they love each other. For the post-80s generation, distance is a big problem. This is not to say that they deny the greatness of love, but that they consider problems more carefully. So many of them, because of the distance, temporarily stranded their marriage, love can have no distance limit, but marriage can't. Again, two people's marriage must be based on life. How can they manage a good marriage without any life?
5. The reason for the late marriage is that the social atmosphere puts freedom above marriage and love.
In fact, freedom as a concept has been advocated for many years, but today, people gradually understand the true meaning of freedom. The post-80s generation can be said to be the most experienced generation of freedom, because they have experienced restrictions and tasted freedom. However, for the post-90s who directly enjoy freedom without too many constraints, it is difficult for them to appreciate the value of freedom. Therefore, once the post-80s generation matures, it will naturally put the concept of freedom above everything, including marriage and love. If marriage fetters them and prevents their freedom, then they will be very open-minded and will not get married for the time being.
3. What are the advantages and disadvantages of late marriage?
The benefits of late marriage
1, which is beneficial to development.
Young people just need to improve themselves and achieve what they want in life experience and economic level, not to mention how much young people have to do, but they must not let themselves have no pursuit and fighting spirit. Nowadays, many young men and women who marry prematurely are under pressure to raise their children because they have no solid economic foundation. If you work hard when you are young and make yourself develop better, you won't have to worry about economic problems in order to have children in the future.
2. It is conducive to the happiness of the family.
Many men and women who marry prematurely are unhappy. Because the thought is not mature enough, there are still many frictions between personality and lifestyle, so they often quarrel and eventually lead to divorce. Both men and women who marry late have enough life experience and mature thoughts. Knowing tolerance and discretion can make both husband and wife live happily. After long-term struggle, they have a certain economic foundation and a strong family, so their family life will be happier.
3, conducive to the growth of children.
Family education is very important for children. In early marriage families, parents are imperfect people, so the education of children will not be very comprehensive. Moreover, young parents have to bear heavy financial pressure for raising their children and have little time to educate their children. A family that marries late is more conducive to the growth of children. First of all, parents have rich life experience and can educate their children well. At the same time, families who marry late have a certain economic foundation, and parents can.
Disadvantages of late marriage
1, affecting the quality of sexual life
After the age of 30, the urgency of male sexual impulse will be weakened. At the age of 40, unless there is abnormal stimulation, it is generally impossible to ejaculate continuously and quickly. However, older unmarried women lack normal sexual life, and long-term depression leads to disuse atrophy of female private parts, reduced or dry secretions, and causes urogenital inflammation.
2. The fertility rate has dropped significantly.
Generally, men aged 25-35 are healthy and have the highest sperm quality, and then the quantity and quality of sperm will decline. In addition, the University of St. Andrews in the United Kingdom found that after the age of 30, women's egg reserves decreased by 90%, and their fertility was greatly reduced.
3. Increase the risk of fetal malformation and premature death.
The risk of premature birth for women aged 30-34 will increase by 20%. Studies have shown that the incidence of Down's syndrome is only11.500 in people who give birth at the age of 25-29. 30~34 years old is1/900; 35 to 39 years old, rising to1/300; Over 45 years old, reaching 1/40.
4, endangering women's health
According to the report of the World Health Organization, the number of high-risk pregnancies among women over 35 years old is increasing, which directly threatens the health of mothers and babies. Middle-aged women's pelvic cavity is basically fixed, the elasticity of female private parts is reduced, and the contractility of uterine muscles is weakened, which is easy to dystocia. The older you get, the higher the probability of pregnancy-induced hypertension, pregnancy-induced diabetes and postpartum depression. The data shows that elderly women account for more than 70% of patients with postpartum depression.
Although people's living standards and quality of life have improved, with the increase of the average age of marriage registration, people's happiness index is quietly declining. Some girls are 30 years old and have no date yet. They are very worried, and they may have quarreled at home, but even so, we need to consider it ourselves. After all, getting married late has both advantages and disadvantages. It is right to think clearly, but don't be too picky.