Jun Jun said that if she knew that one day she would divorce, she should retort when her mother-in-law spoke to her in a strange way. It is not the peace of the family that bears the burden of humiliation, but that the husband's family does not understand her. This home without temperature has made her completely desperate.
Jun Jun and her husband met when they went out to work. After marriage, they planned not to have children for the time being, but the children came unexpectedly. After agreeing to give birth to a child, taking care of the child became the biggest headache for Jun Jun.
Jun Jun's parents' income is not high, and her younger brother and sister need to take care of her. Her husband's parents just retired, and there is no burden at home. So Jun Jun negotiated with her husband. At present, they can only go to her husband's parents' house for help
Jun Jun heard her husband say a lot to her mother-in-law on the phone. She has guessed her mother-in-law's reluctance, and now they can only turn to her husband's family for help, otherwise she will be a housewife completely.
Returning to her mother-in-law's house the next day, her husband found a job again, and Jun Jun's biggest trouble was finally solved. Jun Jun told her husband that the living expenses at home must not be less, otherwise she would be sad.
However, my husband said, since he once became a member of her family and gave birth to his children, what is there to be polite to his parents? My husband's point of view is that their conditions are not very good now, and his parents' retirement salary is not bad. They just want to relax for a while, but it's not in vain. He will pay it back sooner or later when the job is stable.
These words of my husband are only for Jun Jun, but Jun Jun doesn't know what her mother-in-law will think, so she guesses her mother-in-law's tricks all day.
Jun Jun heard that her mother-in-law often complained to her neighbors in the community that she had just retired and had not had time to have a good rest, so she had to walk around and serve the next generation. It's a little unwilling. Hearing this, Jun Jun was thinking that her mother-in-law must have said this to her. She said that just to make Jun Jun feel guilty. She made her mother-in-law lose her relaxed and free life after retirement and increased her burden.
Jun Jun knew that this mother-in-law who was very enthusiastic about her appearance was very reluctant to let her and her husband come back to take refuge with them. No wonder her husband talked on the phone for a long time that day. Maybe her husband finally begged her to let go.
Jun Jun was embarrassed by her mother-in-law's behavior. She wants to separate her mother-in-law's house, but a pregnant woman who is pregnant for three months can hardly take care of herself. Now she can only be wronged.
What really chilled Jun Jun was that her mother-in-law went to her sister-in-law's house and brought my son a beautifully packaged dress when she came back, but what she brought back to Jun Jun was a poorly-made T-shirt in a plastic bag. The next morning, Jun Jun saw the same model in the morning market.
Jun Jun thought that her mother-in-law wanted her son to come back to me, but she didn't want to take care of anyone. Even my future grandson feels that I don't owe anyone and basically don't want to sacrifice myself to help a large family.
Jun Jun felt a chill, and there was no temperature in the house. Mother-in-law treats her as an outsider and can barely cook her a meal. She is like a parasite rejected by people. For now, she can only endure, endure her mother-in-law's displeasure, endure her mother-in-law's serious quirks, and endure everything that should be endured as a parasite.
The wind in June brought a heat wave, and Jun Jun touched his eight-month-old belly. She wants her husband to take her for a walk in the park. She has been in a state of pregnancy reaction since she became pregnant. It was not until eight months ago that she gradually got better. She had a big appetite before she took a bite. Every day, her mind is full of all kinds of delicious food. As long as she wants to eat, she wants to eat in my mouth at once.
That day, Jun Jun and her husband passed a barbecue buffet on their way back from the park. Jun Jun tried to swallow saliva, but he still can't control his appetite.
She took her husband by the hand and walked to the barbecue shop, but he stopped her.
Seeing her husband's embarrassment, she asked if she was reluctant to spend the money to invite her to a barbecue. Her husband told the truth. He said that her mother-in-law told him every day that she should learn to live, not spend money indiscriminately, spend money on the cutting edge and not eat out all the time. Is the food in the restaurant more delicious than that at home?
Jun Jun is guessing again that her mother-in-law must blame her for spending money indiscriminately, but it's like she had a good meal and survived that difficult eight months before she got so little happiness. She felt that there was no reason for anyone to refuse her request.
Looking at her husband's reluctance, Jun Jun knew that her mother-in-law had brainwashed him. He stood there like a stake nailed to the ground. He said that if she really wanted to eat, she could buy some meat and roast it for the whole family to eat. Jun Jun didn't want to say anything. She only felt that she had never been so wronged. If it were her family, where would she be wronged?
Jun Jun kept this injustice to himself. She knows she can't be willful. Even if she forces her husband to go in, she will lose her appetite. Everything is waiting for the birth of the baby.
However, Jun Jun did not expect that after the child was born, her mother-in-law said to Jun Jun, "I just retired and don't want to take care of your child!" Jun Jun was unhappy, so she chose to live in her mother-in-law's house.
Is to be able to throw the child to her mother-in-law after the child is born, but later she learned that the understanding reached by her husband and mother-in-law is that her mother-in-law can take care of Jun Jun until the child is born, and after the child is born, Jun Jun can take care of herself, and her mother-in-law and father-in-law spend their old age quietly and don't want to take care of the child.
Jun Jun was a little angry at her husband's confession. She said that her husband's family are selfish people and never consider other people's feelings. When children need help, it is their duty for the elderly to step forward.
This sentence angered her husband and mother-in-law. They told Jun Jun that no one owes anyone in this world, and everyone has the right to choose their own way of life. Jun Jun's words were very serious. Her mother-in-law and family were very uncomfortable. Jun Jun's husband decided not to tolerate her unreasonable behavior any more.
After several unsuccessful attempts at mediation, Jun Jun and her husband went through the divorce formalities.
Regarding divorce, Jun Jun always thinks that her mother-in-law is too selfish, but her husband is right. In this world, parents don't owe their children, they have their own lives, and it is cruel to force them to pay and sacrifice for their children.