Theoretically, it is desirable for both parties to sacrifice equal rationality, because such a marriage will not fail after taking some materials, on the contrary, it will maintain the balance and stability of love and marriage.
But marriage and life are the same, there is no blind equality, only who loves more. People who love more are more or less losers. If they keep a backward and forbearing attitude, the final marriage will be fragmented and go to the bottomless abyss.
Duoduo and Ayong met while working part-time. Because of the same position, they soon became friends. Duoduo is a student majoring in tourism management, so the whole person is very sunny and cheerful, and Ayong is a boy in the computer department. As for the whole person, he is not much different from this department. He is calm and analytical, but not very good at communication. So many times it is blossoming that has been looking for topics to promote communication between them.
Probably because the blossoming looks are ok and the personality is good, it has won the favor of many boys. And Ayong because get along for a long time, for this lively and lovely girl, he is also full of curiosity, there is a kind of unspeakable wonderful feeling.
Until one day, the student union held a fashion show competition, and Ayong was lucky enough to be an audience. He is not interested in such boring formal activities. At the moment he saw the name of blossoming, he still walked into the meeting.
At that time, everyone was absorbed in rehearsal and paid no special attention to anything. The whole stage is noisy and noisy. Just then, Ayong's eyes suddenly caught a glimpse of the confident and sparkling flowers on the stage. At first glance, his heart seemed to explode.
From then on, Ayong began to pursue blossoming in his clumsy way. At the end of the term, he helped draw the key points, sorted out the review materials, made an appointment to go to the library to read books, and even sent a lipstick, which was big pink, which made blossoming very depressed.
But to be honest, it's not all bad for blossoming. At least Ayong used her familiar skills at some special moments to help Duoduo recover information and help her adjust and make entries.
Clumsy Ayong likes to bloom clumsily. When she had a stomachache, it was Ayong who ran around the infirmary, buying all kinds of medicines, which was really incomprehensible. However, it was this spirit of frustration and courage that touched the blossoming, and finally decided to stay with Ayong. Although she is not good at communication, she is trustworthy, which shows that Ayong's heart can only accommodate her.
Out of courtesy, blossoming and Ayong confessed their family situation in advance, and there was a younger brother in high school. Because they have never quarreled since childhood, they are very close, so they send a large part of their part-time money to their younger brother for fear that his hard-working brother in high school will be exhausted and forget to take care of himself.
Ayong, shrouded in the aura of love, has no time to take care of other things. For him, this practice is a responsible and just femininity, which deserves praise and has not been taken to heart. And in life, Ayong also innuendo funding blossoming. Find an award-winning reason to invite Duo Duo to dinner today, and find a scholarship reason to take Duo Duo out to play tomorrow. In short, you can make blossoming pay less, so let her pay less. At least your family is rich, not as difficult as blossoming.
After graduating from college, Ayong opened a small shop with the help of his family, but blossoming didn't like this lifestyle very much, but they couldn't live without Ayong, so they had to live together, and they had different jobs. As usual, I paid most of my money to my younger brother, but I was frugal.
Ayong, who lives together, can't stand it. He used the money he earned from opening a shop to buy beautiful bags, beautiful clothes and suitable lipsticks for blossoming. In a word, he wants to leave everything to blossoming. Blossoming is also devoted to Ayong, considerate, gentle and considerate, and always melts Ayong's heart again and again.
It's finally time to talk about marriage. Both parents can see that they have deep feelings and have been together for a long time, and they have a clear understanding of each other's personalities. They are not opposed to the marriage and are discussing how to arrange it.
Blossoming and Ayong naturally don't want to be mixed with the adult's decision, so they left together. Lying in bed late at night, Ayong suddenly asked blossoming what plans she had for her married life. The blossoming is also unambiguous, saying that he has no plans to get pregnant. After all, her career is on the rise and her health is not very good. If she is pregnant, it will not only bring happiness to her life, but also be very tired. Ayong also recognized the blossoming words. Although his family is enough to support them to have children, it is really a blow to the career of blossoming, and there is no more to say.
Unexpectedly, things suddenly ushered in another ending on that day. At first, Ayong was busy with her work and didn't pay much attention to the discussion between her parents. On this day, he also opened the door to go home as usual. As soon as he entered the room, he heard blossoming say to his parents, "The wedding gift is 300,000 yuan, and I will have children when my brother graduates from college." This made Ayong suddenly surprised. He thought about the bride price money, but he didn't want that much, because his parents used the money for themselves.
Besides, the reason why blossoming wants 300,000 yuan is actually for the younger brother. Thinking about the doting on my brother for so long, plus his support again and again, it will be ok in the short term. In fact, blossoming wants to tie his younger brother to his marriage. Looking at the sad eyes of white-haired parents, Ayong suddenly understood something. "Sorry, I can't afford to marry." Ayong suddenly appeared in front of blossoming, pulling her parents away and never looking back.
In fact, Ayong knew how much he loved his younger brother, but he didn't expect to love too much. After getting married, he didn't know how much it affected his life. Ayong's reason pulled herself back. Later, she married an ordinary woman, and her relationship with blossoming also went away.
For a marriage relationship, it is reasonable to give consideration to parents and family, but if the degree has seriously affected the marriage life, it is time to seriously think about it. After all, although marriage is a matter of two families, it is more of a small world and a small harbor for two people, which can't accommodate too many people to share or share love.
Choosing a suitable person to get married is often more realistic than choosing a person who only has love. A happy marriage is more about mutual tolerance than unilateral tolerance can solve the problem. Consider the problem comprehensively before marriage, avoid making a wrong decision and regret it for life.