Don't miss the person you really like because of the episode in your heart.
In love, sometimes because of the differences in family background, education and face value, two people will feel that they are not worthy of him in the process of getting along. In fact, this can be said to be a small activity in their hearts. But this still can't stop you from wanting to further develop with him, because in your heart, you find that he is the best person you have ever met.
You think so, but what does he think? Does he also think that a good man like him, after meeting you and finding you, doesn't think you deserve him? If that's the case, then why does he have to get along with you? Can't he find the right one? In fact, he also saw the bright spot in you. Some of your characteristics meet his criteria for choosing a spouse. He thinks you are not bad and worth knowing more, so he will choose to get along with you. So please cherish this hard-won fate.
Never let the other person feel stressed or uncomfortable and unhappy with him because you have such a heart; Acquaintance is a kind of fate.
Faced with this situation, the first thing you have to do is to analyze the reasons for this psychological activity, such as the difference in academic qualifications. You are an ordinary three books, and the other is high flyers 2 1 1 from a key university, so you may feel inferior to him. In fact, with the rapid development of social life, what matters is a person's ability and accomplishment. Who says that graduate students' working ability will be better than undergraduate students? In today's society, if you don't persist in learning and accept new knowledge, you will be eliminated by society one day, even if your education is high, what's the use! Life should keep learning and exploring in a certain aspect and enjoy the fun brought by "fresh blood". Maybe he can make you improve quickly, and gradually you won't have this idea anymore.
Of course, you can also boldly tell him this idea, so that the pressure in your heart will be relieved, and secondly, maybe he can help you solve this knot.
In fact, there is no match between people, only whether it is appropriate; If two people whose family conditions and academic qualifications are matched again do not know how to be humble and empathetic in life, what's the use of matching again? It's better to find someone who suits you, understands that you love you, and knows how to get along, so there will be a lot less trivial things in life.
Imagine if two people are similar in all aspects, is it necessary to be together! After all, the rest of your life is still long. Helping each other, understanding each other and respecting each other are the true meaning of life! In this way, there will be no lack of fun in life. Maybe because of a mistake in your life, it will become a joke in your future memories. Why not?