The more incompetent a man is, the more restrained he is;
The more successful a husband is, the more he knows how to love his wife.
The measure of a man's reliability is not how beautiful he is externally, but his attitude towards the people closest to him.
Conversely, a wife nourished by marriage will also improve a man's luck.
Therefore, the more capable a man is, the more he knows how to treat his wife. The better you treat your wife, the more successful your career will be.
Once I was eating in a restaurant near my home, and there was a young couple with their children next to me.
When the food is served, the man raises his chopsticks and eats by himself.
The wife next to her, while looking for a waiter to take a chair, can only pull twice between meals.
When the children are almost fed and clamored to play with them, the wife will let her husband take care of the children for a while and eat a few mouthfuls by himself.
After dinner, her husband finally looked up and shouted:
"Eat and eat, you know how to eat, eat so much, and you need help with a child."
His wife's face suddenly became ugly, and the eyes of people around him fell on her. She endured it and never spoke again.
The food on the table is cold, all leftovers. She opened her mouth and said angrily, no, go home.
It can be seen that she is suppressing her inner anger in order not to embarrass her husband.
There is a way for husband and wife to get along, and the wife should save face for her husband.
This sentence is not entirely correct. Respect is mutual, so is saving face.
They are proud adults, husbands need them, and wives are of course indispensable.
It is conceivable that a husband who doesn't give his wife face outside will not give his wife a good face at home.
When a husband makes his wife unhappy, it actually affects the fate of the whole family.
Actress Christina once shared a painting of her son in Weibo.
The son also told her that she was embarrassed:
"You have a bad temper recently. Looking at pictures, reading books, listening to music and drinking tea are good for your health. Mom is good, I am good, and my mother is safe! "
Christina was a little stunned when she heard this sentence. She thought she was hiding those bad emotions, but she didn't expect her son to find out.
In fact, a wife is the soul of a family.
An unhappy wife is influenced not only by herself but also by the people around her.
A happy wife is the premise of a happy family. Only when the wife's mood rises can she bring positive feedback to the people around her.
She should be respected, which is not only the responsibility of the husband, but also the right that the wife should enjoy.
I once heard a family tell me about my personal experience.
He said he didn't lack anything. He collected rent by moonlight and earned more than 10,000 yuan a month.
"As long as my wife is obedient, I don't have to do anything all my life."
Many people have doubts after hearing this. Is this the nanny at home? However, people who earn more than 10,000 yuan a month seem reluctant to hire a nanny.
When asked about his family, he also has two children. The oldest is six years old and the other is three years old.
When the two children grow up to such a big age, their wives are taking care of them alone.
Sleep, nurse, dress and play with children. ...
It also includes the family's food and drink, Lazar, and the wife is solely responsible for it.
My husband watches TV and plays games every day. Recently, he has a new hobby, fishing.
Middle-aged men are greasy and he takes them all.
Speaking of this, he also said to everyone: "My wife has never done anything since she married our family."
Every time at this time, my wife will pick up at the back: "I haven't taken a day off since I married them."
Once, his wife was washing dishes in the kitchen, and the child fell in front of him. He didn't even lift it when he was buried in his mobile phone.
It is this little thing that makes my wife unbearable. She would rather leave home clean than divorce him resolutely.
Husband not only refused to divorce, but also very think impassability:
"After so many years of marriage, I didn't let her go to work for a day. I have a big temper, but I never hit her. I don't have to worry about food and clothes at home. I never have to worry about money. How can I live ... "
This kind of marriage has one characteristic: the husband is happy, but the wife is just the opposite.
A wife should be a lifelong companion. She is not a cleaning aunt or a free nanny.
Her contribution should be seen, not ignored, and should be.
In marriage, when a person's efforts are not answered, or even taken for granted, in the long run, this person's enthusiasm begins to wither.
Director Ang Lee once said: "Husband and wife love each other, that is, to be kind first and then to love. Only by thanking each other for their kindness will we love each other more. "
Paying attention to each other's efforts and knowing how to praise and appreciate each other are preservatives for a happy marriage.
My friend A Qiu and her boyfriend have been together for five years, and they have always been very loving. There seems to be no flat period.
Once, her boyfriend worked late, and Ah Qiu was afraid that her boyfriend was hungry, so she made soup and sent it to the company.
We are all joking with her, being so kind to our boyfriend, be careful that he runs away.
Ah Qiu confidently said every time that he was not such a person.
Ah Qiu is so determined because her boyfriend gave her enough sense of security.
It turns out that she is a casual person and always does things so-so. She was scolded by her parents countless times when she was a child, but she has never changed.
Once when she was painting, she accidentally spilled a dish of paint on the canvas. Just when she was at a loss, a boy next to her said that the paint was just enough to draw a good watercolor painting.
Ah Qiu said, "It's warm all at once."
After being together, she is still in a daze. Her boyfriend not only doesn't think she is unreliable, but thinks she is cute.
Her little mistake, for him, has become infinite tolerance and interesting romance.
More interestingly, when Aqiu's mistakes are tolerated, she seldom makes mistakes.
Zhou said in "Settle Your Heart": "Love is love without reason and tolerance without preconditions."
People who don't love you always criticize you for not doing well enough;
People who love you feel that no one can replace you, no matter what you do;
A qualified lover is like this. No matter what the outside world says or does, I will always be the most solid force behind you.
It is great luck for a person to meet a tolerant partner and live a life of "you make trouble, he laughs".
After listening to it, I feel very reasonable:
"Look at a family's happiness index, don't look at her family's money and housing rights, her children's grades are good, and her husband doesn't work hard.
Just look at one thing, that is, whether the hostess of this family is happy or not. "
The happiness of the wife determines the temperature of the whole family. A clever man knows how to be kind to his wife, which shows a man's ability and pattern.
You never have to worry about being nice to your wife. It's no use.
Because a woman is such a magical creature, she gave Qiong Yao a peach in return. You treat her well, and she pays you back.
A husband knows how to cherish and love, and a wife will always return more.
Click "Look". Only the stupidest husband is bad to his wife, and the smart man gives this woman better love.
Su Shanshan, not sensible, can only tell stories.
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The above is about the marriage of horses and chariots, and it is about the sharing of marriage. I hope this will help everyone who has finished watching Marriage with a Horse!