1. When a man no longer loves you, he dislikes you in various ways because he has a comparison in his heart. Your breathing and walking are wrong. In a word, everything you do is wrong. Women, don't always review what you have done badly. If you really think so, you are wrong. Whether you are good or bad really has nothing to do with whether he looks for a dog or not. It's their nature to look for dogs. Look for opportunities.
With a new lover, he will pay attention to his appearance and all kinds of dressing. In order to make a good impression on my sweetheart.
I broke the normal life rule and suddenly fell in love with a hobby.
With the increase of expenses, it costs money to eat, open a house and buy gifts.
5. Accidental conscience discovery will make him be nice to you, that is, suddenly paying attention, either raping or stealing.
6. There is also an old hand in love who is always good to you and makes you feel that all men in the world will not cheat. This is the most vicious one.
6. I'm not interested in your body anymore, which is the most telling thing.
The biggest sorrow of a woman is entanglement, so isn't it that she is not doing well, and she is really not as good as the person outside? Personally, these are really not your problems. Whether it's beautiful, Ma Yili beautiful, or Xie beautiful, so what? Hehe, sisters, love yourself. To some extent, it is not so sad to regard men's infidelity as a low-level animal behavior. It is more practical to have money and a house than to rely on men. However, it is still necessary to warn those men not to steal from others just because you take advantage of them. Many times, when you walk on the road of stealing flowers, your melon has been picked, hahaha! Cheer up, girls. All depression and anger will turn into bad factors, sneak into your body and turn them into tumors for you. If you lose your health or life, only your relatives will be sad. People who betray you will not feel guilty. From the moment I betrayed you, you were nothing to him. There are so many beautiful things in the world that you don't know how to appreciate. Why torture yourself for a rotten person? Is it worth it? Are you stupid?
When a man has an affair, he will be very cautious, and a careless woman will not easily notice it. Even if I realize what's wrong with men, I won't think much. If women express doubts, men will defend themselves for various reasons, while women are often dubious. Without conclusive evidence, women are helpless.
Generally speaking, when a man cheats, he will have the following abnormal performances:
A, pay more attention to gfd than before. Especially when I go out at night and on weekends, my hair is polished and I look in the mirror more than once. Especially when you go out, you have to look in the mirror quickly. He went on a date!
B, the phone is locked, and the password is often changed. I often lie on the sofa and brush my mobile phone. As soon as my wife came near, the screen of the mobile phone changed immediately.
His mobile phone rarely leaves his body, let alone let his wife see it. If his wife has to be censored, he will in turn accuse her of not trusting him; Or refused at that time, and then deleted the secret in the mobile phone and deliberately put it in a place where his wife could easily find it: look, enough!
C.i don't like my wife. His mind is focused on his new love, and naturally he will compare two women, so he feels that his wife has a problem and he is not pleasing to the eye.
I don't like my wife because I like the new and hate the old. The food cooked by his wife is not as delicious as before. He has no patience to listen to his wife, and her walking posture looks uncomfortable. Some men will show these disgust, while others are more subtle.
D. sudden increase in expenditure. Dating, staying, eating and buying gifts are all very expensive. For men with superior conditions and economic freedom, it may be difficult for their wives to find this change; Men in ordinary families will try their best to hide private money, or ask their wives for money under various excuses.
E, go out for more activities and spend less time at home. Men who used to go out to say hello began to have more reasons to go out and slowly went out without saying hello. My wife came back to ask questions, prevaricated, and even accused her of taking care of too much. Is it annoying?
Suddenly courting his wife. Cheating men pay attention to women, not necessarily because of guilt, but to confuse their wives and hide themselves. Its psychological logic is: you see, I am so good to you, how can I have ulterior motives! This is actually a sign of guilt.
G, reduce sexual intercourse, lose interest in his wife's body. Yes, it's a routine, comforting your wife and covering yourself up.
I want to say a few more words about cheating.
First, once the derailment is exposed, the consequences are often very serious. If the spouse forgives, although the family will not disintegrate, the shadow will last for a long time and the relationship between husband and wife will be cracked. If the divorce is caused by derailment, the wife and children will be separated, which will harm others and themselves, and the cost will be great.
Second, people call men playboys, but there are also some unjust, false and wrong cases. Theoretically, cheating is generally one-on-one. Men cheat, women go out of the wall. Therefore, it is unfair to just blame the man.
Third, the consequences of men's infidelity and women's infidelity are different. Men cheat mostly because of sexual stimulation, while women cheat mostly because of feelings. So most men can go home physically and mentally, but women can't. A woman's body can come back, but her spirit is not easy to go home.
Fourth, cheating is not only a moral issue, but also a human nature. Most men don't want to cheat, but they just don't have a chance. In view of the inherent weakness of human nature, we should be moderately tolerant of derailment.
Usually, men cheat because of disgust and fear of intimacy, while women cheat because of loneliness and desire for intimacy.
What are the signs of a man with a new love? It's actually quite simple. She can tell from the details of his behavior. And look at the analysis of your book:
First, reform
He used to hate dancing, but recently he became addicted to practicing dance steps. He used to be careless, but suddenly he became very delicate and gave her a present.
In short, he likes to do things he didn't want to do before, as if he had changed his face.
This is especially manifested in his appearance.
Lily's cheating ex is like this. A person who used to be sloppy suddenly became neat. Shoe shoes every day, especially like looking in the mirror. One day, Lily couldn't help asking him: Are you with someone outside? He looked surprised and soon calmed down: let's break up.
Second, I don't like going home.
From one day on, he began to become extremely busy.
Either you need to work overtime today, or you need to socialize tomorrow, and even the day after tomorrow is full of meetings and studies.
His busyness erased time from the calendar. It doesn't matter whether he is really busy or not. The important thing is that he will never be busy with her again. Therefore, it is common for him to go home late, and it is occasional not to go home.
When she used his mobile phone, he looked unnatural, and there were many new apps on it.
He often put on a sad face in front of her, for example, he would say that he worked hard and worked overtime day and night to hide his sadness. I often see such a scene in TV dramas:
"Wife, I have something to go back later tonight. Why don't I stay up all night tonight, and you go to sleep first. " He deserves to be an actor. One second he called her pitifully, and the next he was happy to meet his new lover.
He finally went home, and she was still waiting for him, asking him if he was hungry? After eating, he shirked that he was too tired to eat.
Third, the temper has become bigger.
In the past, he certainly didn't get angry easily. Even if she made a big mistake, he would touch her head piteously and call out a naughty boy.
If he changes his mind, any small mistake of hers will be the cause of his anger. And the original him, totally changed.
In fact, nothing can make him not angry at this time.
Even a small matter will disgust him for a long time.
The porridge is thin and the food is too salty. As long as she handles it, he always finds fault with everything and despises nothing.
Even, a woman is often compared with her directly or indirectly.
Sister Jiang resigned and took care of the children at home. Men live outside and women live inside, and life is very happy. But suddenly one day, her husband changed his temperament and began to find fault with her.
From then on, there was no peace at home, and they made a fuss every day for three days. It was not until Sister Jiang saw her husband shopping with a strange woman that she suddenly realized.
Fourth, there is less physical contact.
Spoil a new lover and forget her. Food is limited. If you give it to others, you don't have much of your own. He never took the initiative to make out with her, and she began to resent her intimate behavior or simply proposed to sleep separately.
He became a little strange to her, and his physical contact was obviously less. He hasn't touched her for a month or two. Even if there is physical contact, it is to deal with it and end it hastily.
Shao Feng said in the sketch that if this man has a woman outside, the situation is as follows: First, he doesn't like to talk when he goes home.
Why? Because he is afraid of talking too much; Second, I feel depressed when I go home. Why? Because he is exhausted outside.
Fifth, the cost has increased.
Having a new love is naturally an expense that cannot be ignored. When he complained that he didn't spend enough money or didn't pay her at all, the expenses suddenly increased, so be careful.
He has never used shopping and takeaway software before, but now he has a purchase record, and these items have never appeared at home.
His popularity suddenly improved, and his friends always gave him more and more gifts, such as clothes, belts and so on.
She asked him and he answered hesitantly. Or collapsed on the sofa, tired without saying a word.
It is a fact that he is really tired of dealing with her and her new lover like this.
Love is great, and love can contain everything. When there is love between two people, there is all possibility of happiness. Only when he no longer loves her, all tolerance and forgiveness will disappear without a trace.
He will forget her rights for his own benefit, and he will try his best to satisfy his own selfish desires.
About cheating, a book gentleman has something to say:
Men and women between lovers, if you love, please love deeply.
If you don't love, please let go. To let go of others is to let go of yourself. Cheating is only a temporary stimulus, but it leaves people with a lifetime of pain.
There is a knife on the color prefix, and everything that comes out is to be returned. It's not easy to have a new love. It's time-consuming, laborious and expensive, and it will damage your reputation. The gain is outweighed by the loss. So, do it and cherish it.
When a man has a new love, he usually has two ideas. One is to find a way to abandon the old love and consider how to be with the new one. One is to do everything possible to hide the old feelings, so that the colorful flags are fluttering outside, and the red flag at home will not fall.
Either way, once another woman occupies a seat in her heart, no matter how to disguise it or hide it, she can't hide her unique intuition and sensitivity.
You will feel that he has begun to perfunctory you, and things that should be on his mind have become less concerned. Find all kinds of excuses for you to play. At this time, the silly woman is still thinking. I should think more about him. He has been very busy and tired recently. I should be sensible and share more for him.
You will feel that he is beginning to dislike you, because he has a contrast in his mind. Why don't you put on makeup today? What kind of clothes are you wearing? You have a lot of fat around your waist recently. Why are you wasting money again? Women are very wronged and feel that they are really not doing well enough. They began to reflect on themselves, try to dress up and try to be beautiful. But his heart is no longer with you, and it won't help if you do more. At this time, the lethality of a man to a woman is terrible, and he can easily destroy the confidence of a woman who loves him deeply. This is what they hate.
There is also an ugly gesture of pretending to be forced when you don't want to love. Such a man is the most hypocritical, but he can be so innocent when he makes a mistake, and even be good to you as always. Stupid women don't know how to sell it. It's just a forced reason.
Either way, the injured woman is doomed to be infatuated. So, see it early, get rid of it early, and don't try to keep someone whose heart is not on you. No one can live without anyone. Turning around with dignity is your salvation.
It can be said that most men are still loyal to their families and wives. But there are also very few men who always feel that their wives are inferior to others. These men, on many occasions, can be very obvious. For example, in the street, when he sees a beautiful woman, he will keep looking back, and sometimes he will whistle to attract her attention. Some men even take pictures of beautiful women. There are also some men whose mobile phones are full of beautiful pictures, and their mobile phone screensavers are also full of beautiful pictures. Therefore, this question in the title is not too difficult to answer. With a new man, he will be shown in many aspects and details, and careful women will be able to find and feel it.
The most important performance is that a man with a new love is unwilling to give his wife a hug. Most of the time, I sleep alone. If you love to neglect your wife, sometimes it is obvious that you have done something wrong, and you will still find fault with your wife. In other words, when he doesn't love you, he always has various reasons to go home late.
When a man has a woman he likes, he pays attention to his words, especially the clothes he wears. Maybe someone else bought him clothes! Therefore, a careful wife must pay more attention to whether the clothes on her husband are bought by herself. Some men like to buy their own clothes, and some men like their wives to buy clothes, especially men whose wives buy clothes for them. When you find that the clothes your man is wearing are not bought by yourself, you must pay attention!
And many times, people's sixth sense is very sensitive, and to put it bluntly, it is very accurate. Actually, the sixth sense must be normal. Think about it, the people you sleep with have changed a little. You must have a hunch and find out. Many times it's too late, and a hunch is very important. When you have a premonition that something will happen, you must take preventive measures. For example, you can care more about your husband, care about him in some details, and sometimes save your marriage.
Another thing is, when you have a sixth sense that he is taken, don't just blame or ask the other person. Because in this case, you don't have any evidence, and no problem will often be self-defeating and will cause cracks in your marriage. ...
1 Start to lock the password on the mobile phone screen or use your own fingerprint directly.
Go home mute or vibrate.
When you walk past him, he will quickly return the WeChat chat dialog box to the desktop.
Four big tempers find fault with you
When your sixth sense is accurate, he will bite you and distrust him.
Laughing at others in the outside and going home with a sullen temper.
7 Not interested in sex or perfunctory or even sleeping directly in separate rooms.
Take your mobile phone to the toilet, with the screen facing down.
You are not allowed to pick him up after work, and you are not allowed to bask in friends.
10 Answer the phone, but I'm still nervous after closing the door.
Once a man defends you, a woman is not a fool. He thinks we don't know him, but it's the same as the teacher standing on the podium watching students cheat.
The phone number 12 is always busy.
13 will no longer take the initiative to send a message to call you saying that you are busy, and will not quarrel with you on WeChat but tease others.
14 When he talks about his cheating female colleague, he will smile from ear to ear.
15 You are not allowed to say that you are cheating someone.
What are the signs that a man has a new love outside? Let me share it with you from a personal point of view!
In my love, we only need to be careful and attentive, and it is easy to see other changes. No matter which side, there will always be changes in behavior and conversation with new lovers or spare tires!
Not willing to hold your hand.
If a man has a new lover, he will talk to you coldly, unwilling to talk to you more, unwilling to find a topic for you, and even think you are bored and don't care much about you. When I go out to play, I will deliberately avoid you, or I won't hold your hand, and I don't like talking to you all the way.
A man with a new love can forget one day, not contacting you, not saying hello, not saying a word, and ask him why he ignores me one day, and he will say; I'm too busy to wait, and a series of excuses put you off.
People with new love and spare tires will talk to you every day, talk to you, talk to you about their worries, and talk to you about what happened around them. After a new love, these things used to be everyday things and gradually disappeared. This is change, and there will be thousands of excuses.
Changes in language communication.
In love, no matter whether there are emotional problems or who has a new lover, the language will change greatly, because he spends better language and higher emotional intelligence on the new lover. Therefore, once a man has a new love, he will say whatever you ask him and what you want to know; I don't know, I don't want to remember and remember for you.
In the process of chatting and talking, I always perfunctory you. The question is what you've been looking for. If your attitude towards you changes, you will feel that you are really verbose and full of nonsense. Occasionally, I will yell at you and have a bad temper. I will take it out on you.
Love is a matter of two people, a combination of * * *, and then you need to manage each other.
If your boyfriend and girlfriend are slowly changing in life and behavior, and you feel it yourself, then you should observe each other carefully and don't let them hurt you or love you because of trust.
With a new man, you are no longer the only one in his eyes, and his sixth sense is obvious.
I think the obvious performance is as follows:
First, everything is no longer centered on you, with less respect, less concern and less smile. This person will be very negative. When he sees you, he will show all kinds of dissatisfaction, that is, find fault. He is not pleasing to the eye, left or right, because there is comparison.
Second, this person is no longer bold and heroic, but haggle over every ounce, and all trivial things are unpleasant and petty.
Third, this person will have fewer or no telephones. If you miss it, you can't get in touch, and you say that you are busy looking for reasons every day.
He doesn't remember your birthday, anniversary and so on. Just like air. Whether you are beautiful or not, your emotions, he doesn't care at all.
He seldom plays with you or takes you out for dinner, because he is absent-minded and won't buy you any gifts.
6. avoid seeing all relatives and friends, and the six parents will not recognize them.
Seven, lie without blushing, travel today, travel tomorrow, and even dare not tell you where you live and who you are with.
Eight, the phone is busy, it is not convenient to talk to friends.
9. Without a smile and a sense of humor, throw all the disappointments on yourself. When you meet such a person, manage your emotions. Don't dance or be sad with each other, lest you get hurt.
Ten, call to close the door or go to the balcony, afraid of hearing something, very mysterious.
Eleven, important things no longer let you participate, you give everything.
If a man has a new lover, then a woman's intuitive sixth sense is naturally very sensitive, that is, the way he looks at you is different! If he loves you, the way he looks at you is absolutely affectionate, as thick as a hot spring! If he doesn't love you, he will look at you differently. He is absent-minded and won't care about you. If a man loves you, he will give everything for you, he will love you dearly, and he will care about you bit by bit. If a man doesn't love you, you have a problem. He won't care and won't break his heart for you!
This is the essential difference between men's love and not love. If a man loves you, he will feel sorry for you, suffer for you, sigh for you and give everything for you! When a man doesn't love you, he will treat you as transparent. When he doesn't see you, he will lead a chic life, and he will treat you as if you don't exist in his life! From then on, the road leads to the road and the bridge leads to the bridge. He has his wonderful, you have your future! So, between people, that's all!
1, which reduces the intimacy of skin. I used to love you. It's normal to kiss and hug you. After I had a new love, it became less, or even gone. Sometimes I'm absent-minded You take the initiative to find reasons to prevaricate or deal with things, but he likes to eat health care products, especially tonifying the kidney!
-I'm afraid you'll suspect him if you find out he's losing his libido.
2. Be careful. In the past, I was always careless. My mobile phone didn't lock the screen, and my chat record and phone call record were not deleted. After I had a new love, I locked the screen and deleted the phone records and chat records, so my mobile phone became inseparable. I turn on my cell phone from time to time to have a look. I became very nervous when the phone rang. When I answer the phone, it's always uh-huh, hi, or I avoid you to answer the phone.
-I'm afraid you find something intentionally or unintentionally, in order to prevent you.
3. More and more people go out. I go out more often than before, leaving early and returning late, all by myself. I found all kinds of reasons not to take you. I always prevaricate when I ask him what to do. Work overtime today, get together with friends tomorrow, go on a business trip the day after tomorrow, and come back very late. When I got home, I packed everything and paid special attention to my clothes.
-I'm afraid you find clues and destroy all the evidence.
Money is not enough. When a man has a new lover, he must increase his expenses. In the past, he was paid in full, and the money was basically enough. Now he doesn't hand in or hide private money, nor does he borrow money from his friends, nor does he let you know.
I'm afraid you will trace the whereabouts of the money.
5. Pay special attention to the image. When a man has a new lover, he pays special attention to his image, dresses himself up beautifully, becomes fond of looking in the mirror, and sometimes secretly smiles unconsciously. You used to wash clothes, but now he is diligent and competes with you for washing.
-the passionate period of new love, while destroying evidence, psychological shameless!
The above five points and one article account for 60% of the new love rate, two to three articles account for 65,438+000%, and five articles account for the whole. Basically, get ready for a divorce!