Therefore, if someone needs to do paternity test in real life, it will definitely lead to some gossip.
If one appraisal is not enough to solve the problem and more participants are needed, then this matter will naturally ferment into a "scandal".
I saw such an incredible real event on the Internet.
1995, Ma Bao took five men for paternity test to find the father of the child, and the result was unexpected.
Xiaomei is a post-95 girl. Because of her sweet looks and decent clothes, she has many suitors in her life.
Xiaomei enjoys the feeling of being in love. From campus to the workplace, she had countless boyfriends. Maybe her love life is rough. Although Xiaomei is serious about every relationship, she can't escape after all.
Xiaomei was depressed for a long time after breaking up with her last boyfriend. During this time, she began to indulge herself, often clubbing and dating different men. In the face of strangers' flattery, Xiaomei refused.
After playing for half a year, Xiaomei accidentally discovered that she was pregnant in a physical examination.
For many unmarried girls, this situation is either to get married as soon as possible or to go to the hospital to solve this problem.
Xiaomei reasoned and finally decided to give birth to the baby, but there was a big problem that she didn't know which of her many boyfriends was her father.
To this end, Xiaomei thought of the most scientific paternity test method.
By judging the time, Xiaomei took five boyfriends to the paternity test center.
These five ex-boyfriends are also rare and affectionate. They said that after the results came out, whoever was the father of the child would marry Xiaomei and go home, and neither of them would mind Xiaomei's love history.
After waiting for a long time, the result finally came out, but it is amazing that these five ex-boyfriends are not related to the children in Xiaomei's belly at all!
Xiaomei thought of her sixth ex-boyfriend in a panic. The former is the manager of a foreign trade company, with decent work and generous hands.
After receiving a call from Xiaomei, he said that he could cooperate with the appraisal, but this matter could not be made public because he had a family and children.
Sure enough, the sixth predecessor was really the father of Xiaomei's child, but in the face of this result, the other party only gave Xiaomei compensation for mental damage and asked Xiaomei to write a letter of guarantee so that she would never disturb her life again.
Xiaomei posted her story on the Internet sadly. She wanted to berate love rat, but she was disappointed. Netizens said that girls who don't love themselves really don't deserve sympathy. This ending is entirely of my own making.
"Private life is so messy, there is no need to sympathize. If you are a self-loving girl, how can love rat get close? "
"Young people are so casual now? Even the father of the child is not sure, and he dares to have a child. I really don't know where I got the courage. "
"A friend of mine is a paternity tester. He said that this situation is increasing. In the past, it was rare to find one in ten, and now there will be one in three or four. "
Nowadays, with the progress of society and the renewal of culture, many young people are much more open-minded than before.
However, this change in thinking has both advantages and disadvantages. For girls, if they live too casually and don't know how to respect themselves, they will eventually pay for their mistakes.
As parents, how to avoid this kind of thing?
1, teach children to respect themselves.
Only when one has self-respect and self-love can others feel your beauty.
Parents need to let their children know that even if they have a good impression on a person, they should stick to their bottom line. If a girl can even lose her self-esteem for so-called "love", then this relationship will not last long.
Similarly, self-love is also a rule that a girl must adhere to, such as learning to protect her body before she is a minor and behaving appropriately in public.
Only by restraining your behavior and finding the right emotional outlet can you get a good relationship.
2. Let children know how to protect themselves.
We often say: girls should protect themselves outside.
Every girl is eager for love and wants to spend her life with the person she likes, so it is easy to make some irrational choices in the process of love, but in fact she is unable to bear the consequences.
Therefore, as parents, we should give our children correct sex education from an early age, let them learn to protect themselves and tell them what ways to avoid risks.
Tell the child that her parents will always be her strong backing.
In real life, many girls get pregnant before marriage and secretly have abortions without telling their parents. The reason is fear of facing the reprimand of parents, which also sets off the alienation of parent-child relationship from the side.
As parents, we need to tell our children that no matter what difficulties they encounter in life, they can turn to their parents for help, and their parents will always be their strongest backing.
In addition, parents themselves need to change the way of educating their children, and the repressive and stick-like educational attitude will make children farther and farther away from us.