In the words of Xiao Ai and her husband, this is to make the couple work harder. In addition, it is a pity to have a provident fund. These words make her husband's family very happy.
But privately, Xiao Ai spoke his mind: "If his family buys a house in full, my name will definitely not be on the real estate license, so I will have to pay for the living expenses. These are all invisible money. If we divorce in the future, the house as pre-marital property has nothing to do with me. Basically, it belongs to the end, and I will never suffer this loss. "
It is true that the biggest and most valuable property of ordinary couples is this house. If the husband buys a house in full before marriage, the pressure on the couple's life will be less after marriage, but it is too dangerous for the wife.
In fact, I am very much in favor of Xiao Ai's behavior. On the one hand, she has a sense of hardship, on the other hand, she does not take advantage of her husband's family, and she is always in a fair state for her husband's family and herself.
But some people are not like this. In marriage, they not only don't want to suffer, but always want to take advantage.
As everyone knows, this is the means of "stealing chickens and not eating rice".
Not long ago, netizen Lele contributed to me, saying that she had planned to marry her boyfriend, but his boyfriend kept thinking about his house. Suddenly, she found that this man was too calculating, and Lele broke up in a rage.
Lele and her boyfriend have been in love for two years and have always had a good relationship. Two people rarely quarrel because of trivial matters. The boyfriend looks personable and humorous, and Lele and he go straight to the point of talking about marriage. The two families have similar economic conditions and are suitable for each other. For this marriage, both parents are also happy to see it.
Before marriage, my boyfriend's family prepared to pay a down payment to buy a wedding room, and the result was suddenly restricted. My boyfriend suddenly lost the qualification to buy a house, because it takes more than 1 year to settle in the local area or five years to pay social security. When her boyfriend told Lele that she couldn't buy a house, Lele's parents were also very reasonable, saying that since her boyfriend didn't have the qualification to buy a house, she didn't have to buy a wedding room, but just used the three-bedroom and two-bedroom house that Lele's parents bought for Lele five years ago as a wedding room. The two families decorate together and buy furniture and appliances together. Don't give him a bride price. It's good to buy a car at Lele's house and marry him.
At first, my boyfriend agreed and supported Lele's parents' decision, and even thanked Lele's parents for their understanding. But as a result, he went home to discuss with his parents and told Lele that the house that Lele's parents bought for Lele was bought five years ago, when it was bought in full 1.5 million. So his parents proposed to give Lele's parents 800,000 yuan at home to decorate the house and buy furniture and home appliances, but the boyfriend wanted half of the property rights. Lele was surprised at her boyfriend's request.
Lele and Lele's parents disagree, because the market price of the house has reached 5 million now. It is impossible for my boyfriend's family to give 800 thousand yuan and want to occupy half of the property rights. However, the boyfriend's parents insisted that the price of the house went up again, and Lele's family only bought it 1.5 million, giving Lele's family half of the 800,000 property rights. Lele's family didn't lose money at all, and earned 50,000 more. The boyfriend's words really surprised Lele. Lele didn't expect him to calculate Lele's premarital room like this.
Boyfriend's parents insisted on giving 800,000 yuan, accounting for half of the property rights. Lele's parents saw Lele embarrassed and compromised again. They suggested that the decoration of the house and the purchase of home appliances were all paid by Lele's family, and it was impossible to add a name and enjoy the house without the money of her boyfriend's family. This is Lele's premarital property. In addition, Lele's parents also said no bride price. Lele brought100000 cash for her own use, and the car was bought by her boyfriend's house. According to such conditions, you can tie it if you can, and you can't tie it if you can't. After hearing Lele's parents' words, her boyfriend quarreled with Lele for a long time.
Looking at her boyfriend who clamored for half the property rights of the house, Lele suddenly felt that this person was very strange. At the beginning, he kept saying that he loved Lele, but now he wants half of the property rights of Lele's family, and blames Lele's parents for being selfish. Lele was completely disappointed in him this time. Lele told her boyfriend that I wouldn't get married. As for his family, I asked who wanted half the property rights. Anyway, Lele won't marry him without a bottom line.
Such boyfriends and in-laws are really calculating.
what do you think?
Many relationships end with money, and some money can be ignored too much. But in the case of Lele, the man's family openly takes advantage of Lele's family, that is, playing Lele's family as a monkey.
First of all, after the boyfriend was restricted from buying, the Lele family decided to use the house bought for Lele a few years ago as a wedding room. The market price of the house has been different in the past five years, but the boyfriend still asked for half of the property rights according to the original purchase amount. I really can't say anything except that they are shameless.
In fact, under the condition of Lele, it may be okay for a boyfriend to buy a house without his own house signature. However, at home, he has always chosen to make concessions for his daughter's happiness, while the man's family has always been pushing his luck.
This explains two reasons.
First, the man's family has no basic respect for Lele.
Lele got married and didn't ask the other party to buy a house, but also paid a dowry. She just asked the other party to buy a car, and presumably this car will be driven by her boyfriend in the future, which means that she doesn't have to ask her boyfriend for a penny and give her daughter-in-law a house for free.
However, the man's family not only has no gratitude, but also continues to take advantage. This is contempt for Lele's love, that is, disrespect. In the eyes of the man's family, interest is more important than Lele.
Second, the man's family style is not good.
Lele's parents have made the biggest concession for their daughter's smooth marriage, and left the house for the bride price, but they didn't ask for the bride price.
The man's family only thinks about himself, being smart and using his head. He not only wants to marry his wife for nothing, but also wants to use the property rights of 800,000 houses, accounting for 5 million. Such a loving family can be seen in his family style.
So Lele decided to break up with each other. I can only say that this is very wise.
As the old saying goes, "Men are afraid of getting into the wrong business, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong person."
The most important thing in a woman's life is marriage, and she must not be careless.
Therefore, when all the dust has not settled, it is right to know a man's character and stop the loss in time.
As a woman, polishing your eyes before marriage is an eternal good word. Women would rather not get married than enter the wrong marriage.