During the 11th holiday, we took our children back to our parents-in-law's house. Before we ate our meal, my mother-in-law began to complain. It is not enough to say that she has no money and even took out the coffin book in order to buy a house for her brother-in-law. After a long detour, my mother-in-law finally gave us 200 thousand, saying that it is the responsibility of my brother and sister to help my brother-in-law get married and start a family.
Hehe, my mother-in-law is really funny. Open your mouth to 200 thousand. Do you think her eldest son owns a bank? I refused this unreasonable request directly. My mother-in-law has never given up, scolding my husband and me, saying that we are heartless and heartless, and that it doesn't matter that her youngest son can't marry a daughter-in-law! I was angry and said directly, "That's your son, not mine. Did your eldest son buy a house when he got married? The youngest son wants a house and let him earn it himself! "
My husband kept his head down and didn't speak. He talked to me about this problem two days ago, saying that his brother was getting married and we had to help. I agreed without thinking. If we are short of money, we can put this 32 thousand yuan on the mat first. At that time, my husband said with a smile, wife, you are so kind! I really don't value money very much. Although my parents are either rich or expensive, they are my only daughter and naturally try their best to give me the best.
When I married my husband, he couldn't afford a house. I think as long as he is kind to me and material conditions are secondary, I am willing to rent a house and work with him. My parents couldn't stand it, so they paid the down payment for us and repaid the loan together after marriage. It's not that our family has money, but that my parents are too distressed to watch us live a hard life.
The house was bought before marriage, and the mortgage should be paid together. Once I suggested that my husband and I add his name to the new house. But my husband said to let your family make a down payment, and I feel guilty already. Just write your name. After listening to her husband's words, I was particularly moved and felt that I had not married the wrong person. As time goes on, my husband becomes more and more unbalanced. I guess he also listened to the encouragement of his in-laws. He felt that the house had to be returned without his name, and his heart was very unbalanced.
Especially after giving birth to a child, the contradiction between my mother-in-law and me became more and more obvious, and the idea of son preference was at work. They don't care about my daughter at all. Not only that, they also said something similar to a girl film outside the words, which made me very unhappy. Having children has alienated my parents-in-law. I seldom take my children back except for the Chinese New Year, and my daughter and grandparents are not close.
Hearing that I refused to give 200 thousand, my mother-in-law got angry and threw chopsticks at me and cursed: "What are you?" I gave birth to a little girl who hasn't been to work for several years. Didn't my son earn all the money at home? Who are you to object? Even if you get a loan, you have to give my youngest son 200 thousand! Otherwise, let my son divorce you and take your daughter away! "
My daughter is only over three years old, and she was scared to cry by her mother-in-law. My husband still hasn't said a word. I see through this timid man, but life is not bad! My mother-in-law can throw chopsticks and I can lift the table! As soon as I picked up my daughter, I reached out and knocked over some plates on the table. I told them clearly, "My family married the house and I brought up the children myself. Even if I want a divorce, who do you say should I roll? " Hearing this, my husband looked up and glared at me angrily. When my in-laws heard me say this, they suddenly lost confidence.
I hugged my daughter and left without looking back. When I was about to leave home, I heard my mother-in-law shouting in the room, "This uneducated woman, divorce her!" " Out of this door, my heart died. I thought I married love, but now it's still because of money. After returning home, I drafted a divorce agreement. I won't lose money to my husband. He can give money to his brother to get married, but the house and daughter must belong to me. Anyway, it is a daughter, and her husband is not rare.
The agreement was left to him, and her husband was dumbfounded and shouted that it was unfair to him. I think it's fair. After getting married, my husband didn't give less money to his in-laws. He usually gave living expenses and gave red envelopes for Chinese New Year holidays and birthdays. And brother-in-law, his husband bought all the mobile phones and computers he uses now, and I haven't paid attention to this part yet.
My husband still wants to cheat, apologize to me for a while, and call himself a bad thing for a while. In short, he said he didn't want a divorce. But I really don't want to live it. What this man did to me and my daughter broke my heart. Brother-in-law and in-laws can never fill a bottomless pit. I will never be soft this time. I gave him an ultimatum. Either I sign the divorce papers and we go together, or I'll wait for a court summons!