I used to think that once you got married and became a wife, you would never leave your job. You love your job every day and do your best for your marriage.
But in the end, you still have to leave. You think this is a job that you can do for a lifetime, but now you are forced to change jobs. Now you are facing a divorce.
Qin Jie is 35 years old and a strong woman in the workplace. Her annual income is several times higher than her husband's. Although Sister Qin is capable, her husband is infatuated with other women, and the good life can't go on.
Sister Qin is so strong and has a high income that she can't stand her husband's cheating. In a rage, she filed for divorce. The man came back to beg him, saying that he was confused at the moment and hoped that Sister Qin would give him a chance.
In Qin Jie's mind, one infidelity is 10 thousand infidelity, but I don't give opportunities.
This marriage has lasted for three years. Before marriage, many houses and cars in Qin Jie were in her own name. Qin Jie, who is independent and capable, is not afraid of divorce at all. Sister Qin doesn't live by men. When divorced, she can stand tall and leave with dignity.
Qin Jie also won the custody of her daughter, lost a sum of money to the man, and never contacted her ex-husband.
There are many divorced women who are so independent.
With this question, I interviewed three independent and rich women. How did they feel after their divorce? Let's listen to their voices!
1: Sister Yao, 33 years old.
After giving birth to the child, Yao Jie devoted herself to her work. The baby is taken care of by the mother, so she has more energy to devote to her career.
Unlike other housewives, Sister Yao's financial source is her husband. Yao Jie is as capable as a man and does a good job in business. She feels that she is never short of money, and she works only to realize her own value.
Yao Jie is excellent, and men should respect her opinions in marriage. But no matter how good a woman is, she will cheat when she meets a man who won't cherish you.
Yao Jie's husband cheated on her when her child was two years old. Yao Jie feels that this relationship can't go back. She didn't nag like other women, nor was she a dissatisfied housewife, so she boldly filed for divorce.
Because she has enough financial ability to support herself, Yao Jie bravely walked out of the marriage. After the divorce, Yao Jie fought for the custody of the children. Now Sister Yao has found a boyfriend who dotes on her and her daughter.
Because Yao Jie is independent and capable, she has the courage to change her unhappy marriage and embrace the next happiness again.
2: Jason, 40 years old.
When I knew that my husband and my third child were going to have a baby, my sky collapsed. I was so stupid that I didn't even notice. Then I got divorced, and I couldn't forgive this man for cheating me for so long.
After that, I cut off all sources of income for the man. Now that I am in charge of the economy, he is penniless.
I gnash my teeth at the thought of him taking my money to raise another woman outside. I directly collected evidence of his extramarital affairs and accused him of bigamy. He was sentenced to one year's imprisonment.
Because he has no financial resources, I heard that Xiaosan finally broke up with him, and he deserved it.
I have done many things that women dare not do, but I am very happy.
3: Xiao Chen, 36 years old.
My husband divorced because there was someone outside. I know, I can't accept that hurdle in my heart.
The day after the divorce, because I was in a bad mood, I spent all the money in my pocket on buying lottery tickets, just like the goddess of fortune came to visit me specially, and I actually won 5 million.
I don't believe it myself, just like in TV series.
My ex-husband didn't know where he heard the news of my winning the lottery, and came back to beg me to get back together, saying that he still had feelings for me and that he was just taking part in accidental amusement with mistress.
During that time, he kept pestering me and sending me messages, hoping to get my forgiveness and remarry. Once, he even stopped at my door and knelt down to beg my forgiveness. Look at the way he came to ask me for money and want me to get back together. I am really happy in my heart, which also makes me see a person's heart clearly.
I slapped myself directly. By the way, remarriage is impossible. I am rich now, but I won't give you a penny.
I remember the feeling of being betrayed. I still can't forget it. How can I forgive you easily?
A person who wants to get back together with me for the benefit, how can I easily believe that only by leaving love rat can I stop loss in time?